? That day, I realized that I let go faster and faster, the biggest reason is that I know how to have it!
My children are mine, my family is mine, my friends are mine, my car is mine, my house is mine, my money is mine, my career is mine ... Yes, it seems that everyone who has something to do with us will feel it is their own. The better these are, the happier we will be. Once these are damaged, once lost, it will make us extremely painful. In fact, if we don't exist, they are still there ... Even after a long time, we will forget that we ever existed.
Why don't these things that belong to us come with us?
What we think we have is actually only temporary custody …
Letting go is not to let us give up these things, but to let go of the things in our hearts ... Life seems to have changed nothing, but to let go of the things in our hearts, everything has changed!
In the process of putting down my heart, I saw a sentence, "If you don't have it, how can you lose it?" ..... Since you didn't, or lost, naturally put it down!
At the same time, when you let go of what you think you have externally, you will feel happy and grateful for what you have internally!
The warmth brought by children, family and friends, the feeling of love, the convenience brought by cars and houses, the sense of happiness and satisfaction, the sense of accomplishment brought by money and career, etc ... These feelings are what we really have and will exist with our existence, and will leave when we leave. These feelings are unique in the world. They nourish our lives, so gratitude will arise. ...