Appreciating others is a state of mind

Treating others well is a kind of mind

Caring for others is a quality

Understanding others is a A kind of self-cultivation

Helping others is a kind of happiness

Learning from others is a kind of wisdom

Visiting friends is a habit

Cheating me People who have increased my knowledge

People who have tripped me have strengthened my abilities

People who have slandered me have sharpened my character

People who have despised me People awakened my self-esteem

People who scolded me boosted my wisdom

People who abandoned me taught me my independence

People who hurt me made me sad Trained my mind

Principles of communication

Respect for each other depends on virtue

Friendship between people depends on affection

When people follow each other, they follow righteousness

When people believe, they believe in sincerity

When people get along with each other, they are in the heart

The hypocritical network is the real you and me

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Self-respect and self-love, don’t judge people’s faults

Don’t disdain high-ranking officials, don’t reject the three religions and nine streams

Don’t despise the literati, old and young men, don’t abandon them

When you meet a close friend online, you only have to say a few words to avoid speculation.

Principle of looking at people

To judge a person’s energy and blood, you only need to look at his hair

< p> To know a person’s mentality, you only need to look at his eyes

To know a person’s worth, you only need to look at his opponent

To know a man’s taste, You only need to look at his socks to know

To see whether a woman is superior, you only need to look at her hands to know

Look at a person's trump card. Just look at the friends around him to know

To look at a person’s character, just look at his handwriting

To look at a country’s national education, just look at You can tell in the public toilet

To see whether a person is happy, just look at his expression when he wakes up from a dream in the morning

To see a person's mind, just look at how he is You will know when you face failure and being betrayed

Looking at the relationship between two people, you only need to look at the tension of the other party when an accident occurs

Life insights

< p> When a person is in the world, he cannot control his actions

When a person is in a marriage, he cannot control his love

When a person is in an officialdom, he cannot control his words

When a person is in a work unit, he cannot control what he does. By oneself

People in this world cannot control their destiny

If life is helpless, what can be done by oneself

People are forced out

If you are simple, the world will be simple to you

There is no rehearsal in life, every day is live broadcast

If life is in the wrong direction, stopping is progress

Life is nothing more than making others smile, and occasionally making others smile

The two major tragedies in life are despair and complacency

Life is the same as love. If you miss it, you will miss it. If a person does a simple thing well, it will be extraordinary

If a person wants to do an ordinary thing well, it will be extraordinary

Being pregnant with talent is like being pregnant. People will notice it over time

There is only one step from the noble to the absurd, but there is no way from the absurd to the noble

I don’t want to be friends with the rich. I am poor, but I am not humble if I am friends with the nobles

There are only people who can't figure it out in the world, and there is no impossible road

Pride cannot last, desires cannot be indulged, happiness cannot be extreme, and ambition cannot be moved< /p>

In the past, when we drank with friends, we knew that a thousand cups were too few. Now, when we drink with friends, we know that there are too few cups.

To succeed, you need friends. To achieve great success, you need enemies.

The highest value of life The realm is tolerance, and the highest realm of getting along is respect

Ability is like a check, it is useful only if it is cashed, otherwise it is worthless

The so-called life, old age, illness and death are all about living well. , grow old slowly, get sick late, and die quickly

The so-called iron rice bowl is not about eating in one place for a lifetime, but about having food wherever you go.

As long as you can realize it, it is never too late to start; when you feel it is too late, it is precisely the earliest time

A warning to the world

It is not necessary to say everything when you know something, just leave some behind. Be virtuous to yourself

Don’t be too harsh on your responsibilities, keep some sense of yourself

Don’t be too proud of your talents, keep some connotation in yourself

Don’t show off your edge. Keep some of your deep love for yourself

Don’t ask for all the merits, keep some of your humility to yourself

Don’t rob yourself when you are justified, keep some of your tolerance for yourself

Don’t need to be favored Don't rely on all the resources, leave some escape for yourself

Don't rely on all the momentum, leave some kindness to yourself

Don't enjoy all the wealth, leave some blessings for yourself

Don’t do everything, leave some room for yourself