There is a saying that can't be better: only a small part of people's stress comes from survival, but most of it comes from comparison. For comparison, we don't know how much we lost and how much we missed. In order to keep up with the game, we don't know how many happy times we gave up, but we ran wildly on the painful road of "chasing dreams" In order to keep up with the competition, many of us lose ourselves and don't know who we are. Looking back, why bother? It's really sad However, we all like it very much and think this kind of life is very beautiful.
People are stubborn and seldom give up their goals. Therefore, they are busy with this and that, and they will "do whatever it takes". When the goal cannot be achieved, they will complain about the unfairness of the world. However, even if the goal is achieved, how can we know whether the result is as expected? I don't know. People will never know. In fact, many things don't need to be done deliberately. There is something, and there is nothing. It's true.
Life is accumulation. Every point, every idea and every sentence is a necessary condition for success. Every setback and every fall is the ballast stone of the boat of life. Life is not afraid of slowness, but of stopping. Only by taking every small step firmly can we take a big step. Ambition, speculation and overnight fame should not appear on the road of life.
Everyone has different ideas and yearns for different things. In the busy traffic, there are many high-rise buildings, pursuing a luxurious and elegant life, relying on mountains and rivers, and being free and calm as a partner are all life. Happiness is in your own hands, and attitude determines life.
In fact, life is very simple. We are all living happily, just because we have faith in our hearts, a sky that belongs to us and a sea that belongs to us.
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As the saying goes, the greatest wealth in life is memory.
The joys and sorrows of the past were the green grass of that spring.
Love and hate in the past were the heat of the earth that summer.
The gathering and scattering in the past was the swaying of leaves in that autumn.
The gains and losses of the past are the transparency of the snow and ice in that winter.
I like taking pictures. They can record every bit of the journey.
I like tickets. They can tell me every step I have taken.
I like listening to music. They can help me find the mood at that moment.
I like to go back to the place where I once lived, where I have too many memories.
Indeed, life is full of wonderful things.
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Of course, people can't always live in the past. After all, what we have now is practical and needs to be cherished. Now every minute is ours, which we need to grasp; Every little thing now is real and needs our care.
Now, I can face everyone around me with gratitude and cherish every day's life.
Now, I can treat the unfairness and love that the world has given me with a tolerant heart.
Now, I can enjoy the joy of every success and the sadness of every failure with a normal heart.
Now I can accept what others give and give what others need with a happy heart.
Now, I can take the road that suits me best with a firm heart.
Now I can give myself the healthiest body with a responsible heart.
Now, in my life, there are flowers and sunshine everywhere.
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Similarly, the future must be beautiful, which is the belief that everyone should have in their hearts and the only reason for everyone to come to this world.
Before the future comes, everything is so mysterious that we can imagine her beauty. Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know which one you are going to get, but each one is sweet.
The world is so big, you can't predict where you will be, when you will meet what kind of people and what kind of stories will happen. The future is so delicate.
Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished if it is not foreseen. We can imagine the future infinitely, plan the future, and then realize it through our persistence. This is like a lighthouse on a long voyage, and it is also a lamp that is always on in our hearts.
What the future is like is determined by your attitude, and it is optimism and pessimism that make success and failure.
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Liu Yong said that people are like this all their lives. There is no reason why people should not live bravely, wonderfully and happily.
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This is my life to the sea.
Like you, I feel that life is too short and I don't know what kind of life is meaningful. But after reading an article by Bi Shumin, I know the answer to this question, that is: (Life is meaningless, everyone should define meaning for his own life) Now I send you the article, hoping you can find your own meaningful life.
Add meaning to life (Bi Shumin)
That is a famous university. From the beginning of the speech, I kept handing out notes. The most frequently asked question in notes is, "What is the meaning of life? Please be sure to tell the truth, because we have heard too many insincere lies. "
After reading this note, the audience applauded. I said it was good of you to ask this question today, so I will tell the truth. On the snowy mountain in Ali, Tibet, facing the vast sky and the standing glaciers, I repeatedly thought about this problem, just like a primitive man who ate meat and drank blood. I believe that when a person is young, he will ask himself countless times-what is the meaning of my life?
I thought about it for countless days and nights, and finally I got the answer. Today, here, I am very responsible to tell you that the result of my thinking is that life is meaningless!
After this sentence was finished, there was a short silence under the stage. Like a wilderness. But then there was a storm of applause.
That was the warmest applause I got in my speech. I never believed in such a thing as "stormy applause" before, and thought it was just a poor metaphor. But this time, I believed it. I quickly made a "pause" gesture with my hand, but the applause continued for some time.
I said, don't clap for me, I'm not finished yet. I said that life is meaningless, which is good, but-each of us should establish a meaning for ourselves!
Yes, the discussion about the meaning of life is around us. Many sayings, due to familiarity and repetition, have made us turn a blind eye to boredom. However, this is not the real meaning of the problem. The truth is that the meaning imposed on you by others, no matter how correct, will always be something outside your body if it does not enter your psychological structure. For example, we have been taught the answer to the meaning of life by our parents since childhood. In the long years since then, teachers and all kinds of education who have earnestly warned us are constantly wholesaling supplementary versions of the meaning of life to us. However, how many people regard this external framework as their own internal benchmark and make up their minds to fight for it for life?
After the lecture that day, I heard a classmate say that he thought the biggest gain was to hear a living middle-aged man say that life is meaningless and you should establish a meaning for it.
In fact, not only are young people in China uncertain about their goals, but many people in Harvard University, a famous American university, have not set goals for themselves in their youth. I read a material that one year when Harvard graduates left school, the school made a survey on their life goals. As a result, 27% of them have no goals at all, 60% have short-term goals and only 3% have clear long-term goals.
Twenty-five years later, those 3% people have made unremitting efforts towards a goal and become the elite of society, while the rest have made a lot of achievements.
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Zhou Enlai, the good prime minister of the people, is a great man who never stops fighting. From another angle, we really don't need to look at the great achievements of great men. We just need to see why they can master several foreign languages, multitask and have amazing memories. At the same time, they are scientists and artists. From these skills, we can see that it is impossible without hard work. Their life is extremely efficient, and they concentrate all their thoughts on realizing their life value.