1. A sentence used in ancient Chinese to describe "look at yourself before you speak to others"

To rectify others first, rectify oneself

To rectify others first

Chinese name: Righteous people first, right yourself

Pinyin: zhèng rén xiān zhèng jǐ

Source: Wang Shuo's "Forever Lost My Love": "This is just me. If it had been anyone else, I would have been impatient. Otherwise, I would say that righteous people should first rectify their own mistakes."

If we do this through examples, we will be convincing. .

Usage as object, clause; refers to setting an example by example

Similar words lead by example

Rhyming words focus on one and restrain the other, must have no choice, do not know what is going on, and then make sense , not angry but not angry, three teas and six rites, if you are mourning, you will move after hearing the truth, you will be happy in the mulberry trees, you will be surprised and happy

After a while, Bao Gong will behead Bao Mian

English sweep before one's own door

Synonyms: one's body is upright, and one does not obey orders; one's body is not upright, and one does not obey orders. 2. What are the ancient texts about loving a person?

Shangxie

I want to know you and live a long life. The mountains have no mausoleums and the rivers are exhausted. Thunder trembles in winter, and it rains and snows in summer. When heaven and earth are united, I dare to be with you.

Yue people's song

Tonight, what evening is coming in the middle of Paizhou. When will I be able to ride with the prince today? Being humiliated is shameless. I was very upset when I learned about the prince. There are trees in the mountains, and the trees have branches. My heart says you are here, you don’t know.

Phoenix seeking phoenix

There is a beautiful woman, I will never forget it when I see her. Not seeing you for a day makes me miss you like crazy. The phoenix is ??soaring, and the phoenix is ??begging for it from all over the world. Unfortunately, the beauty is not on the east wall. Use the qin to express your words, and write your heartfelt chats. When will I see Xu Xi? It will comfort my hesitation. May your words be worthy of your virtue, and join hands to support each other. If I can't fly, I will perish. The phoenix comes back to its hometown, and travels around the world to seek its phoenix. If you don't meet me at that time, you will have nothing to do. How can you realize that you are going to be promoted to this hall now? There is a beautiful lady in the boudoir, and the people in the room are poisonous to my intestines. How come they are like mandarin ducks with their necks crossed, and they are soaring in the air! The phoenix comes and the phoenix comes to live with me, and I have to entrust the breeding tail to be my concubine forever. Friendship is harmonious and the heart is harmonious. Who knows how to meet each other in the middle of the night? Both wings rise and fly high, feeling nothing but my thoughts makes me sad. 3. Before loving others, do you have to learn to love yourself first?

A person’s attitude towards others can be seen from his attitude towards himself. If you don’t even love yourself, how can you love yourself? What about others? To love someone is to protect yourself for that person, to preserve yourself, and to reassure your beloved. As for the question "If you love yourself first before loving others, won't you be the one who gets hurt?" I think it should be It's like this: Love yourself first before loving others. At least when you were separated, you have truly loved and reserved for each other. In this way, both parties will have no regrets for each other. Therefore, loving yourself first is the first step in loving others. The only premise is that when the other person leaves us, we will both feel more relaxed.

Of course, both parties have paid, and generally they should not be separated easily. 4. Mencius’ famous saying: Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others.

Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others.

Original text Mencius said: "The reason why a gentleman is different from others is because of his intention. A gentleman's intention is benevolence. His intention is propriety. A benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love them and respect others. If there are people here who treat me in a treacherous manner, then a gentleman will be self-defeating: I will be unkind and disrespectful. Is this the right thing to ridicule?" His self-reflection is benevolent, and his self-reflection is courteous. His rebelliousness is due to this, and a gentleman must be rebellious: I will be unfaithful. Self-reflection is loyal, and the wrong way is due to this. The gentleman said: "This is also a delusion." If this is the case, then why should we be competing with the beasts? How can animals and rivers be in trouble? ’ Therefore, a gentleman has a lifetime of worries but no one-day troubles. If there is any concern, then it is there: Shun is a human being; I am also a human being. Shun's law spread throughout the world and can be passed on to future generations. I am a native of the country, so I can worry about it. How are you worried? Just like Shun. If a husband and a gentleman are in trouble, he will perish. There is no action without benevolence, and there is no conduct without etiquette. If there is trouble in one day, a gentleman will not suffer from it.

" 5. What are the ancient texts that express love for someone?

1. "Jiangchengzi" Su Shi spent ten years in a blur of life and death. He did not think about it and could not forget it. Thousands of miles of lonely tomb, nowhere to say desolate. Even if we meet, we should not be together. When I met, my face was covered with dust and my temples were like frost. At night, I had a deep dream and suddenly returned home. I was dressing up outside the small window. They looked at each other without words, only a thousand lines of tears. It was expected that my heart would be broken every year, on a bright moonlit night, there would be short pines. Comments: This is After the death of Su Dongpo's concubine Wang Chaoyun, one day he dreamed of the sentimental poem he wrote after his death. The simple and sincere affection, the painful parting of life and death, made him more moved by the deep feeling every time he read it. Yin and yang are separated, and reunion can only be expected. In the dream, what Su Dongpo could not let go of for ten years was the kind of family affection that helped each other. What he couldn't bear was not the loss of vigorous love, but the loneliness of being alone after losing his partner. "Even if we meet again, we don't know each other." "My face is dusty, my temples are like frost." What I can see in my dream are all the trivial fragments of the past life of my deceased relatives. Because in those trivial things, there is an indelible family affection. What is the highest state of love in the world of mortals? ? Holding a child's hand is a state, supporting each other is a state, and being in love with each other in life and death is also a state. In this world, there is the most dignified and profound love called dependence on each other. It is a kind of penetration that lasts for a long time, and it is a kind of integration. The warmth in each other's lives. 2. Li Zhiyi in "Businessman" I live at the head of the Yangtze River, and you live at the end of the Yangtze River. I miss you every day without seeing you, and drink the water of the Yangtze River every day. When will this water stop, and when will this hatred end. Just May your heart be like mine, and I will live up to my love for you. Comments: Li Zhiyi’s poem is only forty-five words long, but the words are short and long-lasting. The whole poem revolves around the water of the Yangtze River, expressing the longing for love between men and women and the sorrow of separation. At the beginning, it is written that two people are thousands of miles apart, which is a metaphor for the difficulty of meeting each other and the depth of missing each other. The last sentence is written "*** drink", using water to connect the two places and communicate between the two hearts; to blend in the water, to use water to symbolize love. , the affection is also endless, expressing the heroine's persistent pursuit and eager expectation of love. The whole poem is full of love, layer by layer and then looping back and forth, but the emotions are ups and downs in just a few sentences. 3. "The Book of Songs Bei Feng" Beat the drums, beat the drums, and use the troops enthusiastically. I went south alone from the Tuguo city. I followed Sun Zhong, Ping Chen and Song Dynasty. If I don't return, I will be worried. Where is the love of love? Will love lose its horse? Looking for it? Under the forest. The agreement between life and death is broad, and I have said it to my son. Holding my hand, I will grow old with you. I am sighing because I am rich, but I cannot live. I am sighing, and I do not believe it. Comments: This The poem expresses the feelings of the soldiers who have been serving abroad for many years and miss their hometown and their wives. The sentence "The bond between life and death is broad, and it is said with the child. Hold the hand of the child, and grow old with the child" has attracted countless people who are in love and long for happiness. People who are in love become the best spokesperson for the eternal oath. Life and death, joys and sorrows, I once told you that I will hold your hand and grow old with you. This is the highest state of love, and the highest state of love is experience. The fleeting years are dull. Fourth, "Shangxie" Shangxie! I want to know you, and my life will never fade. The mountains have no mausoleums, the rivers are exhausted, the winter thunder shakes, the summer rains and snows, the heaven and the earth are harmonious, but I dare to be with you! Comments: It comes from a Han Yuefu folk song. This is a love song, which is the protagonist's self-sworn words: The sea has dried up and the rocks are broken, but the love is still firm and unchanging. It is the passionate confession of an infatuated woman to her lover. The protagonist of the poem is swearing to the sky and is forthright. After expressing his wish to "get to know you and live forever", he turned to the perspective of "being with you" and used five impossible things in succession to express his unswerving determination in life and death. Love, deep affection and fantasy are simply impossible to happen. This emphasizes the protagonist's undying love beyond measure. 5. "Travel Again, Travel Again" I travel again and again, and I am separated from you. We are separated by more than ten thousand miles, each at the end of the world. .The road is long and blocked, but we know that we will meet well. Hu Ma follows the north wind and crosses the southern branch of the bird's nest. The sun is far away, and the sun has slowed down. The floating clouds cover the day, and the wanderer does not care about returning. Thinking of you makes you grow old, and the years have suddenly passed. Late. Give up donating and don’t return to the road, and work hard to get more food. Comments: This is a song about lovesickness and separation in the turbulent years of the late Eastern Han Dynasty. Although the author’s name has been lost in the process of spreading, reading it makes people feel sad for no reason. , wandering repeatedly, moved by the heroine's sincere and painful call for love. The simple and fresh folk song style in the poem, and the overlapping and repetitive form of the internal rhythm, show the psychological characteristics of Oriental women's love and lovesickness. 6. "Magpie Bridge Immortal" by Qin Guanxian Clouds make tricks, flying stars spread hatred, and silver and men are far away in darkness. When the golden wind and jade dew meet, they win countless lives in the world. Tenderness is like water, good times are like dreams, and I can't bear to look at the Magpie Bridge on the way home! If the love between two people lasts for a long time, how can it last day and night? Comment: "Magpie Bridge Immortal" was originally a piece of music composed to sing the love story of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl. It uses the story of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl to express the joys and sorrows of the world in a superhuman way.

The last sentence expresses affectionate consolation to the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl: As long as our love lasts until death, why should we covet the happiness of each other? This shocking, deafening and enlightening stroke lifts the whole poem to a new ideological level. The author denies the vulgar life of joy and pleasure, and praises the everlasting and loyal love. 7. "Yanqiu Ci" Yuan Hao Ask what love is in the world, and teach you how to make love between life and death. Traveling from the south to the north, the old wings come back to the cold and summer several times. It is joyful, but the separation is painful, and there are even more idiotic children. Your words should be heard, the clouds are far away, and the snow is falling on thousands of mountains. , only the shadow goes to whom. On the Hengfen Road, the flute and drum were lonely in those days, and the desolate smoke is still plain. How can the souls be summoned, and the mountain ghosts secretly cry in the wind and rain. The sky is jealous, and has not believed in it. The orioles and swallows are all in the loess. Thousands of years. For eternity, in order to entertain the scholar, he sang and drank wildly and visited Yanqiu. Comments: At that time, Yuan Haowen went to Bingzhou to take an examination and met a wild goose catcher on the way. The wild goose catcher told Yuan Haowen about a strange thing he encountered today. Event: He set up a net to catch geese today and caught one, but one escaped from the net. Unexpectedly, the goose that escaped from the net did not fly away, but hovered over him for a while, and then dropped to the ground and died. Yuan Haowen Looking at the two geese in the hands of the goose catcher, I couldn't calm down for a while. I spent money to buy these two geese, and then buried them on the bank of Fenhe River. They marked them with stones and called them "Yanqiu". I wrote this poem "Yanqiu Ci". I thought about the two wild geese in the distance. They go south to overwinter in winter and return to the north in spring. They stay and fly together in "several cold and summer seasons". They depend on each other and are deeply in love. There are both happy reunions and partings. It's bitter, but no force can separate them. And after "The Snare Breaks the Amphibious Dream", his lover has passed away, and An Neng lives alone! So the "off-grid" made up his mind to follow Jiuquan and "throw himself into the ground to die". The ancients believed that at the extreme level of love, "the living can die and the dead can live". "Committing to each other in life and death" is the ultimate deepest love. ! 8. Tang Dynasty ballad "You gave birth to me before you gave birth to me, and I gave birth to you. You are already old." You gave birth to me before you gave birth to me, but I gave birth to you. 6. The classical Chinese translation of "The Debate of Universal Love"

If the world can love each other, countries will not attack each other, families will not be in chaos, there will be no thieves, and kings, ministers, fathers and sons will all be filial and kind. If this is the case, , then the world will be governed. Therefore, the sage, whose main task is to rule the world, is so evil that he cannot forbid evil but encourage love? Therefore, if the world loves each other, it will be governed, and if they love each other, it will lead to chaos.

Translation: If everyone in the world loves each other, countries do not attack each other, families do not fight with each other, there are no thieves, and kings, ministers, fathers and sons can be loyal, filial and loving, then the world will be peaceful. Since it is the duty of the sage to govern the world, how can he not forbid people to hate each other but not persuade them to love each other? Therefore, if people in the world can love each other, there will be peace, and if people hate each other, there will be chaos.

No one in the world can love each other. The strong will cling to the weak, the rich will bully the poor, the noble will humiliate the humble, and the deceitful will deceive the stupid. Anyone who causes misfortunes in the world and resents them is because they don't love each other.

Translation: People in the world do not love each other, so the powerful will definitely oppress the weak, the rich will bully the poor, the noble will despise the humble, and the cunning will deceive the stupid. All the troubles, usurpations, grudges, hatreds, etc. in the world are caused by not loving each other.

If you love others, others will love them; if you benefit others, others will benefit from them; if you are evil, others will hate them; if you harm others, others will harm you.

Translation: If you love others, others will love you; if you are good to others, others will be good to you; if you hate others, others will hate you; if you harm others, others will harm you.

If you don't respond without words, if you don't repay without virtue, you should give me a peach and repay you with a plum. This means that those who love others will see love, and those who hate others will see evil.

Translation: There is no word that I will not agree to, and there is no kindness that I will not repay. You give me peaches, and I will repay you with plums. This means that those who love others must be loved by others, and those who hate others must be hated by others.

Loving others is nothing more than oneself, and oneself is in the one you love.

Translation Loving others does not mean not loving oneself, one is also loved.

Loving others is not a matter of praise, it is a kind of adversity.

Translation Loving someone is not for personal fame and reputation, just like receiving guests in a hotel, it is for the convenience of others.

Loving all the worlds is similar to loving the few, and loving all is similar. Love for this world and love for the hereafter are the same as those of today.

Translation Loving the many people in the world is the same as loving the few people in the world. Universal love is like this. Love those who are in this world and those who love the Hereafter, as those who love this world.

Nowadays, if you do something small, you will know it is wrong, and you will not do it; if you do something big, attack the country, you will not know what is wrong, so you can praise it and call it righteousness. Can this be called a debate between justice and injustice?

Translation: Now when someone makes a small mistake, people find out about it and blame him; for someone who makes a big mistake like attacking another country, but they don’t know to blame him, they still praise him and call it righteousness. This is Can we say that we understand the difference between righteousness and unrighteousness?