1, try to save yourself in depressed days.
In the era of "per capita depression", we are all used to despair.
When Shanghai was closed, the podcast sage had a program about being alone behind closed doors. There is a sentence in the introduction: "In the face of absurdity, don't turn your back, don't take chances, and don't agree with yourself quickly."
When you have difficulties, you must solve them at once!
It seems unrealistic to apply this rule to the present. In the face of suffering, we don't have to be so harsh and reluctant to ourselves.
Feng Zikai said: "The world didn't choose you, but you chose the world." .
Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be stupid; Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to be happy.
Try to save yourself. Depressed is better than silly strong. It is most important to make yourself comfortable.
2, Zhan Ran, omnipotent.
I believe that many of us often have an impulse to shout and have a lot of things to do. What is there to be happy about?
But as Zweig said, we don't need to be surly, because the world becomes absurd. When we are consumed by trivial troubles, we tend to ignore the interesting things in this world.
Let's listen to KiKi KiRin's attitude: "Born in the world, enjoy it".
Inner Zhan Ran, you can also taste all kinds of flavors on the day of boiled water. You don't have to look for happiness deliberately. Happiness is around you, just inside you. Don't complain, happiness lies in the eyes, in the bowl of Chinese food and in the people around you.
For us: if life has no result for the time being, it is better to choose to let nature take its course.
Fearlessness and happiness are particularly important in this era. Don't be too awkward, just let nature take its course, and everything is easy. Think a little every day, relax and have a good sleep.