1. Viewed horizontally, it looks like a ridge and a peak on the side, with different heights near and far. I don’t know the true face of Mount Lu, just because I am in this mountain. - Su Shi 2. The benevolent sees benevolence, and the wise see wisdom. - "Book of Changes" 3. There are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand people's hearts. - Shakespeare 4. You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, and the people watching the scenery are looking at you upstairs; the bright moon decorates your windows, and you decorate other people's dreams. - Bian Zhilin's "Fragment of Chapter" 5. Look at the problem from another angle, and life will show another kind of beauty. There is not a lack of beauty in life, but a lack of discovery. ——Rodin 6. Pessimistic people are still alive and dead, but optimistic people stay young forever. ——British Proverb 7, An optimist sees a hope in a disaster, a pessimist sees a disaster in a hope. ——British Proverb 8, A ruler is short, an inch is long. ——Qu Yuan 9. The river has two banks, and things have two sides. ——Folk Proverb 10. How can you know that a blessing in disguise is a blessing? ——Huainanzi 11. If I can see farther than others, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants. ——Newton 12. Everything has two sides, and there is no one side to everything. Use a unified scale to measure whether it is yes or no. If you look at something from different angles, you will see different scenery and have different feelings. 13. Winter is here, can spring be far behind? ——Shelley 14. In a book called "Dream of Red Mansions", the Confucian scholar sees "Yi", the Taoist sees prostitution, the gifted scholar sees lingering, the revolutionist sees rows, and the gossip sees the secrets of the palace. ——Lu Xun 15. Sometimes you need to leave the usual road and sneak into the forest, and you will definitely find something you have never seen before. ——Bell 16. The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth. ——Leo Tolstoy A thing has a complex and multi-faceted nature, which means that it has rich connections with the outside world. "Strong ties" generally mean that we can only see the familiar side of ourselves. This perspective is one-sided and needs to be enriched. Sometimes we can see all the strong relationships, but we often act emotionally and think more about problems from the perspective of "self". At this time, letting go of emotions and thinking about problems from another perspective will often lead to different results. This is often called "Empathy" is also called "empathy". Being able to judge the scene and clearly distinguish your own role makes it easier to make the correct choice of perspective. Or look at it from multiple perspectives and have comprehensive control, that would be better. In any case, the meaning of multiple perspectives is acceptance, listening, openness, and tolerance. Viewed horizontally, it looks like a ridge and a peak on the side. Humor: celebrities are called witty, and common people call them talkative; Playfulness: celebrities are called romantic, and common people call them obscene. Optimists see opportunities in hardships, pessimists see hardships in opportunities. The same things, from different angles, will make a world of difference. The soul of each of us is a window, and everything outside the soul constitutes the colorful and extremely enchanting world in life. In this colorful world, we experience the impermanence of life. How many times have our minds wandered in darkness and depression, or been frustrated because of failure, or felt lost because of boredom. How many times have our souls experienced the hardships of life, and how many times have we fallen into the abyss of despair. In life, we often hear others complain: "Why is life so unfair? Why does it give me so many hardships? Why can't I have eternal joy and happiness like others?" Such people are just He has seen the hardships that life has given him, but he has never looked at life from a different angle, nor has he changed his mentality to understand everything in life. The true perfection of a person does not lie in what he possesses, but in what he deeply experiences. Optimists see opportunities in hardships, while pessimists see hardships in opportunities. The key to the secret lies in your attitude towards it. If we think about it from another perspective, the failures, setbacks or frustrations we encounter in life will be a rare treasure. Because these failures and setbacks have tempered our will, allowed us to experience a different kind of life, and also made us feel the depth, weight and richness of life, because hardship is the highest school for tempering our personality. If we can think of these when we complain, then our hearts will suddenly become enlightened, and our lives will be far away from darkness and full of sunshine. There is a story about an old woman who was widowed in her early years and raised her two sons by herself. She regarded her sons as her life. She was happy because of their joy and happy because of their worries. blame. The two sons go to the market every day and do small businesses to make ends meet. The eldest son sells umbrellas and the younger son sells noodles. On a sunny day, the old man looked at the splendid sun on the horizon, and his heart was full of sorrow: "No one bought my eldest son's umbrella!" When it was raining on a cloudy day, the old man lamented again with a sad face: " When can the noodles made by my youngest son be dried and sold?" As a result, the old man spent every day sighing, and his face that had gone through many vicissitudes of life looked even older.

Until one day, a wise man's advice made the old man's face bloom: "Why don't you look at the problem from a different angle? On a sunny day, you should be happy for your younger son, and on a cloudy day, you should feel lucky for your eldest son. !" The old man's heart suddenly became enlightened. From then on, she no longer had any worries and lived happily in her old age! From this we can see how important it is to change our mentality and think about problems from another angle in our lives! Maslow also said: "If your mentality changes, your attitude will change; if your attitude changes, your habits will change; if your habits change, your personality will change; if your personality changes, your life will change." In the hot summer, people complain about the scorching sun. The impatience and uneasiness caused by the harsh weather and the unbearable heat, sometimes we even use this mentality as a grand reason to comfort ourselves for the unfinished process due to laziness. But I didn’t change my mentality and think from another angle. In fact, while summer brings heat, it also dedicates passion and beauty to us: the lush green branches and leaves make us feel the vitality of life; The shiny dresses showed off our beautiful limbs, while the refreshing shaved ice and various cold drinks made us feel so comfortable! Aren’t these enough to bring us positive, healthy and happy thoughts? In the howling autumn wind, when the withered yellow leaves curl up and tremble in the cold wind, do we only see its incomplete body and the life that is about to pass away? From another angle and a different mentality, we can also feel the brilliance and splendor of fallen leaves. They complete the inherent cycle of life and render the solemn colors of a season; now, fallen leaves want to sleep in the soil forever, which is the deep love of their trees. Mother Root is nurturing new lives next spring, and is accepting the baptism and test of time and space for the midsummer appointment of the coming year! But it's a blessing in disguise, but you don't care about blessings and misfortunes; blessings are the source of disaster, and misfortune is the source of blessing. This is the mysterious rule of the Creator, the subtle work of nature! If you don’t understand this, you will cry when your horse is lost, you will be extremely happy when your horse recovers, you will be sad when your horse is injured, you will be happy when you are exempted from service. Isn’t this a kind of sadness of being fooled? A couple had a quarrel, and the wife ran back to her parents' house in anger. The father took a piece of white paper, drew a small black dot on it, and asked his daughter what she saw. The daughter said she saw a small black dot, and the father sighed and said, "You can't see such a big piece of white paper, but you see such a small black dot. Why can't you see the beauty in life?" Yes, Mentality is in the depths of our own souls, and we have the sole right to decide whether our lives will be happy or not. Life has given us a lot of helplessness and troubles, so why don’t we let our minds think about everything from a different angle? Why should we immediately draw a circle and circle our hearts heavily? More often than not, it is not life that gives us despair and sadness, but that we ourselves have reduced our hearts to a miserable state! In fact, the world outside the window of our souls is wonderful every day. In fact, our seemingly bumpy life path is always full of opportunities. In fact, happiness is everywhere around us. In fact, the troubles in our lives can also be thrown away - as long as we Look at it from another angle! A falling snow brings warmth and coldness to your heart.

Changing a different mentality and perspective in life is not only a liberation of the soul and an enrichment of life, but also a kind of rational thinking, a kind of wisdom in life, and a kind of innovative judgment on things! With a different mentality and perspective, we will understand the meaning of life more: "Don't be pessimistic when life is not going your way, don't fall into a trough and be unable to extricate yourself; don't be complacent when life is successful, don't be so beautiful that you forget about it!" No matter what life gives us, We should all deal with the challenges calmly and happily - don't be arrogant when we win and don't be discouraged when we lose. From a different perspective, we can appreciate a different scenery of life!