"Everything Is Good": 30 Life Principles That Are Scary to Think About
Fortunate people use childhood to heal their lives;
Unfortunate people use childhood to heal their lives;
Unfortunate people use childhood to heal their lives; A lifetime of healing childhood.
1. Parents are the most important feng shui of a family
——The pattern of the father determines the direction of the family. The mother's mood determines the temperature of the family. The father's general pattern and the mother's good mood are the best feng shui for a family.
2. A family in which parents do not love each other is the source of all misfortunes
——If husband and wife cannot fulfill each other, they will harm each other.
3. Every preference has a price
——The source of disputes in families with multiple children is not the love between brothers and sisters, but the injustice of parents.
4. They say that love is unreasonable, but in fact, family love is the most unreasonable.
——Everyone is saying that Su Daqiang has been cleared, and the entire Su family has been cleared. In fact, it's not a clean slate. A family is often like this. Those things that you think can never be reconciled will eventually be reconciled. There is no reason. They say that love is unreasonable, but in fact, family love is the most unreasonable.
5. Divorce when it’s time to divorce, otherwise the biggest victim will be the children
——Some people say: "I can’t divorce for the sake of my children." But "Everything is Fine" tells us : Parents who appear to be incompatible with each other and families with constant conflicts are more harmful to children.
6. Marriage is really not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families
—— "Everything is Good" tells us: entering into a marriage is actually equivalent to establishing a joint-stock company . It is when it is founded, it is when it becomes a member, it is when it buys a house, it is even more so when it is disbanded. So what kind of wife you find and what kind of family you marry into are really important.
7. A good marriage requires a good man.
——Su Daqiang, Su Mingzhe, Su Mingcheng, any one of them will be enough for you. If the man is not good, no matter how good the woman is, the family will not be happy.
8. Home is often the most hurtful place
——The thing that can easily defeat people is often not society, not the workplace, not other people, but our so-called safe haven 's home. "Everything Is Fine" tells us that not all homes are homes, and not all relatives are relatives. The person who hurts you in the most cruel way and makes you the least able to resist is often the person closest to you.
9. If I treat you the way you treat me, I’m afraid you have left me long ago
—— “If I treat you the way you treat me, I’m afraid you Long gone." This sentence is suitable for anyone and any relationship. If we put ourselves in someone else's shoes and look at the same problem from the other person's perspective, many things we can't understand will become simple and clear.
10. Lucky people use their childhood to heal their lives; unfortunate people use their lives to heal their childhood
——The influence of the original family on a person is really great: if you If your original family is very happy, congratulations, it will be a lifelong cure for you; if your original family is very bad, the harm you have suffered may take a lifetime to heal.
11. Everything is suffering, and you can only overcome it by yourself
——If fate deals you a bad hand, you have no choice but to think of ways to make the best of it. And hard work is the last trump card in our hand. Only with it can the pain caused by the original family be only for a while, not a lifetime.
12. When you are weak, there will be more bad people
—— "Everything is Good" tells us a truth: people really have to strive for their own success. Once they make achievements, The whole world is pleased with you.
13. If you feel unfair, it’s just because you are not strong enough
——There is no fairness in the world, not even time can do it. If you feel it's unfair, it's just because you're not strong enough. Only when you become stronger and stronger, the things you encounter will become fairer and fairer.
14. If you think people in the world are good people, it’s because you haven’t met all of them
—— Some people say that Su’s mother is selfish; Mother does not distinguish between right and wrong. But all this just shows that there is no reason to say that there is a lot of evil in the world. No matter how good you are, some people will hate you. No matter how good you are, some people will hate you. Even if you did nothing wrong, there will still be people who have trouble with you. A fly cannot bite a seamless egg, and a slap cannot make a sound. This is not true in many cases.
15. You can choose not to forgive many things, but you can choose to let go
——Many people don’t understand why Su Mingyu, who suffered so much harm, finally chose to reconcile. I am reminded of a scene from "Qi Pa Shuo". Ma Dong said: "As time goes by, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us." Cai Kangyong said: "That is not forgiveness, that is forgetting it."
16. There is a lot of pain in my heart. A person can be filled with just a hint of sweetness
—— Why is Su Mingyu becoming softer and softer? Thinking of "Qi Pa Shuo" - Bo Bonnie sighed: "A person who has a lot of bitterness in his heart, how much sweetness is needed to fill it up?" Ma Dong said: "You are wrong, a person who has a lot of bitterness in his heart only needs a little bit. Sweet enough to fill it up.
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17. Su Mingyu has money, Fan Shengmei has no money
—— "Everything is Good" tells us a truth: there is always a period of time in a person's life that requires struggle. Only with a material foundation will you have more opportunities and rights to choose.
18. Money cannot solve all problems, but it can solve most problems
——Half of the things in this show, It all depends on Su Mingyu’s money. So we should make more money while we are young and maximize our energy. As long as our wallet is warm, life will not be too cold.
19. Good people need experience to become Buddhas. In 9981, the bad guy can become a Buddha immediately after putting down his butcher knife
——Su Daqiang did evil for 43 episodes, but only a little bit of good was released in the last 3 episodes, so everyone immediately forgiven him in this drama. Tell us: The cost of being a good person is very high. Never be a good person: "If you give candy to a person every day, if you don't give it to him one day, he will hate you." "We must know how to do good deeds with moderation and refusal, and don't let others place high expectations on you, let alone cultivate the habit of asking for things from others, otherwise your cost of living will be very high.
20. The most terrifying discrimination and persecution against women often comes from women
——Su’s mother’s harm to Su Mingyu tells us: Women are often more discriminatory than men. We always think that men discriminate against women, but in fact. In the camp that discriminates against women, women are always more cruel than men. The biggest enemy of gender equality is not men, but women themselves.
21. Don’t take face too seriously.
— — This drama tells us through Su Mingzhe: Don’t take face too seriously, and you will be the one who suffers in the end.
22. Don’t look for machismo when looking for a man.
< p>—— "Everything Is Good" tells us: When looking for a man, you must not look for a man who is chauvinistic, who lowers the quality of life of his family for the sake of face, and likes to pretend to be rich in front of relatives, friends and colleagues23. Know how to refuse, know how to refuse, know how to refuse
- Agreeing to all the requests of others is not a sign of "being nice". Those things that you agree to without considering your ability to bear will make your life miserable. Becoming worse.
24. The essence of human beings is repeaters
—— "Everything is Good" once again illustrates that the essence of human beings is repeaters
Su Daqiang: Mingzhe, I can't live. Mingcheng, I can't live.
Su Mingzhe: Mingyu, I am so disappointed. I am so disappointed.
Su Mingcheng: Dad, what do you mean? Su Mingyu, what do you mean?
25. To succeed, it is important to work with the right person
——If Su Mingyu had not met Mr. Meng, he might have spent his whole life handing out leaflets on the street. Therefore, choice is more important than hard work. . Success means following the right people, taking the right path, and doing the right things.
26. Never confront your boss
—— "Everything Is Good" tells us: If If you don’t have a mine at home, don’t go against the boss, otherwise the outcome will be tragic.
27. Don’t reason with girls, just dote on them
- "Everything Is Good" tells us. : It is difficult to win when trying to reason with a woman, but once a woman is coaxed, her IQ is zero.
28. The best way to be filial is to be filial but not disobedient
——People should be filial. But we must not be foolish and filial. Filial piety is our duty, but obedience is not necessarily the case, because parents are not necessarily right, so we must choose the good ones and abandon them. Only through filial piety can we better honor our parents.
29. When you fall in love, you can look at the five senses, but when you get married, you must look at the three views.
——All harmonious and long-lasting relationships in the world. , the essence is comfort. Only those with the same views can go a long way together.
30. It is the most powerless sorrow in the world to have a child who wants to be raised but cannot be cared for by his parents
——The finale of "Everything Is Fine" tells us: Most children will grow up when their parents grow old. When you get older or suffer from serious illness, you will feel extremely regretful about why you didn't treat your parents well back then.