A gentleman can maintain a harmonious relationship with the people around him, but he must think independently with his own brain and never want to blindly follow suit. But I don't have my own opinions, I just want to be completely consistent with others, and I don't care about principles, but I can't maintain a harmonious and friendly relationship with others.
Confucius said: gentlemen are not good at comparison, and villains are not good at comparison. -"The Analects of Confucius for Politics"
No matter who you associate with, gentlemen can treat each other as equals and never form gangs; The villain always likes to form a small circle with close people, reject dissidents together and form a party for personal gain.
3 "The Analects of Confucius Yao Yue": "Confucius said:' A gentleman benefits without toil, works without resentment, desires without greed, is Thai but not arrogant, and is mighty but not fierce. " "
Confucius said: "A gentleman is kind to the people without wasting their wealth, so that the people can work without complaining, have desires without greed, and Shu Tai is not arrogant, dignified but not fierce."
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4 "The Analects of Confucius Lutz": Confucius said: "A gentleman is Thai but not arrogant, and a villain is arrogant but not Thai."
A man of noble character is calm and calm when he is in trouble, but a man of narrow mind is restless when he is in trouble.