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Why do some people naturally hate stupid people?
Hello, everyone, I'm negative Xuan, and the following is my answer.

Smart people are given by heaven. What they do, they can see at a glance and understand at once. This is a high IQ given by God. Therefore, such people have the ability and clear choices, and there are few wrong intersections on the road of life. Such people are successful leaders in career, family and love. They-they reject the unintelligent people from the bone marrow and hate those stupid people.

When I was in college, Xiaoli in the dormitory was a person with a high IQ, while Xiao Min in the dormitory was very dull, and Nuo Nuo was always confused. Xiaoli doesn't like her very much. Every time I talk to her, she feels very, very hard. If she tells someone something, the other person will immediately understand the meaning, but Xiao Min digress. When choosing the employment direction, everyone chose a very popular industry, but Xiao Min didn't choose very actively, thinking that he could find a good job as a college student. As a result, a large number of fresh graduates poured in the next year, and she was eliminated. An undergraduate can only go to the sales industry of junior high school students.

It really hurts. Poor people must be hateful, which is why some people. Born to hate these idiots.

This is simple, because he can't accept his stupidity! The more annoying a person is, the more he judges, and the more annoying he is, basically he can't accept this part of himself. So this kind of performance is like a mirror, which makes it easier to see what you or others are resisting and why you can't accept your whole self. For example, they admit that they also have selfish side, stingy side and cowardly moment. Only when they allow themselves (permission here is not laissez-faire, but seeing this and surpassing it) can they do so.

Only light without darkness, only beauty, without flaws, a person is incomplete. If you want to be better, it is a prerequisite to recognize and accept your own darkness.

"Why do some people naturally hate stupid people?"

First of all, I will talk about my own point of view from the literal meaning of this sentence:

First, no one is born with the function of hating anyone. If so, then this person may go down in history as a baby.

Every baby is born with instinct, cute and cute, and everyone wants to hug and kiss when they see it. Half a year ago, they all laughed aimlessly (everyone laughed when they saw it), which almost broke everyone's heart. This is a natural survival instinct given to babies by nature.

Second, the definition of stupidity

I especially like to read topics with psychological "situational behavior" and "relational framework".

All actions need to look at the circumstances. With who?

For example, in the story of Su Dongpo and Fo Yin in history, Fo Yin in Su Dongpo's eyes is a mass of cow dung, while Su Dongpo in Buddha's eyes is a flower.

On the surface, Fo Yin looks stupid. In fact, from the perspective of psychological projection, only those who have flowers in their hearts will think of flowers.

Third, why do you hate stupid people?

It doesn't really matter who you hate. Whether this person is really stupid remains to be verified, and it doesn't matter.

What matters is your relationship with hatred.

You hate this man and think he is stupid. What is the need behind hating this matter?

Have your expectations not been understood or met? Or is it inconvenient for you?

I remember that when former South African President nelson mandela walked out of the prison, he roughly said, "If I live with hatred, then I will walk out of the prison and build a prison in my heart."

Even if we do meet people with physical mental retardation, there is no reason for them to be hated or looked down upon. Life is not easy, why should we make it worse?

I don't think anyone in this world is really stupid, only people who don't say what they say and don't mean what they say. Sadly, they are unable to communicate honestly and truly.

In fact, it is a manifestation of self-lack of patience and self-esteem. If you have time, you can read more books and cultivate more interests, so that your perspective on things will gradually change and your potential self-awareness will gradually recover.

If you want it too much, it will become big, even big enough to become the whole world, occupying all your thoughts. My suggestion is that whether you get what you want or not, you should jump out of it in time and really see its real position in the whole world, that is, its insignificance in infinite time and space. If you get it, you won't get carried away, and if you don't get it, you won't suffer.

The biggest sorrow for adults is that they suddenly understand Lu Xun.

When I was young, everyone yearned for being radiant and stirring, having a heroic dream or a gorgeous princess dream, or wanting to be a chivalrous man, general, emperor, ghost, noble family, or a scientist, soldier or athlete with outstanding contributions. Worst of all, I should be an upright and excellent person with the ability to control my life. What I hate most is the trivial sadness, numbness and indifference in Lu Xun's works.

When teenagers are pushed by time to grow up, they find that there is no crystal palace and heroic sword in the world of adults, only a mess on the ground, and we, who are impartial, have just become what we once hated most.

Contemporary Kong Yiji-Shen Wei

The wandering master Shen Wei became popular on the Internet, and his experience of wandering for more than 20 years was immediately stripped out. The civil servants of the Audit Bureau gave up their jobs, were disheveled and picked up rubbish in the street. He likes history books, likes painting, is knowledgeable and cultured, but what he doesn't have is the dignity of a modern person. He worships literature but has accomplished nothing, but he is not good at promoting garbage sorting.

People who rub the heat happily take pictures around him, and no one respects him from the heart, just like when Kong Yiji walks into the store, the people around him are full of laughter.

Kong Yiji is lazy, kind, lofty and pedantic. He is a down-and-out beggar who is full of "what's wrong with him". He was teased and laughed at by others. He also paid the bill in a proper way when he stole in the bar. He is hungry, and likes to give his children writing and fennel beans.

As long as he is here, the shop is always full of joy. The phrase "How can a scholar's business be called stealing?" The famous words that have become pirated and plagiarized writers have been passed down ridiculously and sadly.

Like Kong Yiji, Shen Wei "makes people happy in this way, but without him, others will do the same".

Master-Shen Wei

How many people have become leap soil?

Campus is the weakest place in the whole society, which makes humble people believe that "knowledge changes fate". Rich boys and powerful girls who are not used to playboy are no different from you. They have classes, play ball games and taste roadside food every day. But three years after graduation, the aristocratic family who used to be nothing like you is sitting in a spacious office, and you need to go through the cubicle and long corridor of the office to see him.

You stood in front of him, bowed your head, handed in the report humbly, and called "Manager". At that moment, you remembered "Grandpa" that Runtu addressed to your childhood playmates.

Runtu used to be a lively, sincere and witty boy. He grew up happily in Gua Tian, where there is snow and a vast seaside. He feels at ease and should do something unusual. However, the environment and experience of growing up highlighted his poverty and humbleness, and his courage and spirit could not help him break the class limitations. He was gradually ground down, bent his back and became a slave to life. And those who succumb to fate are never just leap soil, but also how many you, me and him.

From juvenile spirit to humility, how many people have become a sad leap forward soil.

How many people have become ah q

Your leader is a man of talent and virtue. He put forward some unrealistic ideas and asked you to carry them out without hesitation. Of course, the effect is not good. Your colleague was caught as a typical example and was severely criticized at the meeting. But he was too angry to make any noise, and nodded in frustration to admit his mistake. During the break, he was filled with indignation in front of people, cursing the unreasonable plan and the unpractical leadership, and no one came forward to refute it.

Finally, he said with a sigh of relief, "It's not just me. Anyway, everyone is the same. " Then leave quietly. At that moment, a person pops up in your mind-Ah Q-the person who comforts himself while contradicting himself.

Lin Xingzhai commented on Ah Q: simplicity, ignorance and arrogance; Self-esteem and inferiority; Frank, willful and orthodox; Competitive and humiliating obedience; Aversion to power, attachment to situation; Narrow-minded, conservative, blindly following the fashion; Reject heresy and yearn for revolution; Sensitive taboos are numb and forgetful; Arrogance, cowardice and sadness; Not content with the status quo, content with the status quo.

In order to calm the inner contradictions, Ah Q created a set of great and ridiculous spiritual victory methods. This lame figure and lame method of spiritual victory has been teased from the 20th century to the 20th century, and it has been followed up to the 20th century. Sadly, people gradually realize that if they don't learn this spirit, they can't get a foothold in society.

From good to bad and then to rare confusion, how many people have become a lamentable Ah Q.

How many people have become Xianglinsao?

Unfair injustice flows in every corner of the world, and it is always unprepared to fall on one person's head. Breaking up, unemployment, bankruptcy, divorce, death of relatives, terminal illness ... When bad luck strikes a person repeatedly, the sense of powerlessness and injustice is overwhelming.

Torture makes people toss and turn, bitter, depressed and crazy. It seems that only by talking over and over again can the pain in their hearts be alleviated and the hope and vitality be slowly squeezed out. Gradually, when people find trivial complaints, everyone is like Sister Xianglin.

Simple, sincere, diligent and traditional, Sister Xianglin failed to change her destiny by her own efforts. The husband died of illness, and the son was taken away by the wolf and rejected by the employer. She was oppressed by fate and times again and again, became a beggar to whom she complained, and died alone on a snowy night. Everyone felt sorry for her misfortune and angry for her. Ironically, when she was wronged and unfair, most people became her again.

From hating others to resenting depravity, from ordinary people to Xianglinsao, there is only an unfortunate distance.

How many people have become Hua Laoshuan who buys human blood steamed bread and Kang Dashu who sells human blood steamed bread?

On major online platforms and social software, sellers shouted "summary" while launching a frenzy of health care drugs, cosmetics, clothes, snacks, credit and insurance.

10 million netizens are either promoted or become salesmen, and they know nothing about consultation, promotion and communication. It doesn't matter whether the "packaged" products are genuine or not. The important thing is that some people say it is "packaged". The important thing is that it can be exchanged for real money and silver. Interest drives running all the way, whose lies are full of sincerity. Buyers and sellers are like Hua Laoshuan, who buys human blood steamed bread, and Uncle Kang, who sells human blood steamed bread. Some people say that some people believe it.

For Hua Laoshuan, human blood steamed bread is a life-saving medicine with a bag of money. For his son, it is a baked white flour steamed bread. For Uncle Kang, it is a refined and expensive product sold by himself, and its effect is questioned and accused. The words "wrapped" and "wrapped" from left to right, like brainwashing notes, produced an unfounded credibility in the crowd. Businessmen from ancient times to the present are self-centered psychologists.

Nowadays, people don't eat human blood steamed bread, but they accept ruthless salesmen and become ignorant and numb.

Countless people have become "spectators" in Lu Xun's works.

When Kong Yiji was teased, the spectators all laughed; The audience craned their necks when Yu Xia was killed; As soon as Xianglinsao complained, the spectators got tired of laughing and left; Ah Q was kowtowed and teased by idle spectators ... The spectators were indifferent, numb, stupid, vicious and gloating. If there is anything more chilling in this world than Lu Xun's spectator, it is today's spectator.

They asked the people who jumped off the building "why not jump"; Watching the person who was beaten applaud; Ironically, international students killed abroad "deserve it"; Laugh at ordinary people who are hurt by gangsters "silently die"; Cynicism and incitement to right and wrong on the network platform where they don't have to show up ... They have all become spectators in Lu Xun's works, hurting the parties with the most indifferent and cruel words and deeds in real or virtual networks, and everyone has more or less become one of them.

What a sad thing it is that everyone who gropes in society is marked with the shadow of Lu Xun's characters. Fortunately, this era is no longer feudal and decadent, leaving us the opportunity to turn over.

It suddenly dawned on me that I might as well try to listen to Mr. Lu Xun's advice: I hope all the young people in China can get rid of the cold air and go up, instead of listening to those who give up on themselves. What you can do, what you can say. A little heat and light will turn into fireflies, or you can emit a little light in the dark without waiting for the torch light. If there is no torch afterwards: I am the only light.

I wrote an article about the psychological mechanism of animal cruelty before. As the subject said, the psychological mechanism of such groups is similar to that of animal cruelty groups. Their offensive abnormal but "reasonable" expression (please go to my home page article for the explanation of aggression, so I won't go into details here).

Abnormal expression means that they don't express their aggression in normal ways like normal groups, such as social competition. Many reasons are that they have more or less social obstacles and think they can't participate in social activities.

The so-called "rationality" is easy to understand and an interesting psychological mechanism. Generally speaking, persimmons are soft and pinched. This kind of group lacks social competitiveness and turns to launch psychological or physical offensive against the more vulnerable groups, thus achieving the purpose of expressing aggression and gaining a sense of accomplishment.

To sum up: First of all, such people are timid and don't get along with others, so they discriminate against so-called "stupid" people to satisfy their own psychology.

I am also a stupid person who naturally hates non-innate. Some people, if stupid, are mostly' stupid and stubborn' or' stupid and firm'. Therefore, on the one hand, it is more difficult to treat and guide. On the other hand, people generally do not play an active role in social environment and development. However, due to the realistic "self-interest" and social "advantages" in front of us, it is still worth seeing. So its "trend" still depends on its "orientation". Therefore, they are often people who are interested in "eyes" and inclined to "potential", so they are used by them, regardless of rights and wrongs. Therefore, people's social' human values' are generally' bottom values' or even' negative values'. We also have many such people in quantity and quality.

That's his own stupidity, otherwise what does it matter if others are stupid or not? Hatred is a habit and the seed of one's own troubles. It doesn't matter whether others are stupid or smart. Without wisdom, you will hate others.

There is a saying: "It is better to lead a horse for a wise man than to be an ancestor for a fool." A stupid person is also dangerous. If he is light, he will lose his life.

Not born to hate stupid people. From the perspective of cognitive psychology, parents did not give him an equal and trusting environment in the family growth environment, and they have been summing up and thinking too highly of themselves. Under normal circumstances, it will cause a sense of self-superiority, self-esteem or long-term suppressed inferiority complex in the family, which is manifested as a compensatory performance of "looking down on people" outside. Not only often laugh at stupid people, but also may laugh at other aspects.