1: Plain is not necessarily bad. Old people often say that they don't want their children to be rich or expensive, but just want to live in peace for a lifetime. When they were children, they just ignored them. Only in this way can we understand this truth more deeply.

2. How rich and expensive-ups and downs are not worth a walk in the world? Is it difficult for the whole world to achieve anything in their careers? Is this a problem? How many are there in the world? Some people are very strong inside-they can withstand all kinds of storms, while others really can't.

To sum up, I think my family is happy, supporting the elderly, raising children and being a social person! Why not realize your own value in society? !

First, work hard for this family!

As a 77-year-old, I'm just in my forties this year. I am in the golden age of my life, and I will win the best harvest in my career and work. It is because experience gives you a mature attitude, because practice gives you skills, because age gives you opportunities for development, and because life gives you motivation to move forward.

Therefore, when people reach middle age, they can build a beautiful and happy home for themselves and their families. We must work hard! Tired, bitter is nothing? Bite your teeth and you'll get through it. It is worth it!

Second, supporting the elderly and raising children depends on our ability!

1* pensioners. It is our duty to support our parents. Our parents gave birth to us and worked hard to raise us, that is, when they are old and have something to rely on, we will repay our parents no matter how hard and tired we are. Of course, in our helplessness, they will understand the children's difficulties. As long as we can do our best to treat our parents sincerely, I believe our parents will face it with us! Parents will support and understand their children! Pension! It's just that we are sincere to our parents, right? Which parent in the world can bear to let their children suffer for themselves!

2* Raising children. If you don't have any financial ability, don't compare with others, try your best to create better conditions for your children, and never put too much pressure on yourself to make it impossible. This will often cause unnecessary pressure on children and cultivate them. We should not just give them material enjoyment, but give them spiritual support! As the saying goes, children who grow up in honeypots will only think of the sweetness of honey, while children who grow up in bitter water will always remember the bitter taste. This sentence really makes sense.

Therefore, we have done everything we can, and we can do it on our own, as long as we work hard!

Third, taking care of your wife is that we love each other!

As long as we get married, no matter what the circumstances, if there is anyone between husband and wife who needs help, we should not hesitate to do it, because both of us are together because of love, and we have to pay for it for free. It is natural for us to take care of each other. Husband and wife are birds of the same life, and when disaster comes, fly together! Don't abandon! Do not give up! In the same boat! Live and die together! This is the true love of our husband and wife!

So, for love! We are willing to take care of our wives!

Fourth, what mom said makes sense!

Mom has experienced it, and what she said is based on her previous experience. People were before the age of 30, because we were still young at that time, and our parents were the pillars of our family. Everything is taken care of by our parents, and we care nothing. Everything is arranged and paved by parents, so we have no pressure. We lived a carefree life all day, of course, it was easier this way. After the age of 35, we became a family ourselves. At this time, I began to know that the burden on my shoulders was heavy, and everything had to be faced and borne by myself. Life was not that easy, and it was not that simple to know that Victor had a good life in this family. People often say: if you don't take charge, you don't know how expensive rice is.

So, at this time, I may feel that life is not so beautiful, and I know what my mother said makes sense.

When you reach middle age, if you accomplish nothing, I don't think you should think too much. Just rely on your own talent, be a down-to-earth person, do things with peace of mind, and live a plain life. With competitors, things will be easy. As long as you are still working hard, I believe you will see your success!

Everybody come together! Let's cheer for our peers in the 1970s! Thank you for your support! ! !

The horned dragon looks up and says the world, and writes with sincerity, because of the true feelings! )

Reply to the invitation: What should I do if I am unsuccessful in middle age? Real life begins at 40. Only middle-aged people know the bitterness of middle age best. It is sweet and willing. Always thought that happiness was in the distance, in the future that could be pursued. Later, it was discovered that those who hugged, shook hands and sang. Tears, the so-called loved ones, are as vivid as movie pictures, as if they were still in front of us, so clear.

I have to read my life by myself. God is fair. Guang Chen who closes a window for you will open a door for you!

Don't complain that you don't have a good father, don't complain that God doesn't give you opportunities, and don't complain that life brings you difficulties. It is great wisdom in life to be able to hold back your emotions between square inches.