Why do parents make mistakes and say no to their children? The ancients said that a person is not a saint, but also can be impeccable and correct himself. Similarly, as fathers and mothers, we will inevitably make mistakes in the process of educating our children. We will treat children wrongly and misunderstand them. However, many parents find it difficult to apologize to their children after they make mistakes. Some parents have been influenced by the idea that their parents are superior to their children since childhood. They think that parents and children have different generations, and parents have higher generations than children. It is natural for elders to educate their children, and children should also accept it. Even if parents do something wrong, they don't have to apologize to their children. They think there is no precedent for the elders to apologize to the younger generation. They take "all parents are not parents" as their motto in life, thinking that parents will not make mistakes and naturally will not apologize to their children. In life, parents always refuse to apologize to their children for their mistakes. What harm will it do in the long run?

Parents often educate their children that mistakes are not terrible. As long as you correct it in time, you are still a good boy. However, this sentence is no longer the golden rule when parents make mistakes. Children will have questions: Are adults always right and never make mistakes? Can adults make mistakes without apologizing? Children learn to deal with problems by avoiding their parents' words and deeds, rather than facing them directly. If you encounter difficulties in the future work, you will only escape, dare not face the problem, dare not take responsibility, and will not be reused by the leaders.

If parents face their own problems, they always avoid and shirk, and even feel it is a shame to apologize to others. For children, this cognition will be affected. When children face mistakes, they will choose the same way to deal with them. Avoiding and never admitting your mistakes is actually not conducive to children's normal social interaction, and may also affect children's cognition of things.

Sometimes parents don't want their children to admit mistakes. In fact, they don't want their children to feel that they are an imperfect mother. However, this kind of behavior does not put children in an equal position, and it also means that parents do not respect children, which will make children think that as long as they are better than others or have a high status, they can turn a blind eye to their own problems, so they can not bear mistakes. This kind of consciousness has a great influence on their psychology.

In some families, parents have absolute authority and the right to speak, take charge of family affairs and shape themselves into perfect parents. When parents know that they have made a mistake, but they are unwilling to admit and apologize, it will undoubtedly damage their dignity and destroy their perfect image in the eyes of their children. It is difficult for parents to discipline their children in the future.

As parents, when we educate our children, our mistakes can be corrected and treated kindly. Did they do it? You know, parents are the role models of children and the objects of children's subconscious learning. When you learn to apologize to your child, it is actually a manifestation of respecting your child and helping your child develop a more sound personality.