Maybe this is the last time I call you that. You didn't expect me to write to you, because I have a lot to say, so I feel so strongly about you. Efforts seem to calm my heart, and the bitterness and pain can only be tasted silently when I wake up in the middle of the night and cry alone. However, if I don't speak my mind, I think I will feel depressed all my life. I hesitated for a long time about the decision to write this letter. Repeated torture and injury, for fear that this step is wrong, you will regret it for a lifetime. But in the end I chose to write to you. Stories can be repeated, but time has passed, and feelings need a little blank to sort out regrets. You are still a woman with a conscience, but you have overlooked a problem. From the time you get married, you lose the care you deserve for your husband, but a woman keeps asking and blaming you. Maybe this is the root of our husband and wife life. In the case of conscience condemnation and mental and physical betrayal, you also confessed to your husband. I admit that this confession process requires a lot of courage. In marriage, cheating is the biggest harm. All the words and deeds of the wife after the derailment are performances, regardless of whether the wife is out of guilt, cover-up, confusion and compensation, but it cannot be admitted that the wife after the derailment has changed a lot. If there is a lack of trust between husband and wife, the future family will not be happy. Although I have known about it for almost three months, I always think of it when I lie in bed alone or late at night. Now we are barely together because of the children's problems. Speaking of love, I really loved you before. We are only together when we are in free love. If it didn't happen, I really felt very happy, but now I really don't know what to do together, and I don't want to divorce, so I am a little reluctant. After all, I have been in love for eight years and have children. In the face of an unfaithful wife, love her, but can't forgive her; In the face of an unfortunate marriage, all aspects of giving up and giving up. Where to go is really a question worth thinking about. When you have dinner parties every night, have a new lover and play cards with others, you may never know how a person who once loved you struggled to spend one long dark and lonely night after another. Once the tenderness is still gone, will you choose to wait or leave? What kind of sadness ... a piece of truth for the derailed wife II. Emotional quotations for cheating women 1. Women, don't forgive yourself too easily, and reflect on yourself every time you make a mistake. 2, derailed woman, if the husband is still willing to be with you, it means that the love between husband and wife has not burned out, this time must be cherished; If the husband insists on not forgiving, there is nothing he can do. The only thing he can do is not to let the tragedy of the next marriage happen again. You are my destiny, and all the disasters are borne by me alone. You said that all adults know what to do and what not to do. But you already have this idea, and I don't know if you can do what you should and shouldn't do. 5. If a derailed woman still regards marriage as a child's play and rebelles many times, then in the script of life, you are destined to be just a tourist, and the result of swimming around is still empty, because you can only perform the wonderful things of others, but you can't dominate your own happiness! 6, let's come out and mix, bottom line, don't hurt each other. 7. Whether a woman cheats depends on her man. Whether a man cheats or not depends on the opportunity. 8. Men get married because the women they meet are too good, and men cheat because the women they meet are too fresh. 9. If an unfaithful woman just falls in love with a man's money, it is doomed that you will become a commodity that people enjoy and a consumable that depreciates more easily than money. 10, most cheating women can't get rid of the temptation of desire. If it is only the desire of the body, there may be room for redemption, but once it becomes a slave of the spirit, it is hopeless, because the happiness of the body is only temporary and accidental, and emotional infidelity is long-term and fatal! 1 1. Men who are naturally generous are easy to be used by lovers, while men who are good at pretending to be generous are often the natural enemies of women who are greedy. 12, in life, it is often heard that men cheat, and more than a few contemporary women cheat. When a man loves a person wholeheartedly, once he is sad, it is difficult to repair. When you cheat, it is absolutely unforgivable in most cases! 13, there is not much love in the world that can last forever, so we have to part in the end. 14, derailed woman, if it is because of her husband's unfaithfulness, then the last person who gets hurt is only you, because the price of a man's derailment is to give up his wife, while the price of a woman's derailment is to sacrifice herself. 15, in marriage, when a woman begins to cheat on you, even if it has not been revealed, the deep meaning hidden in the words has betrayed her! 16, I wish you an early return, I am waiting for you, and my home is waiting for you. 17, I hope you can completely put it down, put aside all your unwillingness, and live this life with me completely. 18, women have three big fears, one is afraid of cheating, the other is afraid of lying, and the third is afraid of ex-wife. 19, women want men to be generous to them, and often treat generosity as a man to stimulate them. Ungenerous people are less likely to find out about extramarital affairs. 20, some love for a long time, you are used to it, but you don't love it, it feels abnormal! 2 1, be a good person, men and women, please respect yourself! 22. How much I love you and how happy I will be when I leave. I won't take revenge for hurting you, because you are the one I loved, but your betrayal is unforgivable. You don't need to ask my forgiveness, because if you really thought about it, then you wouldn't betray me. I hope you can live a good life and don't let your parents down. They are old, don't let them worry about you any more. Be filial and love your parents. 24. Everyone's tolerance and trust are limited. When you make trouble again and again, it often weakens my patience with you. This kind of life will make each other very tired. It's time to part. Your future good or bad will no longer be related to me, but I will still bless you! 25, men don't think that only you can cheat, women are crazy. 26, derailed women, if it is because of the catalytic effect of alcohol, then please draw a clear line with it, because alcohol will not only harm men, but also destroy women! 27, derailed woman, when you are derailed for the first time, you must control your second time. If the first time was an accident, then from the second time, it was a performance or a tragedy. 28. Don't demand love unconditionally. Although love is selfless, it has a bottom line. When a person who has put up with you for a long time can't stand it, then your marriage will go to a situation where you can't go back! 29. You don't have to do housework or do laundry and cook, but you should learn to take care of yourself. If I am sick and can't take care of you, at least you can take care of yourself, so I'm relieved! 30. I spoil you because I love you, but it doesn't mean that I love you unconditionally, because when I find out that you betrayed me, I won't love you anymore, because you are not the person I once loved! 3 1, extramarital love, behind this beautiful veil, both love and desire, especially for women, are just an endless game, and life can't afford such a ridiculous joke! 32. Marriage is a woman's kindness and a man's gratitude. 33. A derailed woman is like an idiot if she regards a man's promise as her happy destination, because in most men's values, the outside woman is always superior to the family but not higher than the family; In women's minds, it is easier to make a promise to change their marriage dreams. 34. When a woman cheats, men will retaliate against her. When men cheat, women will retaliate against themselves. 35. No matter what the motive is, a woman who has cheated will be an aphrodisiac again as long as she does it. Regret will also become pale and powerless. It is better to cherish tomorrow than to blame yourself for yesterday. 36, derailed woman, if the man outside is willing to give up the original family for you, then the happy life you expect is actually a marriage adventure, because for a man who has lost family responsibilities, giving up once is equivalent to giving up twice or even more. 37. The weight of love is just a fallen leaf and dust after death. 38. To be a man, you must have a bottom line. I have a bottom line, too. I believe you have one, too. 39. Sometimes you really can't blame women. Men are more responsible, as long as they don't get divorced. 40. Thinking is not a woman's patent, and cheating is not a man's privilege. 4 1, in love, cheating is unforgivable, because cheating is only zero and countless times. 42. When you have had enough fun, when you get better, when you really know me, I will love you forever. The truth of cheating on his wife 3. Psychological analysis and reasons of derailed women. 1, uneasy Most women will have this psychological state after cheating. The mood of such derailed women is generally more complicated, including worry, fear, self-blame, panic, fidgeting, upset and so on. Afraid of being found cheating, ashamed of being a man and having a broken family; Blame yourself for being sorry for your family; I am worried that the other party will pester me, ask for marriage or elopement, and even suffer retaliation from the other party. 2. I can't take cheating as fun, because I tasted the sweetness in cheating and hope to continue to be at the forefront. If rejected by the other party, some women will give up and find new love, and some women will pursue it until they are sworn in, which will lead to some extreme behaviors. Women who cheat like this are often not because their marriage is not smooth, but because they are too hungry! 3. A woman who is insensitive belongs to seeking happiness in depravity! They don't care about a man's appearance, age or money. They care about their feelings. As long as they feel right, they will take the initiative to have sex. After having sex, I will abandon the man decisively and will not ask the man's name and contact information. Some of these women have suffered domestic violence or cold violence for a long time. 4, gloating, such a woman is derailed for revenge, the purpose is to put a big green hat on her man, she will shout in her heart: "Fight with me, give you a green hat, what a suck!" Such a woman is full of hatred, mostly because of violence or her husband's infidelity. 5, obsessed with this type of woman, often moved by the true feelings of that man, and obsessed with it. Even care about each other's joys and sorrows, but happiness is just a little bit. Thinking of that man is sadness and pain. This also includes some unmarried women falling in love with married men; Or experienced a period of unforgettable true love, and finally separated for various reasons, so it is difficult to completely forget, always thinking about each other's good. 6. Disappointed women regard having an underground lover as a fashion. But they also feel inferior, care about their appearance and figure very much and don't believe in love. They think it is impossible for a man to really love her. Once you run into a wall and get cheated, you will call men nothing. Some people cheat hopefully, but the result is disappointing! This man is far from his husband or boyfriend. 7. Satisfied this kind of woman is angry because her husband is cheating and wants a divorce, but she is hesitant for various reasons. In order to balance her heart, she also cheated. I felt very satisfied after cheating, so I turned a blind eye to my husband's cheating. There are even some women who think that it is a loss to love only one man all their lives, so they love others and let go of acne. 8. A carefree and complacent woman takes cheating as a very common thing and doesn't care at all. In her mind, she doesn't know what shame and blushing are, but she still thinks it is a way to enjoy life.