Song liqing Zhao
Live and be a man among men; Die and become the soul in the soul.
Today, people still miss Xiang Yu because he refused to live and returned to the East.
2. Jingwei, Everything is unfair.
Qinggu Yanwu
Everything is unfair, so why bother?
Grow an inch taller and hold the wood to the end of time?
I am willing to calm the East China Sea, but I will not change my mind.
There is no peace in the sea, and the heart is endless.
Oh! Have you noticed,
There are many birds in the western hills, and magpies come to nest in Yan.
3. "Hu nobody left"
Don Ni Zhong Yi
Men are loyal and don't sell their names on holidays. Hanging on your waist, big songs are useless.
Don't read the warring States books, don't read the Yellowstone classics. Drunk in Xianyang Tower, dreaming of surrender city.
I'd rather have wings and fly into the green ghost. Please take the heavenly sword and disembark from the star.
Naturally, there is no one, although there is no war. Leisure is a classical country, driving sheep away for a lifetime.
4. Three rhymes and three articles
Don du fu
If you don't spit fast, the long fish won't hurt the scales. Insulting horses and chariots, the trapped fish has a god.
You look at an upright man and refuse to change.
Wandering around the ship, like Bai Hong. There was a reward from the beginning, a reward for hanging seats.
Don't put it in the big water unless there is wind.
Martyrs are evil, villains adjust themselves. Fame and fortune are desirable, and death is important.
Cao Qing, an official, made us laugh.
5. "Wako"
Pre-Qin anonymous
How to cut off the handle of an axe? There is no axe to cut. How did you marry that wife? No matchmaker, no marriage.
Chop the handle, chop the handle, this rule is close. To satisfy the girl's face, set the table for food and drink.
2. What are the old sayings that describe "loyalty and filial piety are difficult to be satisfactory"? What are the sages who are filial to their parents: sons are filial and fathers are broad-minded.
[Song] Chen Daxiao admired his parents all his life. [Warring States] Mencius always said filial piety, thinking that filial piety is the only way.
Mencius, the way of Yao and Shun, is filial piety. [Song] Li Gang established a career in poetry and calligraphy, and was filial.
[Qing] Wang Yongbin, heavy feelings, thick burial and thin burial. The virtues of Yan Zi put filial piety first and all evils first.
[Qing] Wang Yongbin's family was poor and filial, while the country was chaotic and loyal. "Celebrity Collection" is pregnant in October, and the three students are rewarded lightly.
Song of Persuading Filial Piety is unfilial and does not waste the skin of human beings. The Song of Persuading Filial Piety was disobedient and unfilial, and as a result, it was rewarded for three generations.
"Song of Persuading Filial Piety" The sheep has the grace of kneeling and nursing, and the crow has the meaning of feeding back. "Zeng Xian Wen" filial piety begets filial son, and disobedience begets disobedience.
"Zeng Xian Wen" Shen En is not ashamed to be a son. In my humble opinion, there is no need to be ashamed of being a man. The virtue of moving heaven is greater than filial piety, and the way to feel things lies in honesty.
[Song] He Zhu, it is better to raise thick at the expense of abundance; It's too late to regret. "Maxim Lian Bi" was a filial piety when he was alive; Being buried thin after returning home is really a good son.
"Proverbs" father is worried about stepmother's abuse, but Luan Jiao will not continue. Mothers are worried about orphans suffering, while widows endure loneliness.
The kindness in Song of Persuading Filial Piety is still feeding back, and the lamb is still kneeling. Vegetation is not as good as people who are not filial to their loved ones.
"Song of Persuading Filial Piety" is unfilial and eats Amagai. Although the world is big, it is difficult to accommodate disobedient people.
Life and death ethics of "Song of Persuading Filial Piety": I recommend Xuanyuan with blood. Lu Xun's life is life, and wealth is in the sky.
The Analects of Confucius is not for princes, but for nobles. It is a natural law that the Book of Changes was born to die.
[Song] Su Shisheng is natural, so is death. Misfortunes are interlinked, and life and death are neighbors.
"Warring States Policy" died of national disaster and sudden death. [Three Kingdoms] Cao Zhi gave birth to a hundred husbands and died a strong man.
[Three Kingdoms] Wang Le men run for righteousness, and they don't sell their names on festivals. [Tang] Nie Jun, looking at an upright person, refused to change his body.
[Tang] Du Fu, a strong man is difficult and difficult, and does not change Ke. [Tang] If you break the mirror, you will not change the light, and if you die, you will not change the fragrance.
[Tang] Meng Jiao, a good horse doesn't study, but a martyr doesn't care about camp. [Tang] Seven feet tall, don't make history.
[Song] Lu You was born as a great man and died as a ghost. [Song] Li Qingzhao loves orchids in the mountains alone, and the incense sticks to death! [Song] Fan Shikong's men were determined to keep it, but they could not kill it.
[Song] Mei, I hope the East China Sea will be calm and remain calm. [Ming] Gu, heaven and earth have courage, and mountains have temples.
[Ming] Gu died in ancient times, but he was not a prophet. [Qing] Yuan Mu's character and virtue: great virtue will lead him all his life.
【 Spring and Autumn Period 】 Kong Qiu is not alone, but there must be neighbors. [Spring and Autumn Period] Kong Qiu yearned for Tao and was based on morality.
【 Spring and Autumn Period 】 Kong Qiu Furun House, Derun Body. [Korea] Dai Sheng Li Yide, followed by Zhu De.
[Song] Take morality as the body and not be confused by things. [Spring and Autumn Period] Guanzhong people can preach, but not preach.
[Spring and Autumn] Kong Qiu Xiaomi Xiaomi is not fragrant, but virtuous and fragrant. 【 Spring and Autumn Period 】 Zuo Qiuming lived in harmony with heaven, but those who went against it died.
[Warring States] Monk got more help from the Tao, but less help from the Tao. [Warring States] Monk didn't do good, but in the end he was great.
A gentleman in Shangshu is virtuous and looks like a fool. [Han] Sima Qian is quiet to cultivate one's morality and frugal to cultivate one's morality.
[The Three Kingdoms] Zhuge Liang is prepared for danger in times of peace, and his virtue is solid. [Don] The Wei Zhi Derby is at the top and wants to compare with the bottom.
[Gold] Fu Xuan is poor without learning and lonely without virtue. [Qing] seeking advice is advised to be good.
[Qing] Wang Yongbin studied in Germany and put it into practice. From the book, kindness is like water, and morality is noble.
Abstract: Virtue is the foundation; Diligence is the foundation of family. In Couplets Collection, virtue is the master of talent and the slave of virtue.
[Ming] Hong Yingming learned Taoism in the morning and evening, and entered Germany in no order. [Ming] Wang Dade's sound travels thousands of miles, and his fame is heavy.
The Book of the Later Han Dynasty respects those who are modest and virtuous, and those who are poor and righteous. [Korea] Jia Yi, the bird lives in the high tree, and the sage tends to it.
[Han] Liu Xiangxi did not accept it from then on, and the ancients were ugly. Just being a moral friend can prolong eternal life.
Wei and Jin Dynasties: Ji Kang Shu Zhide left his love behind before his death. [Tang] Jason Wu, who is not famous for his studies, is really elegant.
Xiu De was rewarded unexpectedly, and his natural dream was safe. "Proverbs hanging on the wall" has nothing to hide from good virtue, while evil greed struggles for shame.
[Spring and Autumn Period] Demi flourished in Kong Qiu, and his virtue was well known. [Korea] Wang Chong's life is full of benevolence and morality, but why is He Lao standing behind him? [Tang] The hero, first of all, is happy when he gives up his daughter to repay his kindness.
Zhang: Those who plant trees must cultivate their roots, while those who cultivate virtues must cultivate their hearts. [Ming] It is better to accumulate wealth and grain in Wang Shouren than to accumulate virtue. It is better to buy books than to buy fields and land.
"Augmented Xianwen" is also growing day by day, and all countries are only interested; Enjoy yourself, nine families are separated. Loyalty and forgiveness in Shangshu are the foundation of benevolence and righteousness; Nihility is the root of chaos.
[Han] Wang Fu, the name disappears, the virtue is long; His body retreated and the road went forward. [Sui] Wang Tong's living water is cold and not frozen; People with virtue are always poor.
[Song] Hu Hongde was born a gentleman because of his talent; He who wins virtue is called a villain. [Song] Sima Guang, frugal and simple, human virtue; Luxury and luxury are the great evils of human beings.
[Ming] Xue Xuan Renyi: No faith, no standing. Kong Qiu: Benevolence is invincible.
[Warring States] Mencius, a gentleman values honesty. Zi (Chunqiu) is learned, but he believes.
[Spring and Autumn Period] Mo Zhai, a gentleman is faithful and does not break his word. The Book of Changes is not far away, so it is difficult to do this.
Ban Gu: Benevolence is rich and righteousness is precious. Chen Shou has no loyalty, and people cannot stand in the world.
[Song] Cheng Yi is rich and heartless, and poor and benevolent. [Warring States] Monk, ill-gotten wealth is like a cloud to me.
[Korean] Sima Qian's benevolent person does not deceive the heart, and the benevolent person does not kill. Liu Xiangxin is the foundation of foundation, and forgiveness is the key to receiving things.
[Qing] Wang Yongbin turtles rise and fall, and benevolence and righteousness have always been a national treasure. [Qing] Zhang Renyi does not cut, his thinking is clear, and his words are not specialized.
【 Spring and Autumn Period 】 Kong Qiu treats people with sincerity, but not with deceit, and with leniency, but without restraint. Mao Zedong is loyal to the festival, and the gentleman is ambitious; It is shameful for an upright person to bow down.
In the Book of Jin, Confucius said benevolence, while Mencius said morality. Benevolence and righteousness are the foundation of being a man. A word spoken is a word that must be honored.
【 Spring and Autumn Period 】 Kong Qiu denied self-denial and restored benevolence. A day of self-denial and self-denial, the world will return to benevolence.
[Spring and Autumn Period] Kong Qiu was a man with lofty ideals. There is no harm in saving, and there is benevolence in death. [Spring and Autumn Period] Kong Qiu, rather than being famous for mediocrity, would rather be poor and raise high.
3. How do you say the poem behind the dilemma of loyalty and filial piety? Loyalty and filial piety have never been satisfactory since ancient times.
Interpretation: since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been a dilemma for the country, and loyalty to the country has followed Yue Fei's example.
This poem was handed down from Yue Fei's period. The poet is unknown. The full text is as follows:
Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been difficult to tolerate, and loyalty to the country has served Yue Fei. Open-minded and heroic, serving the country wholeheartedly and faithfully. Mother-in-law tattooed to show loyalty and praise children through the ages.
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There are many examples of this dilemma between loyalty and filial piety in ancient times:
Yue Fei (1103 ~1142), a native of Tangyin, Xiangzhou, was a famous star in the Song Dynasty. The mother is the most filial and the family is poor. His mother tattooed the words "faithfully serve the country" on his back, and Yue Fei took this as the criterion of life. In the Northern Song Dynasty, the draft was transferred to Zong Ze's command, and the nomadic people were defeated repeatedly. Song Gaozong wrote the word "Zhong Yuefei" in calligraphy and set up a flag to give it. He also defeated Li Cheng, leveled Liu Yu, beheaded Yang Yao, tired officials to Qiu Wei, granted less insurance, and recruited envoys from all walks of life in northern Henan.
In 1 129, Jin Wushu crossed the river and conquered Jiankang. Yue Fei persisted in resisting. The following year, in Yancheng, the "kidnapper" of Jiankang was recovered, and Zhengzhou and Luoyang were recovered. Rebels from two rivers (Huaihe River and Yellow River) responded that they wanted to re-enter Zhuxian Town and cherish the efforts of Premier Qin Gui to make peace.
Yue Fei (165438+March 24th, 003-114265438+1October 27th) was born in Tangyin, Xiangzhou (now tangyin county, Henan). The famous anti-Jin generals, militarists, militarists, national heroes, calligraphers and poets in the Southern Song Dynasty ranked first among the "Four Generals of Zhongxing" in the Southern Song Dynasty.
Yue Fei joined the army four times since he was twenty years old. From the second year of Yan's founding (1 128) to the eleventh year of Shaoxing (1 14 1), he participated in and directed hundreds of battles. 8 jin j attack jiangnan, independent, anti-jin, recover health. In the fourth year of Shaoxing (1 134), six counties in Xiangyang were recovered. In the sixth year of Shaoxing (1 136), he led the northern expedition and successfully captured Shangzhou and Zhouguo.
In the tenth year of Shaoxing (1 140), Hong Yanzong destroyed the alliance and attacked Song, Yue Fei sent troops to the northern expedition, and the people of the two rivers rushed to tell each other. Rebels all over the country responded in succession and launched an attack on the 8 Jin Army. Yue Jiajun successively recovered Zhengzhou and Luoyang, defeated Jin Jun in Yancheng and Yingchang, and marched into Zhuxian Town. However, Song Gaozong, Zhao Gou and Prime Minister Qin Gui made peace with one heart and urged the army to move forward with twelve "golden plates".
During the Song-Jin peace talks, Yue Fei was framed and imprisoned by Qin Gui, Zhang Jun and others. 114265438+1October, he was killed together with his eldest son Yue Yun and Zhang Xi 'an. When he was in Song Xiaozong, he was rehabilitated and reburied in Qixialing, West Lake, chasing Wu Mu, then Zhong Wu and sealing the king of Hubei.
Yue Fei was an outstanding commander in chief in the Southern Song Dynasty. He attached great importance to the people's resistance to gold, and made a plan of "connecting the river with the new moon". He advocated that the non-governmental anti-gold forces in the north of the Yellow River and Song Jun should cooperate with each other to jointly recover lost land. Manage the army, reward and punishment are clear, discipline is strict, and you can sympathize with your subordinates and set an example. The "Yue Jiajun" led by him is known as "freezing to death without demolishing the house and starving to death without being captured". The Jin army has a comment that "it is easy to shake the mountain, but difficult to shake the Yue family army" to show its sincere admiration for the Yue family army.
Yue Fei's literary talent is also rare among generals. His masterpiece "Xie Honghuai across the Yangtze River" is a patriotic masterpiece that has been told through the ages, and later generations have compiled anthologies.
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4. What ancient poems say "loyalty and filial piety can't be satisfactory"? 1. "Summer quatrains" Song Liqing lived as an outstanding person and died as a ghost.
Today, people still miss Xiang Yu because he refused to live and returned to the East. 2. "Everything in Jingwei is uneven" Everything in Yanwu in the Qing Dynasty was uneven, so why bother; Grow an inch taller and hold the wood to the end of time? I am willing to calm the East China Sea, but I will not change my mind. There is no peace in the sea, and the heart is endless.
Oh! Don't you see that there are many birds in the western hills, and magpies come to swallow themselves. 3, "Hu Nobody Walks" Tang Nie's loyalty, the festival does not sell names.
Hanging on your waist, big songs are useless. Don't read the warring States books, don't read the Yellowstone classics.
Drunk in Xianyang Tower, dreaming of surrender city. I'd rather have wings and fly into the green ghost.
Please take the heavenly sword and disembark from the star. Naturally, there is no one, although there is no war.
Leisure is a classical country, driving sheep away for a lifetime. 4, "Three Rhymes and Three Articles" Tang Du Fu tall horse does not spit face, long fish does not damage the scale.
Insulting horses and chariots, the trapped fish has a god. You look at an upright man and refuse to change.
Wandering around the ship, like Bai Hong. There was a reward from the beginning, a reward for hanging seats.
Don't put it in the big water unless there is wind. Martyrs are evil, villains adjust themselves.
Fame and fortune are desirable, and death is important. Cao Qing, an official, made us laugh.
5. What about "Wako" and Wako Anonymous in the pre-Qin period? There is no axe to cut. How did you marry that wife? No matchmaker, no marriage.
Chop the handle, chop the handle, this rule is close. To satisfy the girl's face, set the table for food and drink.
5. Since ancient times, loyalty and righteousness cannot be balanced. What's the next sentence? Since ancient times, loyalty and righteousness have been difficult to be satisfactory, and the two are the lesser.
This sentence comes from Romance of the Three Kingdoms, one of China's classical Four Great Classical Novels. It is China's first chapter-by-chapter historical novel, and its full name is Popular Romance of the Three Kingdoms (also called Romance of the Three Kingdoms). The author is Luo Guanzhong, a famous novelist in the late Yuan Dynasty and early Ming Dynasty.
It means:
You can't have both loyalty and righteousness from ancient times to the present. Compare the two, and choose the one with less disadvantages.
Metaphor:
Now it is used to show that everything in the world is not perfect, weigh the two and choose the one that is beneficial to you.
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Time background
At the end of the Yuan Dynasty and the beginning of the Ming Dynasty, social contradictions were sharp, and peasant uprisings broke out one after another. After years of war, Zhu Yuanzhang wiped out heroes, overthrew the Yuan Dynasty and established the Ming Dynasty.
During the period of people's displacement, Luo Guanzhong, as a writer of zaju and storytelling, lived at the bottom of society, understood and was familiar with people's sufferings, expected social stability and people's living and working in peace and contentment, and thought as a bottom-level intellectual, hoping to end the tragic situation caused by unrest. Thus came the historical novel Romance of the Three Kingdoms, which was based on the history of the last years of the Eastern Han Dynasty.
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6. The famous saying that loyalty and filial piety can kill two birds with one stone {l tears} is so complete upstairs, what can I say! ! !
But it should be "loyalty and filial piety can't be satisfactory since ancient times"!
Filial piety to parents, loyalty to the country, but there is a song that sings very well. If you have a country, it is more important to be loyal to your family. When the country needs your loyalty, you can't be filial to your parents, so you can't have both loyalty and filial piety.
Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been difficult to tolerate, and loyalty to the country has served Yue Fei. Open-minded and heroic, serving the country wholeheartedly and faithfully. Mother-in-law tattooed to show loyalty and praise children through the ages. The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop, and the son wants to raise his relatives. Cherish every affection around you. Confucius said: "When parents are old, they must know, one is happy, and the other is afraid." Yes, when we thank their parents for their long life, we have to worry about their impending death. Many times, loyalty and filial piety are in a dilemma. I don't know what to do when your parents ask you to love someone you don't love. Obey? Blame yourself for parents' smiles and force yourself to smile for their vanity? Maybe this question is naive, but it is realistic. In front of the monitor, people will easily get lost and find themselves in a dilemma. For boys, obeying their parents means melting an unforgettable love into a lasting regret; Isn't it painful for girls to obey their parents and think that they have lost their happiness all their lives and fall in love with someone they don't love? A long day. Is it worth it to exchange these pains for parents' looking back and smiling? I hope that each of us will not face such a disaster one day. I hope every parent can understand their children's thoughts and sacrifice their vanity in exchange for their children's happiness. I believe that "if there is a good family, there must be Qing Yu". Doing so can win children's respect and more filial piety, so that children will not regret their efforts for life. Life is just a road to the grave. If you come, don't refuse to rest. If you leave, it's too late to turn back. Birds flying freely in the sky are the happiest. Although they have no food and clothing in cages, they are the most precious. . . . Freedom. . . . . .
7. That poem about loyalty and filial piety is hard to satisfy and lonely.
The mountains and rivers are broken and the wind is floating, and life experiences are ups and downs.
The beach of fear says fear, and there is a sigh in the ocean.
Who hasn't died since ancient times? Take the heart of Dan and follow history. -"Crossing the Zero Ocean" Wen Tianxiang
Angry hair rushing to the crown, leaning on the fence and drizzling. Looking up, screaming in the sky, strong and fierce. Thirty fame, dust and earth, eight thousand miles of clouds and the moon. Don't be idle, it's white and sad.
Jingkang shame, still not snow; When will courtiers hate it? Driving a long car, breaking through the lack of Helan Mountain. Eat pork when you are hungry, and drink Hun blood when you are thirsty. Stay from the beginning, clean up the old mountains and rivers, and go to the sky. -"Man Jiang Hong" Yue Fei
The mother used the needle and thread in her hand to make clothes for her long-distance son.
Before leaving, I had a stitch for fear that my son would come back late and his clothes would be damaged.
But how much love an inch of grass has is three times! -"Wandering Sons" Meng Jiao
8. This poem describes this dilemma, and the author is required to be 1, which is on the Youzhou rostrum.
Tang Dynasty: Chen Ziang
No one can see the ancient wisdom of the ancient king, only those wise men who can't see the afterlife can see it.
Only the boundless universe, boundless, can't stop the tears full of sadness.
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We can't see the ancient holy king who accepted talents, nor can we see the wise king who was thirsty for talents in later generations.
Only the world is boundless, and I can't stop crying with sadness.
2. When is the spring and autumn moon in Yu Meiren?
Five Dynasties: Li Yu
When is the moon in spring and autumn? How much do you know about the past? The small building was easterly again last night, and the old country could not bear to look back on the moon.
Carved fences and jade bricks should still exist, but Zhu Yan changed them. How much sadness can you have? Like a river flowing eastward. (Carved column: aperture)
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When does this year's time end? I know how many things happened in the past! Last night, the spring breeze blew from the small building again. How can I bear the pain of missing my hometown in this bright night?
Carefully carved railings and jade steps should still be there, but the people I miss are aging. Ask me how much sadness I have in my heart, just like this endless spring water rolling east.
3. Hairpin Phoenix Red Crispy Hand
Song dynasty: Lu you
Red crisp hands, yellow wine, mancheng spring willow. The east wind is evil, and the feelings are thin. A sad mood, a cable that I haven't seen for years. No, no, no.
Spring is the same, people are empty, and tears are red and sad. Peach blossom falls, idle pool pavilion. Although Meng Shan is here, it is hard to trust Jin Shu. Mo, Mo, Mo!
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In your rosy and crisp hands, you hold a cup full of yellow wine. Spring is rippling all over the city, but you are as far away as a palace wall. How hateful the spring breeze is and how thin the joy is blown. A full glass of wine is like a sad mood, and life after leaving for a few years is very bleak. In retrospect, I can only sigh: wrong, wrong, wrong!
The spring is still bright, but people have lost weight in vain. Tears washed away the carmine on his face and soaked all the thin silk handkerchiefs. Peach blossoms in Man Chun fall on silent and empty ponds and pavilions. The vows of eternal love are still there, but the brocade letter can no longer be delivered. Looking back, I can only sigh: Mo, Mo, Mo!
4, Langtaosha, toast Dongfeng with wine
Song Dynasty: Ouyang Xiu
Drink the east wind and be calm together. Chuiyang Mozi Luocheng East. At that time, I always held hands and traveled all over the Champs.
It is endless hate to gather and disperse in a hurry. The flowers this year are better than those last year. It's a pity that the flowers will be better next year. Who do you know?
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Raise your glass and pray to the East. Please stay a little longer and don't leave in a hurry. The country road surrounded by weeping willows in the east of Luoyang is where we swam hand in hand last year. We swam all over the colorful flowers.
Meeting and parting are so hasty, but the resentment in my heart is endless. This year's bonus is better than last year, and next year's flower show will be even better. Unfortunately, I don't know who I will be with at that time.
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Song: Zhu
It is difficult for young people to learn and grow old, and an inch of time is not light. (Controversy: Young people are easy to get old but difficult to learn)
Before the sweet spring grass grows in the pond, the plane leaves in front of the steps have rustled in the autumn wind.
The days of youth are easy to pass away, but learning is difficult to succeed, so cherish every inch of time and don't let it go easily. Before I woke up from the bright spring, the leaves of plane trees rustled in the autumn wind in front of the steps.
9. Since ancient times, those who are both loyal and filial must be tested by both loyalty and filial piety. In fact, "filial piety" to parents and "loyalty" to the motherland are not contradictory. This loyalty is "filial piety" to a greater extent.
But "filial piety" has many expressions, and it doesn't have to stay with parents to be considered "filial piety". But if we look at this problem from the perspective of human nature now, we will inevitably have doubts: we should be loyal to our cause and do our duty.
But when it conflicts with the special needs of parents and relatives, which is more important, it goes without saying, which is urgent and which is slow? In the company, no matter what responsibility you shoulder, without you, the company will not be paralyzed and will not die because you are not at work. When your parents lost their feelings and died at a critical moment, don't you regret and repent for a lifetime? Can a person who doesn't love his parents love his job? What can a person who doesn't love his career give back to his parents? The wind of inheritance hopes that her children will succeed in their careers. Sometimes it's wrong to care less about your parents for your career. Parents need to care.
The job is to keep in touch with parents and let them know about their children. Know what your career is for.
Making money is to support the family and contribute to the economic development of the motherland. The country also wants people to live and work in peace and contentment.
The family is very happy. Therefore, you should care about your family while loving your career.
Parents want their children to live a happy and successful career, so your success is necessary, but they also miss their children, so they just need to allocate their time. Under special circumstances, as long as both sides are considerate, if there is one, a decision should be made to see which side can make up for it. As the saying goes, filial piety comes first. If you don't want to get yourself into trouble, you should show filial piety at ordinary times, but this is from the heart! No matter how busy you are, you should care about your parents.
Leave home to study or work, no matter how busy you are, call home, care about your parents' physical condition, tell them what you are doing when you are not at home, and don't worry them. Then, it is not easy to fall into the dilemma of loyalty and filial piety.