If someone helps you, it's mutual affection. It's your responsibility not to help you. Tolerance is your tolerance, and it is my ability to make you tolerant. People live to see for themselves, not others can control themselves with a word. Let yourself live a chic self.
Don't provoke the villain, because he can't. Don't have a hard time with society, because you will; Don't be hard on yourself, because everything will pass. —— Zhou Libo
4. All behaviors that are eager for others to understand are the behaviors of the weak. The first step for a strong man is learn to be lonely, the second step is to learn not to understand, and the third step is to crush him with results.
People are happy not because they have more, but because they care less. Optimism comes from tolerance, from generosity, from understanding, from being at peace with the world. Life is not perfect. I figured it out, put it down and it will be perfect.
6. If you don't insist on picking it up, you don't care about putting it down. There is an indifferent attitude in life, which is called "yes or no"
7. If you can't break the inner confinement, even if you are given the whole sky, you won't find the feeling of freedom.
8. People are alive, so there is no need to argue about everything. Struggle with family, win, family is gone; Fight with your lover, win, and your feelings are weak; Fight with friends, win, friendship is gone. What you strive for is reason, what you lose is emotion and what you hurt is yourself. Black is black, white is white, let time prove it.
9. The biggest thing today is a small thing tomorrow, and the biggest thing this year is a story next year. Be happy in everything. Anyway, no one can leave this world alive in the end.
10. The person who bothers you is here to help you; People who make you miserable come to cross you; The person you hate is the noble person in your life; People you hate help you grow; It's all a different side of yourself, and it's all another you.
1 1. Don't be too kind, too generous and too capable. After a long time, people will think that everything you do is right. Even if one day you are tired of crying, no one will love you. Because in their eyes, this is what you want.
12. Grasp three things: opportunity, life and marriage. Three things to make friends: honesty, dedication and selflessness. Three things will destroy a person: anger, meanness and arrogance.
13. Life is like a spice, but only when the persistent belief is firewood and the persistent action is baked by fire can it emit the strongest fragrance.
14. Just laughing without saying a word, without blurting out the grievances. Born as a human being, you are doomed to bear some misunderstandings and hide some emotions.
15. The busier you are, the more careful you are about the details of life. Don't be consumed by unnecessary personnel. Don't wallow in the mire of life. Always know what is most important to you and who is most important to you. Stay focused and alert. Where time is spent, life is there.
16. Don't continue when the tea is cold. If it goes on, it won't taste the same. People go, don't stay, and staying is not the original feeling; If the feeling is gone, don't relive it. If you relive it again, it will not be the original mood. Slowly, it's far away, and gradually, it's faded. When you have it, cherish it, leave it, bless it silently, and don't have anyone to accompany you to the end of your life.
17. Life is alive. When I was young, I thought I knew everything. When I was in college, I didn't know I knew nothing until I graduated. When people reached middle age, I thought I knew everything. I didn't realize I didn't know anything until my later years. -Lin Yutang
18. Only those who dare to accept criticism and blame and face up to their weaknesses can correct their shortcomings; Only in this way can we know ourselves correctly and our hearts will not be influenced by other people's opinions. We can look beyond others' eyes and gain inner freedom. This is the life of wisdom.
19. Life is like a swift river. Without islands and reefs, it is difficult to stir up beautiful waves. I can do what others can do. Don't waste your life, you will regret it there.
20. Always remind yourself not to stay in an idea for too long. Hesitation, being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, thinking too much and worrying too much are all obstacles that we set for ourselves. Our imagination will create problems that did not exist at the beginning.
2 1. Some people take the road they have made up their minds to take, while others take the road given by fate at will. There is no absolute good or bad. Just remember to give yourself a good mood when you walk.