Famous aphorisms and short stories about honesty and friendliness are as follows:

About honesty as follows:

1. The most important thing about the quality of a great personality is the word sincerity. . ——Lu Xun

2. Frankness is the product of honesty and bravery. ——Mark Twain

3. Everything is about integrity. A small thing or an inadvertent breach of trust may ruin our reputation for life. ——Lin Dasheng

4. The beauty of a word is more valuable than a thousand pieces of gold. ——Ge Hong

5. False confession is really a terrible thing. ——Balzac

6. A promise made by a husband is not easy to make. ——"Zi Zhi Tong Jian"

7. People who have no faith do not know what they can do. ——Confucius

8. The money earned from losing credit should be settled in the loss. ——Rome

9. If you want others to be honest, you must first be honest yourself. ——Shakespeare

10. Faith is like the land of the five elements. It has no position and no fame, but water, metal, and wood are all waiting for those who live. ——Zhu Xi

11. Frankness is the magic medicine that makes people feel relaxed. ——Cicero

12. He who helps others has faith in them. ——"Book of Changes"

13. Gold and jade are not precious, but loyalty is considered a treasure. ——"Book of Rites"

14. Losing credibility is like a broken mirror, which cannot be repaired. ——Germany

15. One or two weights of sincerity are worth one ton of wisdom. ——German proverb

16. Without honesty, there is no dignity. ——Cicero

17. There is no need to say a single word, no need to think a single thought, just go with sincerity and sincerity. Over time, you will have faith without saying anything and you will succeed in silence. ——Lu Kun

18. Thousands of lessons teach people to seek truth; thousands of lessons lead to learning to be a real person. ——Tao Xingzhi

19. Be honest in your words and loyal in your deeds. ——Confucius

20. Those who touch others with sincerity will be responded to with sincerity. ——Cheng Yi

21. Keeping your promise is like defending your honor. ——Balzac

22. Honesty and diligence should be your permanent companion. ——Franklin

23. There is nothing in the world more valuable than a sincere person. ——Cicero

24. No one can survive in the world without loyalty. ——Cheng Yi

25. If you are unswervingly loyal to yourself and others, you will have the noblest quality of the greatest talent. ——Goethe

Friendly famous aphorisms are as follows:

1. If a person has no conscience, he will not be able to survive even if he is extremely smart! ——Gorky's "My University"< /p>

2. The laws of conscience are often different from the laws of scripture. —— Tagore's "Sacrifice"

3. A pious beginning brings a beautiful ending. (Hugo's "Louy Bras")

4. Love yourself last and cherish those who hate you. Honesty will win you more benefits than corruption. ——Shakespeare's "Henry VIII"

5. You must be true to yourself; just as there is night before there is day, be true to yourself so that you will not deceive others. ——Shakespeare's "Hamlet"

6. If you want to live a happy life, pray to God, and be an honest person, then you must keep your promises. —— Dickens' "Bleak House"

7. If you lack sincerity in doing things, or are reluctant to take action, then even if you have great ability, you will not achieve much. —— Dickens' "Bleak House"

8. The voice of people pouring out their heart is gentler and more real. It can be absolutely trusted, and you can be absolutely certain that it is nothing more than the most cordial advice. of. —— Dickens' "A Christmas Story"

9. Honesty, like all our sentiments, should be divided into two categories: negative and positive. Negative honesty is honesty when there is no chance of getting rich. Positive honesty is being tempted every day without being tempted. ——Balzac's "Uncle Bangs"

10. When a person is a real person, he should maintain an equal distance between brazenness and affectation. Neither boastful nor pretentious. ——Hugo "Les Misérables"

11. An honest person will never use other people's things in vain, and will never take other people's things in vain... ——Gorky "The Chuikov Family"

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12. Some people believe that honesty is always the best policy. In fact, this is superstition; sometimes pretending to be honest is several times better than being truly honest. ——Mark Twain's "A Journey Around the Equator"

An honest story:

Zeng Zi killed a pig

Zeng Zi was a student of Confucius. Once, Zeng Zi's wife was going to the market. Because the child was crying, Zeng Zi's wife promised to kill a pig for him to eat when he came back. After Zeng Zi's wife came back from market, Zeng Zi wanted to catch pigs and kill them. His wife stopped him and said, "I was just playing around with the children." Zeng Zi said, "You can't play with children. Children don't understand. Learn everything from your parents and listen to their teachings. Now if you trick him, you are teaching your child to lie." So Zengzi killed the pig. Zeng Zi deeply understood that honesty and trustworthiness, and keeping one's word are the basic principles of life. If one makes a mistake and does not kill the pig, then the pig in the family will be saved, but it will leave an indelible shadow on the mind of a pure child.

Han Xin repays his favor

Han Xin, the founding hero of the Han Dynasty, was very poor when he was a child and often had no food and clothing. He lived with his brother and sister-in-law and lived on leftovers. . Little Han Xin helped his brother work during the day and studied hard at night. His mean sister-in-law still hated him studying, thinking that reading was a waste of lamp oil and was useless. So Han Xin had to live on the streets, living a life without enough clothes and food. There was an old woman who worked as a servant for others who sympathized with him, supported his studies, and gave him food every day. Facing the old woman's sincerity, Han Xin was very grateful. He said to the old man: "I will repay you when I grow up." The old woman smiled and said: "I will be buried when you grow up." Later, Han Xin became a famous general. , was named King of Chu by Liu Bang. He still missed the old man who once helped him. So he found the old man, took the old man into his palace, and treated her like his own mother.

Ancient Chinese Integrity Story: Huangfu Ji kept his word and sought accountability

Huangfu Ji was a famous minister in the Sui Dynasty. His father died when he was three years old, and his mother could not support the family by herself, so she took him back to live with her parents' family. Grandpa saw that Huangfu Ji was so smart and pitiful that he had no father, so he loved him very much.

My grandfather’s name is Wei Xiaokuan. The Wei family is a well-known local family and is very wealthy. Since there were many children in school at home, my grandfather hired a teacher and set up his own school, which was called a private school at the time. Huangfu Ji and his cousins ??all went to school in their own school.

Grandpa is a very strict old man, especially when it comes to his grandchildren. When the private school started, a rule was set. If anyone failed to complete his homework without any reason, he would be re-taught twenty times in accordance with the family law.

One day, after class in the morning, Huangfu Ji and several of his cousins ??hid in an abandoned small house to play chess. As soon as I was playful, it was time for afternoon class before I knew it. Everyone forgot to do the homework the teacher left in the morning.

The next day, my grandfather found out about this. He called his grandchildren to the study and gave them a severe scolding. Then according to the rules, each person plays twenty boards again.

Grandpa saw that Huangfuji was the youngest and usually very well-behaved, and since he didn’t have a father, he couldn’t bear to beat him. So, he called him aside and said to him kindly: "You are still young, so I won't punish you this time. However, you can't make such mistakes again in the future. If you don't do your homework and learn your skills well, how can you achieve great things in the future?" ?”

Huangfu Ji gets along well with his cousins, and his younger brothers love him very much. I was very happy to see that Xiao Huangfu Ji was not punished. However, Xiao Huangfuji felt very sad. He thought: My brothers and I made the same mistake and delayed our homework. Grandpa didn't punish me, it was because he felt sorry for me. But I can't indulge myself. I should be beaten twenty times in accordance with the rules of private sex.

So Huangfuji found his cousins ??and asked them to punish him twenty times on behalf of his father-in-law. When the cousins ??heard this, they all burst into laughter. Huangfuji said seriously: "This is the rule in the private school. We all promised grandpa that we would be punished if we broke the rules. Otherwise, we will not keep our promise. You have all been punished according to the rules, and I am no exception."

< p>The cousins ??were all moved by Huangfuji's spirit of abiding by the rules of the school and sincerely reforming. So, he took out his ruler and hit Huangfu Ji with twenty big boards.

Later Huangfu Ji became a senior official in the imperial court, but the character of keeping promises and having the courage to admit mistakes that he had developed since childhood was never lost, which made him enjoy a high reputation among civil and military officials. .

The establishment of Yan Shu’s credibility

Yan Shu, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, was known for his honesty. When he was fourteen years old, someone recommended him to the emperor as a child prodigy. The emperor summoned him and asked him to take the exam at the same time as more than a thousand Jinshi. As a result, Yan Shu discovered that the test was one he had just practiced ten days ago, so he reported the truth to Zhenzong and asked for other questions to be changed. Song Zhenzong admired Yan Shu's honest character very much and gave him "the same background as a Jinshi". When Yan Shu was in office, the world was at peace. As a result, officials of all sizes in the capital often went to the outskirts to play or held various banquets in restaurants and teahouses in the city. Yan Shu's family was poor and he had no money to go out to eat, drink and have fun, so he had to read and write articles at home with his brothers. One day, Zhenzong promoted Yan Shu to the East Palace official who assisted the prince in his studies. The ministers were surprised and didn't understand why Zhenzong made such a decision. Zhenzong said: "Recently, the ministers often go out to play and have banquets, and only Yan Shu studies behind closed doors. He is so self-respecting and cautious, and he is a suitable candidate for the East Palace official." After thanking Yan Shu, he said: "I am actually a person who likes to play and have banquets, but I am just a family man. It's just poverty. If I had money, I would have participated in the banquet." These two things established Yan Shu's credibility in front of the officials, and Song Zhenzong also trusted him more.

Comparison between Li Muweixin and Fenghuo Opera

During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Shang Yang of the Qin State presided over the reform with the support of Qin Xiaogong. At that time, when wars were frequent and people were in panic, in order to establish prestige and promote reforms, Shang Yang ordered a three-foot-long log to be erected outside the south gate of the capital, and made a promise in public: Who can move this log to the north gate? The bounty is ten taels. The onlookers didn't believe that such an easy thing could get such a high reward, so no one was willing to give it a try. So Shang Yang increased the reward to 50 gold. There must be a brave man under the heavy reward, and finally someone stood up and carried the wood to the north gate. Shang Yang immediately rewarded him with fifty gold coins.

Shang Yang's move established prestige in the hearts of the people, and Shang Yang's subsequent reforms soon spread in the Qin State. The new law made Qin gradually stronger and stronger, and finally unified China.

Friendly little story:

The story of Hoover

The famous American test pilot Hoover once flew back to Los Angeles and was 90 meters above the ground. Several meters high in the air, two engines happened to fail at the same time. Thanks to his superb skills, the plane miraculously landed. Hoover immediately checked the aircraft oil. As he expected, the propeller plane he was flying was filled with jet oil. When he summoned the mechanic responsible for maintenance, he was so frightened that he cried. At this time, Hoover did not get angry as everyone expected, but stretched out his arm, hugged the maintenance man's shoulder, and said confidently: "To prove that you can do a good job, I would like to ask you to help my aircraft tomorrow." Maintenance work." From then on, Hoover's aircraft never had any errors, and the careless maintenance man became conscientious and meticulous. This story is touching. Although the maintenance worker's mistake almost cost him his life, the kind-hearted Hoover deeply understood the psychology of the at-fault person. When the other party is in great pain because something has gone terribly wrong, be considerate, self-restraint, and unexpectedly comfort them, restoring their self-confidence and self-esteem. This is the great power of friendship. Just imagine, if Hoover had angrily rebuked the maintenance man, and even held him accountable relentlessly, he might have been completely destroyed. It can be seen that when facing the same thing, treating it with two different attitudes, there will be very different endings. Being friendly can make big things become trivial. By minimizing trivial things, you not only treat others well, but also benefit yourself.

McKinley's story:

During a congressional election, William McKinley, the 25th President of the United States, was often followed closely by a reporter. Because the newspaper he worked for was at odds with McKinley's political views, he often published unfavorable reports. McKinley was very annoyed with this man, but he couldn't help secretly "admiring" his persistence in attacking him.

One day, McKinley took a carriage to a nearby town to give a speech. The weather was unusually cold, and not far away, McKinley heard a familiar cough from behind. When he looked back, he saw that it was the reporter who was suffering from a cold and wearing thin clothes, following him in a simple carriage. McKinley ordered the driver to stop, got out of the car, walked to the reporter, and said, "Young man, get out of your seat." The reporter got out of the car, thinking that the time had come for his political enemy to take revenge. "Here," McKinley took off his coat and handed it to the reporter. "Put this coat on and get in my carriage." "But, Mr. McKinley," the reporter said in surprise, "I I think you probably don’t know who I am. I have been following you closely during this campaign. Every time you give a speech, I will scold you in the newspaper. I am here today to do my best to put you out of business. "I know," McKinley said with a smile, "Anyway, put on this dress and get in the car to warm yourself up, so you can have a good fight later." Since then, the reporter has never published a disparaging article about McKinley.

Lian Po and Lin Xiangru

After the Mianchi Meeting, Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing due to his great contributions, ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po said: "I am a general of the State of Zhao, and I have made great achievements in sieges and field battles. Lin Xiangru only made some achievements through his eloquence, but his status is higher than mine. Besides, Xiangru is a commoner. I feel ashamed. I can't bear to be under him." He threatened, "When I meet Xiangru, I will definitely humiliate him." After Xiangru heard this, he refused to meet him. Whenever Xiangru went to court, he often complained that he was ill and did not want to compete with Lian Po for ranking. Not long after, Xiangru went out and saw Lian Po from a distance, so Xiangru turned his car to avoid it.

So Lin Xiangru’s disciples came together to remonstrate bluntly and said: "The reason why we left our relatives to serve you is because we admire your noble integrity. Now you and Lian Po have the same official position, Mr. Lian said He said something bad, but you are afraid to avoid him. You are too afraid. Even mediocre people are ashamed, let alone those who are generals! We are useless people. Please let us say goodbye! He resolutely persuaded them to stay and said: "Who do you think is more powerful than General Lian or the King of Qin?" He replied: "General Lian cannot compare with the King of Qin." Xiangru said: "With the power of the King of Qin, I dare to scold him in the court. , humiliating his ministers, although I, Lin Xiangru, am incompetent, will I be afraid of General Lian? But I think that the reason why the powerful Qin State does not dare to attack Zhao State is because General Lian and I are here. Now the two tigers are bound to fight. We can't survive. The reason why I tolerated this was to put the country's emergencies first and my personal grudges behind."

After hearing these words, Lian Po took off his clothes. With his upper body exposed and a thorn stick on his back, he was led by the guests to Lin Xiangru's door to apologize. He said: "I am a rough and humble person. I never thought that you, General, are so generous!"

The two finally made peace with each other and became good friends in life and death. , but Lin Xiangru’s words made him ashamed. He took off his war robe, put on a thorn stick, and stood in front of Lin Xiangru's door bearing a thorn stick to plead guilty. From then on, the two of them became good friends.