1. What are some of Confucius’ famous sayings about making friends

1. Confucius said: "Isn’t it true to learn and practice it over time? It is not a joy to have friends coming from afar. ? Isn’t it a gentleman who doesn’t know something and is not stunned? ”

Translation Confucius said: “Isn’t it very pleasant to have like-minded people coming from afar? Are people happy? I am not resentful or angry when others don’t understand my teachings. Aren’t I also a virtuous gentleman? ”

2. Confucius said: “Knowing one’s words leads to benevolence.” < /p>

Translation Confucius said: "Those who talk sweetly and smile all over their faces are rarely virtuous."

3. Zengzi said: "I will examine myself three times every day. Is it unfaithful to make plans for others? Is it unfaithful to make friends? "

Translation: Zengzi said: "I have to reflect on myself many times every day: Is it faithful to give advice to others? Are you trustworthy when making friends? Have you reviewed the knowledge imparted by the teacher? ”

4. Confucius said: “A gentleman who has nothing to eat and nothing to live in, who is quick in matters and cautious in speaking, has the Way. And Zhengyan can be said to be eager to learn. "

Translation Confucius said: "A gentleman is eager to learn if he does not pursue satiety when eating, and does not pursue comfort when living. He is agile in his work, careful in his speech, and always corrects his mistakes. ”

5. Confucius said: “Don’t worry about others not knowing you, but worry about not knowing others.”

Translation Confucius said: “You are not afraid that no one understands you, but you are afraid that you will not understand yourself.” Understand others." 2. Sentences about making friends in the Analects

1. Zengzi said: "I have to examine myself three times: Is it true that I am not loyal to my friends? ?" ("Xue Er" No. 1)

Translation: Zeng Zi said: "I reflect on myself several times every day: Am I doing my best when doing things for others? Am I being honest when interacting with friends? Review the knowledge imparted by the teacher? ”

2. Confucius said: “Zuo Qiu Ming is ashamed of his clever words, his command and his courtesy, and he is also ashamed of being friendly to others. Zuo Qiu Ming thinks it is shameful, and I think it is shameful. "Zuo Qiuming thinks it's shameful to make friends with someone with a grudge, and I think it's shameful as well."

3. Yan Yuan and Ji Ludai. Confucius said: "What are your ambitions?" Zilu said: "I wish that my chariots and horses, my clothes were light, and I could have sex with my friends, and I would have no regrets." Yan Yuan said: "I wish that I would never do good deeds, and that I would not do any hard work." Zilu said. Said: "I would like to hear about my ambition!" The words said: "The old will be at peace with it, the friends will believe in it, and the young will cherish it." (Fifth of "Gongye Chang")

Translation: When Yan Yuan and Ji Lu were serving . Confucius said: "Why don't you tell us everyone's wishes?" Zilu said: "I would like to use my chariot, horse and fur coat with my friends, and I will not regret it if they break down." Yan Yuan said: "I hope I can do it without showing off my advantages. , Don't publicize merit. "Zi Lu said: "What is your wish?" Confucius said: "I hope that the elderly can enjoy happiness, the children can be cared for, and my friends can trust me."

4. Confucius said: "Be loyal and trustworthy, and don't have friends who are not as good as yourself. Don't be afraid to correct your mistakes. ("Zihan" 9)

Translation: Confucius said: "Everything must be based on loyalty and trustworthiness, and do not make friends who are not as good as yourself. , don’t be afraid to correct mistakes. "

5. Confucius said: "Three friends benefit and harm three friends: friends who are straight, friends who are forgiving, friends who are knowledgeable, it is beneficial; friends who are friendly, friends who are gentle, friends who are sycophantic, they are harmed. " ("Ji Shi" 16)

Translation: Confucius said: "There are three kinds of helpful friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with integrity, friends with integrity, and friends with extensive knowledge. It is harmful to associate with flattering people, associate with people who flatter others on the surface but slander others behind their backs, and associate with people who are good at smooth talk. ” 3. Find the sentences about Confucius’s way of making friends in the Analects

Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you.

How do we distinguish between good friends and bad friends, and how can we make good friends? What about being a good friend and staying away from bad friends? Excerpt a few sentences as usual, thinking about your few good friends, you are really happy, and there will be a knowing smile on the corner of your mouth. To understand a person, you only need to observe his. A social circle is enough, from which we can see his value orientation.

This is what we often say: "Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups." Confucius said: "Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you." ".

Friends who are straight, forgiving, and well-informed are beneficial. Friends who are secluded, friends who are gentle, and friends who are sycophants are disadvantageous.

The three friends who benefit are those who are upright. Friends, honest friends, knowledgeable friends. The three bad friends mean flattering friends, two-faced friends, and those who talk too much.

If you want to make good friends, don’t make bad ones. Friends require two prerequisites: one is willingness, and the other is ability. In Confucius' theory, the former is called "benevolence" and the latter is called "wisdom."

Confucius advocates that we make beneficial friends. People who are useful to us.

But this usefulness does not mean that you can change your real life conditions through him. On the contrary, Confucius never recommended that you make friends with rich and powerful people, but that you make friends with those who can improve your character and improve your cultivation. People who enrich your inner being.

Where is the real countryside? It is not in the remote mountains and forests isolated from the world, but in real life. As the saying goes, "a small hermit hides in the wild, a big hermit hides in the city", only those little hermits who have not practiced enough will hide in this mountain or that mountain and build a villa in a pretentious manner; the real hermit is never separated from the world of mortals, and he may live in In the busy city, he does the same things as everyone else every day, but in his heart he has a calm and peaceful countryside.

A gentleman has three warnings: when he is young, his blood energy is not stable, and the warning lies in appearance; when he is strong, his blood energy is strong, and he should guard against fighting; when he is old, his blood energy has declined, and he should guard against it. When you are young, your blood is not yet settled, so you should be wary of sex.

At this age, you should be careful not to have emotional problems between men and women. In middle age, when the blood is strong, be careful not to fight with others.

Instead of fighting with others, it is better to fight with yourself and find ways to improve your own quality and cultivation. When you get older, your vitality has declined, so treat what you get correctly.

On the one hand, friends are required to be trustworthy, trust each other, and "believe friends"; on the other hand, what kind of friends you make has a great impact on personal behavior and cultivation. Insidious and smooth-talking people Friends will mislead us in various ways. What are Confucius’ three criteria for making friends? (Clearly: the three criteria are: whether you are honest; whether you are honest in your advice, and whether you are solid in your work; or whether you are honest, honest, and whether you have real talent and learning.)

Confucius’s way of making friends makes sense. ? Please tell us about the inspiration he gave you. Answer: Confucius has principles and standards for making friends. One basic principle is moral cultivation (benevolence and righteousness), and three standards: integrity, honesty, and knowledge.

If these standard principles are abstracted, it naturally makes sense. When we make friends, we should base spiritual satisfaction as the basic principle and should not aim at material gain. We should also be sincere and be friends with others.

It is worth pointing out that although friendship is a kind of spirit, we value friendship, but the presentation of this spirit must also have a material form of expression as a carrier, and it cannot be based on the material value of this carrier. When weighing the importance of friendship, should I be "nihilistic" and think that I just have the other person in my heart anyway? I am so stingy that I don't even say a greeting. 4. What are the sentences about "making friends" in the Analects?

Regarding the issue of human nature, Confucius has a famous saying: "Sex is similar, habits are far apart." The formation of human character is due to the influence of acquired habits and environment. And different. This is a materialistic point of view. Confucius taught students that they must choose friends and neighbors, because making friends has three benefits and three losses:

Confucius said: There are three friends who benefit and three friends who harm. Friends who are straight, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable are beneficial. If you have friends, you will be brave. If you are friendly, you will be gentle. If you have friends, you will be sycophantic, which is a loss. (Chapter 4 of "Ji Shi") (Confucius said: There are three kinds of beneficial friends, and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with upright people, make friends with honest people, and make friends with people who are knowledgeable and knowledgeable. It is harmful to make friends with people who are serious on the surface but evil in their hearts, to make friends with smooth and flattering people, and to make friends with smooth-talking people.) The key to the benefits and harms of making friends is what kind of friends you make. It is the most common social experience of the Chinese people to make good friends and not to make bad friends. "Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black" has been a long-standing motto, and the spirit of this motto is not outdated now.

Regarding the issue of choosing friends and neighbors, Confucius discussed many times:

Confucius said: Benevolence is the beauty. How can you know (wisdom) if you choose not to be kind? (There is a question mark here) (Chapter 1 of "Li Ren") (Confucius said: It is better to live in a place where benevolence prevails. How can it be wise to choose a place where there is no benevolence? (There is a question mark here) ) Zigong asked about benevolence. Confucius said: If a worker wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools. If you live in this country, you will be a wise person serving its officials and a benevolent friend to its scholars. (Chapter 10 of "Duke Ling of Wei") (Zigong asked Xiuren. Confucius said: To do a good job, a craftsman must have good tools. When living in a country, he should work for virtuous officials and make friends with benevolent scholars. People.) Confucius said: If you have no friends who are worse than yourself, don’t be afraid to correct them. (Chapter 8 of "Xue Er") (Confucius said: Don't make friends who are not as good as yourself, and don't be afraid to correct your mistakes.) These three chapters all talk about choosing neighbors and friends, and use the word "work desire" in terms of personal moral cultivation. "To do something well, you must first sharpen your tools" is used as an example to illustrate that choosing friends and neighbors plays an important role in people. However, he did not make it clear when he said, "There is no friend who is worse than yourself." If we interpret it literally, it means not making friends with people who are not as good as you, but looking for people who are worse than you, and looking upward. Aren’t there some people who have no friends and cannot get help from their friends? (There is a question mark here) From the perspective of social progress, we should take the initiative to make friends who are not as knowledgeable as ourselves and help them progress. Confucius's students also discussed this issue:

Zengzi said: A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to help people. (Chapter 24 of "Yan Yuan") (Zeng Shen said: A gentleman uses his articles and knowledge to make friends, and uses his friends to help him practice benevolence.) Zixia's disciples made friends with Zi Zhang. Zi Zhang asked: "What does Zi Xia mean? (There is a question mark here)" He replied: "Zi Xia said: Accept those who are acceptable, and reject those who are not.

Zi Zhang said, "It's different from what I heard." A gentleman respects the virtuous but tolerates others; he praises the good but is reserved. Why should I, the great sage, not tolerate others? (There is a question mark here) If I am not virtuous, people will reject me. How can I reject others? (There is a question mark here)" (Chapter 3 of "Zi Zhang") (Zixia's disciples asked Zi Zhang for advice on making friends. Zi Zhang said: "What did Zi Xia say? (There is a question mark here)" replied: "Yes Make friends with those who make friends, and reject those with whom you cannot make friends. "Zi Zhang said: "It is different from what I heard. A gentleman respects the wise and tolerates everyone, praises the good and sympathizes with the incompetent. What should I not accept from others? (There is a question mark here) If I am an unvirtuous person, how can I talk about rejecting others if others reject me? (There is a question mark here).") Mencius also extended this question. Confucius’s opinion. "Mencius Wan Zhang 2": "The good scholars of a locality are friends with the good scholars of the same town; the good scholars of a country are the friends of the good scholars of the country; the good scholars of the world are the friends of the good scholars of the world." "Charity people can be interpreted as outstanding people. Outstanding people with national influence and outstanding people with local influence each have their own scope of friendship. In reality, there are not many such phenomena. National celebrities make friends with national celebrities. Most celebrities in small counties can only find friends within the scope of their own activities. It is difficult for a literary young man to make friends with literary masters with global influence. Of course, this is not absolute. Lu Xun once made friends with some literary young people. , help them selflessly. There is another famous saying of Confucius worth noting:

Confucius said: People with different opinions should not conspire with each other (Chapter 40 of "Wei Linggong") Do not discuss with each other.) Each other's positions, opinions, and principles are different, and it is impossible to discuss problems together, and it is impossible to make friends. 5. Essay sentences about making friends

1. Don’t be ashamed to ask questions; It is shameful to ask for advice from people who are less knowledgeable than yourself or whose positions are lower than your own. "The Analects of Confucius: Gong Zhi Chang" says: "If you are quick and eager to learn, you are not ashamed to ask." "

2. Not allowed to die; refers to a person not allowed to die well. "The Analects of Confucius·Advanced": "If you do so, you will not be able to die." "

3. What a joy; "The Analects of Confucius·Xue Er": "It is a joy to have friends come from afar! "Nowadays, it is often used to express that the situation has developed to the extreme level, and also means "incisively and vividly".

4. If you are not in your position, you will not seek political affairs; if you do not hold that position, you will not consider that aspect. Things come from "The Analects of Confucius: Taibo"

5. Follow your heart's desires; do whatever you want. "The Analects of Confucius: For Politics": "At the age of seventy, follow your heart's desires and do not exceed the rules." "

6. Do one's duty without giving in; "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong" in the text "Do one's duty without giving in to the teacher." Zhu Xi's note: "Do one's duty with benevolence, and do one's duty with benevolence; even if one is a teacher, there is no inferiority." It is said that if you have the courage to go forward, you must do it. "Later, "do one's duty" is generally used to mean that when you encounter something that should be done, you should do it proactively and should not push back.

7. Bad food and clothing; poor food and clothing. "The Analects of Confucius·Li Ren" ": "It is not enough for a scholar to be ashamed of those who are evil in food and clothing. "

8. Being so angry that you forget to eat; studying hard, working hard, forgetting to eat. "The Analects of Confucius·Shu'er": "Ye Gong asked Confucius about Zilu, and Zilu was wrong. Confucius said: "Nv Yuanbu said: 'He is a human being. He is so angry that he forgets to eat, and he is happy and forgets his worries. He does not know that old age is coming.'" (Female, the same as "ru", you; Yuan, what.) Later Pan Used to describe being very diligent.

9. To commit rebellion: to offend superiors; to commit rebellion: to offend superiors; to commit rebellion: to rebel. "The Analects of Confucius·Xueer": "Those who are not willing to commit offenses but are fond of causing chaos are not those who exist."

10. Why use an ox's knife to cut a chicken? Why use an ox's knife to slaughter a chicken. It is a metaphor for doing small things without a lot of effort or using big materials. "The Analects of Confucius·Yang Huo": "In the Wucheng of the Master, I heard the sound of strings. The Master smiled and said: 'How can I use an ox's knife to cut a chicken?'" It is also called "How can I use an ox's knife to kill a chicken?"

11. If a craftsman wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools; if a craftsman wants to do a good job, he must first make his tools excellent, as stated in "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong".

12. Good deeds and small favors; Hui: same as "Hui", smart. It originally meant being clever. "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong" says: "It's so difficult to live in groups all day long, not speaking what is right, and loving to do small favors!" Later, it also refers to loving to give small favors.

13. Later generations can be feared; young people, younger generations; fear: here refers to respect. Young people easily surpass the older generation, they are awesome. "The Analects of Confucius·Zihan": "The future generations are to be feared. How could one know that those who come are not as good as they are now." Later, this phrase was often used to praise young people with ambition and achievements.

14. Be tireless in teaching; teach: teach. You don’t get tired when teaching people. Describes teaching as being particularly patient. "The Analects of Confucius·Shuer": "I know things silently, I am not tired of learning, I am not tired of teaching others, what is it for me!"

15. Benefit without cost; Hui: Give benefits to others, give benefits to others; Fee, consumption. Benefit others without spending anything on yourself. "The Analects of Confucius·Yao said": "If you benefit the people because they benefit them, don't you also benefit them without spending a lot of money?" Later, it was often used to describe having practical benefits without spending too much money.

16. Well-known; every household knows it. The description is known to everyone. "The Analects of Confucius·Taibo": "The people can follow it, but they cannot make it known." Cheng Note: "The saints set up teachings, not because they do not want others to be familiar with them."

17. Act bravely when seeing righteousness; see it Do things that are controversial courageously.

"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng": "Not doing what is right is a lack of courage."

18. Draw inferences from one instance; metaphorically understand something else by analogy; describe being good at analogies and being able to draw parallels. The language version of "The Analects of Confucius·Shu Er" says: "One example cannot be compared with three examples."

19. The rationale and expressions are poor; the use is untenable and there is nothing to say. "The Analects of Confucius·Advanced": "This is why the evil husband and sycophant Zhu Zhu" said Zilu's words, which is not his original intention, but the rationale is poor and the words are poor, and he uses his words to make arguments. 6. What are the sentences about making friends in "The Analects of Confucius"

If you don’t have friends who are worse than yourself, don’t be afraid to correct them.

Isn’t it great to have friends from far away?

A gentleman makes friends with his words. Fu Ren.

The purpose of etiquette is harmony. The Tao of the ancient kings is the most beautiful thing. /p>

If a gentleman is not serious, he will not be powerful, and if he is learned, he will not be loyal.

If a worker wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools and serve as a wise man.

When three people walk together, they must have my teacher.

The Master said: "Look at the reason, observe the reason, and observe where the person is." What's wrong? How can people be so thin? "

(Wei Zheng) Confucius said: "Virtue is never alone, it must have neighbors. ”

(Li Ren) People cannot be isolated in society. Birds of a feather flock together and people are divided into groups. From the outside, looking at the friends a person has made, you can infer what type the person belongs to. . From the inside, people can only find a sense of belonging among friends. In addition to emotional sustenance, "home" is also maintained by natural blood relationships. Friendship is not only different. It can meet the needs of emotional expression and communication, and can also enable people to gain value recognition. Pure friendship is always maintained by a common orientation. On the one hand, we understand who we are through the mirror of friends; On the one hand, when we interact with friends, we have feelings for each other. The Master said: "...Isn't it a pleasure to have friends come from afar? ..." (Xue Er) Zi said: "Three pleasures are gained, and three pleasures are harmed. It is beneficial to enjoy festivals, rituals, and music, enjoy the kindness of Taoists, and enjoy many virtuous friends. "(Ji's) Pure friendship brings happiness beyond utilitarianism.

Of course, friends can also meet our instrumental needs. The term "instrumental" is unpleasant, but it is reality. . Many times we cannot completely separate instrumental needs from emotional needs. Youzi said: "Faith is close to righteousness, and words can be restored." Respect is closer to etiquette than shame. Because they don't lose their relatives, they can also be members of the clan. "(Xue Er) A friend died and had nowhere to go, so he said, "Father him in my funeral." "(Xiangdang) Confucius's actions seem to be the annotation of Youzi's words. Burying a friend who has no home to return may seem ordinary, but it reflects Confucius's simple and deep feelings for his friends. The care for each other on the road of life is reflected in every moment. The most precious thing about friendship is Zengzi: “A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to support benevolence. " (Yan Yuan) Zigong asked what benevolence is. The Master said: "If a worker wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools. If you live in this country, you will be a wise person serving its officials and a benevolent friend to its scholars. "(Wei Linggong) These two passages are the best embodiment of the coexistence of instrumental and valuable purposes in making friends. Friends are sometimes good teachers and can help us improve our moral cultivation. When we want to achieve some lofty goal When it comes to values ??or ideals, the help of like-minded friends is indispensable, so we must intentionally make friends. The purpose of making friends is instrumental and the content is noble. 7. About making friends. Ancient Poetry

When you make friends with non-virtuous people, you will inevitably end up with love and hatred.

——The mountains and rivers in Mengjiao are not important, the important thing is to meet a close friend. You can know your heart.

——Li Bai understands each other in times of crisis, and there is no benefit in being alone. ——Liu Yiqing There are three benefits to friends, and three losses to friends.

Friends who are straight, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable are the benefits. Gentleman, the gentleman outside the door is here.

——Feng Menglong, people love each other and benefit from each other, just like fire goes up and water goes down, it cannot be prevented from the world—— Mo Zhai's disguised friends are worse than his vicious enemies.

——The older the friend, the better, and the older the wine, the better it tastes. ——John Ray A gentleman chooses carefully, Hugh.

——Zhang Wangyu, if someone helps me, I will never forget it; if I help someone, I won’t forget it. ——Hua Luogeng, making friends with wine is just like wine, it’s only for one night. p>

——Roger I can’t find a friend who is completely devoted to me, I must have friends who can overcome my inertia with their driving force. ——Rousseau Friends will know us when we are happy; We make friends in times of trouble

——Corinth It takes a long time to recognize a righteous man, but it takes only a day to recognize a bad person ——Sophocles is a relative. It's not a choice, but friends are.

——De Lisle Words of kindness and promises of kindness are easy to say. Only in times of trouble can you see the sincerity of your friends. ——Krylov The smell of sugarcane is sweet, and friendship becomes more profound over time.

——Yuan Mu If you make friends through mutual exchanges, your knowledge will improve day by day; if you use prudent actions to benefit your life, your path will become more and more distant. ——Master Hongyi In misfortune, useful friends are more necessary; in luck, noble friends are more necessary.

In misfortune, look for friends out of necessity; in luck, look for friends out of nobility. ——Aristotle Live like this; so that your friends do not become enemies, and your enemies become friends.

——Pythagoras was best at dealing with the fear of external enemies by making as many friends as possible; for those who cannot be friends, at least avoid making grudges with them; if even this cannot be done, You should avoid interacting with them as much as possible and alienate them for your own benefit. ——Epicoo If you can’t figure out the other party’s details, you can never take out your heart.

——Balzac A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to help people. ——"The Analects of Confucius" Relatives are given to us by God, and friends are chosen by ourselves.

——Mamfold Li Bai: "Three Poems for Friends" Lansheng is not a household, especially Xiantingcao. Being bullied by frost and dew, Hongrong has grown old.

The branches of Yaohua are connected with each other, and the roots of the king's pond are formed. Gu Wuxin is fragrant and beautiful, and the breeze is blowing.

If you have an admirable lingering fragrance, you will be with you forever. The Zhao dagger in the sleeve was bought from Mrs. Xu.

The jade box is closed with frost and snow, passing through Yan and Qin. The thing turned out to be unsatisfactory, and he fell into the dust.

With this wish, I will make a donation and share the same crisis with you. After Jing Qing left, many strong men were destroyed.

The trombone floats on the water and makes waves for me. The well should be dug to reach the spring, and the sail should be opened to reach the river.

An honest man only values ??righteousness, and a horse does not work hard. Life is precious when we know each other, why bother with money.

A slow world and a small amount of achievements are not without ambition. Jianlang eternal sage, thought it was a children's drama.

Establishing property is like spreading expenses, and Kuang Jun has long-term strategies. But the bitter mountain is cold in the north, who knows the south house.

The old wine is chasing the wind, and the frost on both sides of the temples is white. The Lord of Shu thought of Kong Ming, and the Jin family looked to Anshi.

At that time, people lined up in the Five Cauldrons, chatting and laughing. The tiger is lying in the dust, and the fishermen are singing and swimming on the seashore.

I am ashamed of my wife and sister-in-law, and I entrust her with a long sword. The master upholds family righteousness, and it is difficult for a group of public servants to get along with their neighbors.

Don’t hold the water of the West River, and give nothing to the ministers of the East. One day the blue clouds will go away, and the gold will be rewarded to the owner.

Li Bai: "A Gift to a Friend" There is a sword in Yanling, worth a thousand gold. Observing the scenery of the country, I secretly express my gratitude to my old friend.

When you return and hang a pine tree on your grave, you will know your heart forever. The coward appreciates the festival, and the strong man expresses his gratitude.

Bao Sheng recommended Yi Wu and made him the prime minister in one fell swoop. This man has no good friends, how can he have any hope of success?

Don’t be greedy when it comes to wealth, and refuse to give in when it comes to giving. Later generations called him a virtuous person, but his heroic demeanor was difficult to admire.

When it comes to friendship, if this is the case, the friendship will be lost. Many kings are busy with algae, covering up the people at that time.

Shu Wen revived the declining waves, and his virtue topped Yilun. The divination residence is here, and the well is adjacent to it.

The clear music plays with the clouds and the moon, and the fine wine entertains the winter and spring. Donations are seen in the midst of poor virtue, but suddenly they are like leftover dust.

Heroes have never changed, and they have suffered many hardships since ancient times. Even if others are sparse, the king prefers to stay alone.

How can we become separated? How long will it take to see each other again? The wind blows and the clouds blow, blinding my eyes and speechless.

Toss beads in hope of retribution, but hold swords in fear of separation. I want to pick up fragrant orchids and want to give them to Jingzhu.

Shen is drunk with worry, and sheds tears like rain from accumulated hatred. May the false east wall shine, and the remaining light shine on the poor girl.

Li Bai: "Gift to Congdi Lie" The Chu people did not know the phoenix, so they paid a high price for the pheasant. The presenter said this in the past, but now he is confused.

I live in the north of Qiyuan and have been away from Xianyang for a long time. The wind blows and the sun goes down, the rhythm changes and the orioles sing.

The peaches and plums have not yet bloomed in the cold, so there is no way to find a way out of the secluded pass. When I see you, the calyx is as tall as the blue clouds.

The mulberry leaves are green, and the spring silkworms are rising from the boudoir. The cuckoo cries at sunrise, and the fields have hoe and plow.

Gu Yu is short of space, so who can help me from the east? Fu said it was raining, and Gongsu built a ladder.

The Qiang and Rong affairs have not yet ceased, and the gentleman is filled with sorrow. There is a long-term strategy to serve the country, but success is shameful.

There is no way to pay homage to the Lord of the Ming Dynasty, and the stick is still full of thorns. He visited me every year and found out that I was in Fengxi.

Li Bai: "Gift to Luqiu Priests" A wise man has a good career in Shatangpi. Bamboo shadows sweep across the autumn moon, and lotus clothes fall into the ancient pond.

Read the Classic of Mountains and Seas leisurely, and lie down on the curtain far away. If you don't want to have fun in the fields, you will be in the middle of the forest.

Drinking fragrant wine in the wild, cooking dewy sunflowers with garden vegetables. If you can plant peaches and plums, you can grow peaches for me.

Li Bai: "Giving Money to Conquer Shaoyang (One Work to Zhao Yunqing)" A glass of wine with white jade and green poplars in March. The spring breeze blows for the next few days, and the hair on the temples becomes silk.

It is not too late to hold the candle and throw the pole. If you are hunting in Weichuan, you can still be an emperor's teacher.

Li Bai: "Gift to Duke Zhongjun of Lingyuan Temple in Xuanzhou" The Jingting Pavilion is filled with white clouds and beautiful colors. The water of Shuangxi is reflected below, like a mirror lake in the sky.

Among them, Jilongxiang is the only one named Xujun Gongshu. The charm flows on the left side of the river, and the articles move across the sea.

Observe the heart and the moon in the water, and understand the pearl. Today I'm on the run, talking high and low.

Li Bai: "Giving the Monk the Beauty of the Morning" The water guest rushes into the Hongbo, and the long whale surges into the sea. Hundreds of rivers follow the dragon boat, but the breath is still there.

There are immortals in it who can find the moon pearl. The high price touches the universe, and the afterglow shines on the world.

The bracts are golden brown, as if they are empty. Whoever recognizes this treasure will snicker and have a crazy husband.

What can I say when I understand my heart? Everyone supports their golden body. Li Bai: "Gift to Monk Xingrong" Liang Youtang Huixiu often traveled from Baozhao.

Emei Shi Huaiyi, alone reflects Chen Gong. Two outstanding Taoists made friends with Feng and Lin.

I know he has a handsome character even though he is well-organized. If the sea does not hide pearls, the Li dragon spits out the bright moon.

I ride on an empty boat in the sea and follow the waves. I wrote poems in Zhantan Pavilion and indulged in wine at Parrot Island.

Wait for me to get ready for Dongyue. 8. What are some of Confucius’ famous sayings about making friends

1. Confucius said: "Isn’t it right to learn and practice it over time? Isn’t it a joy to have friends coming from afar? People don’t know and are not surprised. Aren't you a gentleman?"

Translation Confucius said: "Isn't it very pleasant to learn and review and practice frequently? Isn't it very pleasant to have like-minded people coming from afar? If you understand my teachings, I won’t be resentful or angry. Aren’t you also a virtuous gentleman?”

2. The Master said: “Knowing one’s words makes one’s appearance more benevolent.”

Translation Confucius said: "Those who talk sweetly and smile all over their faces are rarely virtuous."

3. Zengzi said: "I have examined myself three times in a day, have I been unfaithful in my plans for others?" Are you trustworthy when making friends? ”

Translation: Zeng Zi said: “I have to reflect on myself many times every day: Is it true to make friends with others? "Have you reviewed your knowledge?"

4. Confucius said: "A gentleman has nothing to eat and nothing to live in. If he is quick in matters and cautious in speaking, he is righteous and right. He can be said to be eager to learn. Already. ”

Translation Confucius said: “A gentleman who does not pursue satiety when eating, does not pursue comfort when living, is agile in his work, cautious in his speech, and always corrects his mistakes, is considered a good learner. ”

5. Confucius said: "You are not afraid that others do not know you, but you are afraid that you do not know others."

Translation Confucius said: "You are not afraid that no one understands you, but you are afraid that you do not understand others." 9. Confucius The way to make friends

Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you. How do we distinguish between good friends and bad friends, and how can we make good friends and stay away from bad friends?

Excerpt a few sentences as usual. Thinking about your few good friends, you are really happy, and a knowing smile will appear at the corner of your mouth.

To understand a person, you only need to observe his social circle, from which you can see his value orientation. This is what we often say: "Birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together."

Confucius once said: "Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you." Friends who are straight, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable are beneficial. Friends are secluded, friends are gentle and kind, friends are sycophants, which is a loss. The Three Friends of Benefiters means upright friends, honest friends, and knowledgeable friends. The three loser friends are the flattering friends, the two-faced friends, and the friends who talk too much.

If you want to make good friends and not make bad friends, you need two prerequisites: one is willingness, and the other is ability. In Confucius' theory, the former is called "benevolence" and the latter is called "wisdom."

Confucius advocated that we make friends who are useful to us. But this usefulness does not mean that you can change your real life conditions through him. On the contrary, Confucius never recommended that you make friends with rich and powerful people, but that you make friends with those who can improve your character and improve your cultivation. People who enrich your inner being.

Where is the real countryside? It is not in the remote mountains and forests isolated from the world, but in real life. As the saying goes, "a small hermit hides in the wild, a big hermit hides in the city", only those little hermits who have not practiced enough will hide in this mountain or that mountain and build a villa in a pretentious manner; the real hermit is never separated from the world of mortals, and he may live in In the busy city, he does the same things as everyone else every day, but in his heart he has a calm and peaceful countryside.

A gentleman has three warnings: when he is young, his blood energy is not stable, and the warning lies in appearance; when he is strong, his blood energy is strong, and he should guard against fighting; when he is old, his blood energy has declined, and the warning lies in gaining.

When you are young, your blood is not stable, so be wary of sex. At this age, you should be careful not to have emotional problems between men and women. In middle age, when the blood is strong, be careful not to fight with others. Instead of fighting with others, it is better to fight with yourself and find ways to improve your own quality and cultivation. When you get old, your vitality has declined, so treat what you get correctly.

On the one hand, friends are required to be trustworthy, trust each other, and "believe friends"; on the other hand, what kind of friends you make has a great impact on personal behavior and cultivation. Insidious and smooth-talking people Friends will mislead us in various ways.

What are Confucius’ three criteria for making friends?

(Clearly: the three standards are: whether you are honest; whether your words are honest, whether your work is solid; or whether they are honest, whether they are honest, whether they have real talent and learning.)

Is Confucius’s way of making friends reasonable? Please tell us about the inspiration he gave you.

Answer: Confucius has principles and standards for making friends. One basic principle is moral cultivation (benevolence and righteousness), and three standards: whether it is honest, whether it is frank, and whether it is knowledgeable. If these standard principles are abstracted, it naturally makes sense. When we make friends, we should base spiritual satisfaction as the basic principle and should not aim at material gain. We should also be sincere and be friends with others. It is worth pointing out that although friendship is a kind of spirit, we regard friendship as the most important thing, but the presentation of this spirit must also have a material form of expression as a carrier. The material value of this carrier cannot be used to measure the importance of friendship. I think "nihilistically" that it's okay as long as I have the other person in my heart, and I'm so stingy that I don't even say a greeting.