2. "Life and death are broad, caring for each other; Holding your hand and growing old with your son "is a sad poem, but its attitude towards life is so positive." "I don't like bravery. I like solemn and stirring, and I prefer desolation and heroism, which only has strength, no aesthetic feeling and seems to lack humanity. Sadness is like a bright red and green color scheme, with a strong contrast. -Excerpted from Zhang Ailing's essay My Articles.
I am an eccentric girl. I have been regarded as a genius since I was a child. I have no goal to live except to develop my talent. However, when my childhood fantasy faded away, I found that I had nothing but the dream of genius-it was all the quirks of genius. The world forgave Wagner's barbarism, but they won't forgive me —— From Zhang Ailing's prose Dream of Genius
One day, our civilization, whether lofty or flashy, will be a thing of the past. However, the water is still clear and the mirror is bright in autumn, so I should be happy —— Preface to the second edition of Zhang Ailing's Legend.
5. For people who can't speak, clothes are a kind of language, a pocket drama that they carry with them-from Zhang Ailing's prose "Dressing"
6. There is always time and opportunity to do things; There is always an excuse for what you don't do-quotations from Zhang Ailing
7. Memories are always melancholy. Pleasant people feel it's a pity that it's over, but unpleasant people still feel sad when they think about it-quotations from Zhang Ailing
8. A bosom friend is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful part of our nature-quotations from Zhang Ailing.
9, do something for others, a little resentment, alive is interesting, otherwise it is too empty-quoted from Zhang Ailing.
10, teaching is difficult-acting and being a man are both difficult-from quotations from Zhang Ailing.
1 1. Books are best friends. The only shortcoming is that it has deepened my myopia, but it is still worth it.
12, you asked me if I love you. In fact, you should know that love means not asking if it is worth it-from Zhang Ailing's novel The Fate of Half-Life.
13, photos are just the shell of life; As the years passed, melon seeds were swallowed one by one. Everyone knows the taste, leaving everyone with only messy black and white seed shells-from Zhang Ailing's novel "Lianhuantao".
14. Laugh, the whole world laughs with you, and you cry alone —— Are you young from Zhang Ailing's novel Flowers Withered? Never mind, I will be old in two years.
Women ... women talk about men all their lives, miss men and complain about men forever.
15. Meet the person you want to meet among thousands of people. In thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, neither earlier nor later, you happened to catch up. There is nothing else to say but ask softly, "Oh, are you here, too?"
Of all Zhang Ailing's novels, I think love is the most meaningful. There is no flowery rhetoric, no deliberate embellishment, no tortuous plot, only the gentle "Oh, are you there?" But it represents everything-all the beginning, all the end, all the life. ...
Love is between dynamic and static; Fate is between gathering and dispersing. If love is an endless stream of water, then fate is a rippling stone thrown into the stream occasionally. If love is a beautiful scenery. Fate is a passer-by who occasionally visits the four places. People who are predestined friends will find that people who don't have a chance will let him miss thousands of Baidu.
16. When I met you, I fell very low, as low as the dust, but my heart was happy. There will be a flower.
In Poisoning, Jie Chen said: All love is humble and has different weights! Because if you love someone and care about someone, there will be compromise, and compromise will naturally feel humble. In the reciprocal emotional relationship, this humility is mutual, and it is the effort and dedication of both men and women to an emotion.
Unfortunately, love in real life is not so reciprocal. When you love more and give more, you will find yourself humble!
17. Because I loved, I am kind; Because you know, you are tolerant.
Maybe Irene is such a person. For Hu Lancheng, she only treats her with a merciful heart, so there is so much tolerance. It's just that I don't know if she really has the love she wants because of compassion. Love is not a kind of tolerance, let alone a kind of forbearance. Love is absolutely selfish, absolutely domineering, and definitely not a grain of sand.
It's just a weakness of women's nature. Note that their love is mixed with too much connivance and connivance. Looking back, all the women who could not learn compassion left one by one. This is how Lin Daiyu died in a Dream of Red Mansions. It was a heart attack that took her life, not her care. Only a compassionate woman will dream of deceiving herself and others in the palace of love.
18. We can never go back!
Fate remains the same, but love is gone. This is the most touching, simple and sad sentence that Gu and Shen, lovers who have been separated for more than ten years, said when they reunited! The desolation of the world is included in it. This is also the ultimate personality of Zhang Ailing's novels: a word, a few words, is enough to lead to thousands of difficulties in the world, but the bitterness is still hard to say.
Yes, I can't go back, I can't go back! Because there is endless water time between them. Endless waves are like water and time. A relationship lasted for fifteen years, and a wait lasted for fifteen years. A vigorous love, 15 years is enough, the dust settles. How much love can be repeated in the world? Please cherish the person in front of you.
Because you think the days are coming day by day. Of course, it should be like this day by day. Yesterday, today and tomorrow should be no different. But once, when you put it down and turn around, everything will change completely. The sun goes down, and some people will be separated from you forever before it rises again.
Therefore, I can only call your name alone. The warmth in the winter night and the loneliness in the air are also the faint aftertaste when a person is alone. When I miss you, write your name in my palm. What is spread out is missing, and what is gripped is happiness.
Heal when you are heartbroken, quietly taste a loneliness, and be deeply intoxicated when you look far away. On the night of concern, hang your name in front of the window, stare at the warmth and feel the sweetness.
19. Maybe every man has had two such women, two less. Married a red rose, over time, the red has become a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white is still the moonlight in front of the window; Married a white rose, the white is the glutinous rice on the clothes, and the red is the Zhu Shazhi in my heart.
This is the truest and most incisive description of men in Zhang Ailing's books. Although I am a man, I have to admire her for describing the psychology of men so thoroughly!
At the beginning, most men like elegant and beautiful white roses, which have a bright fragrance, like snow in a cold mountain, and are worth losing in this cold water at the cost of a lifetime.
However, after being intoxicated and ecstatic, men gradually became dissatisfied. He began to want a happy and gorgeous dream, enchanting and colorful, swaying in the dusk of the month. Red roses are fragrant, spicy and charming.
In fact, the beauty of a woman has always contained thousands of faces, and not everyone can see it. In front of smart men, it will show you the most subtle colors in the world. It was pure white and brilliant red at that moment, revealing another sweet face. Such graceful flowers need deep-rooted love and the warmth of wisdom to be irrigated.
There are red roses and white roses in every woman's soul, but only a man who knows how to love can make the woman he loves more and more beautiful. Even white flowers as cold as starlight can be charming.
Unfortunately, there are too few men who know how to love! The truly perfect woman in a man's heart always changes with time and experience! You'll never reach it. Therefore, whether it is a red rose or a white rose, there will always be unsatisfied regrets and deficiencies, so men are always eager for the charm of other roses.
20. Memories are always melancholy! Pleasant makes people feel that it is a pity that it is over; Unpleasant, it's still sad to think of it.
There are many things in this world that you think you can continue to do tomorrow. There are many people you think you will meet again, so when you put down your hand or turn around for a while, you only have the hope of meeting again tomorrow, and sometimes you can't even feel this hope!
There are many things in this world that you think you can continue to do tomorrow. There are many people you think you will meet again, so when you put down your hand or turn around for a while, you only have the hope of meeting again tomorrow, and sometimes you can't even feel this hope!
Because you think the days are coming day by day. Of course, it should be like this day by day. Yesterday, today and tomorrow should be no different. But once, when you put it down and turn around, everything will change completely. The sun goes down, and some people will be separated from you forever before it rises again.
Therefore, I can only call your name alone. The warmth in the winter night and the loneliness in the air are also the faint aftertaste when a person is alone. When I miss you, write your name in my palm. What is spread out is missing, and what is gripped is happiness.
Heal when you are heartbroken, quietly taste a loneliness, and be deeply intoxicated when you look far away. On the night of concern, hang your name in front of the window, stare at the warmth and feel the sweetness.
2 1. Born in this world, there is no feeling of being riddled with holes.
The so-called aestheticism only exists in the plot. Because it is not beautiful, we will strive to pursue it; Because it is not beautiful, let us know that there is another thing called hope. However, in fact, feelings cannot be greedy. "If someone thinks there is perfect love, he is either a poet or an idiot." Therefore, it is the correct emotional attitude not to pursue perfection in courtship, but to seek a true and down-to-earth love to cleanse the mood.
Even if it is really riddled with holes, don't deliberately stay, because every relationship has its reasons for the beginning of its existence and the inevitability of its end. When writing this sentence, I thought of Huang's classic line in "Time has passed": When you can't have it anymore, the only thing you can do is not to forget it.
I didn't know the source before, but I always felt that this sentence was incisive, and only a thoughtful woman like her could say it. Although only a few of her feelings have been made public, she seems to be a sophisticated person, and it is amazing to say such a thing without expression. Now I finally know that this sentence comes from the short story Compassion!
22. Time flies, especially for people after middle age. Ten years and eight years seems to mean taking care of their families. But for young people, three to five years can be a lifetime.
The former gained insight through the passage of time. The latter is brilliant and naive because of the years.
Husband and wife love each other very much, so they have the courage to decide to spend their lives together. But after three years, five years, ten years and eight years, I will always get bored. If they don't break up, they just live together like relatives. But if they are relatives, why should they be husband and wife? You don't have an answer, and neither do I. Similarly, neither does Zhang Ailing.
When I was a child, I liked listening to fairy tales, thinking that the prince and Cinderella were walking on the red carpet and everything was perfect. The beautiful story, in the artificial time pause, consciously ignores the life in the next few decades. When I grew up, I found myself cheated. Fairy tales are beautiful, but the reality is cruel. Zhang Ailing told us that life is full of endless trifles, just like a gorgeous robe covered with countless hateful lice.
23. Is it worth loving you? In fact, you should know that love is not worth asking.
At the age of 23, Zhang Ailing once fell madly in love with a 38-year-old man, Hu Lancheng. He is a man with a wife, and he is a complete XXXXX.
I believe that Zhang Ailing is naturally very clear about Hu Lancheng's character, personality and political stance, but she can't help falling into the abyss of love with Hu, which is also the abyss of her life's pain. A woman in love can't help herself, just as a smoker knows that smoking is harmful.
Therefore, love is blind, and there is no question of whether it is worth it. When you fall in love with someone, do you still think rationally? If so, it can only show that this is not love!
24. Once a woman falls in love with a man, it is like a cup of poisoned wine given to her. She is willing to drink it in the most beautiful posture, and all her heart is handed over, and life and death are on it!
And if a man falls in love with a woman, he finds the aura he has been looking for! He was intoxicated by the beauty of the halo, and he gave her a lot of tenderness. The woman was felt by the gentleness of the man and gave herself to the man without hesitation. Finally, this kind of aura is tightly set on yourself. ...
As time goes on, the gas field gradually becomes gloomy, and men's faces become old. With the aura, men have gradually matured and understood many things! But at the same time, he also felt that women were old and lost their former glory! Good man: He knows that women's brilliance has been closely integrated into his life! This is a woman's luck!
Bad man: He will get bored, easily peel off the aura from himself and then throw it away! It is a woman's misfortune! This passage is so vivid and concrete that I always remember it.
I don't want to say anything superfluous. I just want to ask: are you trapped by a halo?