Is your request for remarriage a timely help or a icing on the cake?

The essential difference between the two words is that the former is better because of pity, while the latter is better because of admiration.

Pity is always a humble word in the emotional world of both sexes. Although it may temporarily prop up a sunny day for you, there is bound to be a bigger storm coming. Because compassion is unequal in essence, it relies entirely on one party's consciousness and character, which is contrary to the foundation of two of a kind and can't stand the test of time, and it will also make the beneficiary completely lose the ability to pursue happiness in repeated illusions.

but admiration is different. Admiration is based on your own good enough, and the initiative is in your own hands. You don't need to blindly hope for each other, you can be yourself confidently in your own little world, and even lose your temper occasionally. Even if one day, your feelings are gone, you may at least have that beautiful self.

especially remarriage means a new start in life. We must never be as frivolous and willful as we were when we were young. We have enough experience and demands to be better ourselves. Now, we are mature enough to look forward to a better future. We will neither have the extravagant hope of "expecting a pie from the sky" as before, nor will we have the fatalistic self-indulgence. I will definitely try my best to be a better self. If a man who really knows my fragrance comes near one day, it will be a kind of luck in life.