1, Survival is king: Without power and wealth, we must first ensure our viability, because only economic strength can bring confidence and confidence.
2. See the surface clearly: don't be confused by the surface. All who burn incense are not good, all who beg are not poor, all who follow you are not good, and all who wear clothes are not good.
3. Win success by your own ability: Don't attribute your success to others' mistakes, but rely on your own ability and efforts to achieve success.
4. Identify true friends: interpersonal relationships are complicated. Friendship looks beautiful on the surface, but there may be interests and conspiracy behind it. Learn to test true friendship with action and time, and don't be confused by superficial words.
Your own strength is the key: wine can't find real friends, smoke can't soothe your inner loneliness, and friends' good words are good, but they can't compare with strength. Only when you become strong can you really resist all obstacles.
6, learn to hide two things: people must learn to hide two things, one is the inner secret, and the other is their own talents. Only by leaving something for yourself can we better cope with interpersonal relationships and competition.
7. See through human nature and life: When you are no longer willing to talk, argue with others, please and please anyone, lose interest in making friends and parties, or even refuse to perform, it shows that you have understood the true meaning of human nature and life.
8. Choose to ignore and forget: Some people who abandon you when you are most helpless, whether they are relatives or lovers, are not worth continuing to associate with. They know your pain, but they look on coldly and even hurt you. Such people should choose to ignore and forget.
9. Take control of your own destiny by yourself: in real life, no one will always be on your side. So learn to rely on yourself, strengthen your faith, and don't be easily disturbed by the outside world. Only when you are really strong can you control your own destiny.