For yourself, be cherished but not narcissistic; for others, be demanding but not demanding; for feelings, be dedicated but not infatuated; for life, be sentimental but not sighing; for achievements, be eager but not extravagant; For family, be attached but not infatuated; for friendship, yearn for it but not be obsessed with it; for money, wish for it but not covet it; for wealth, share it but don't keep it to yourself; for faith, be upright but not superstitious; for life, have no regrets but no regrets ; Love life but don’t dote on it.