Pressure and motivation coexist.
pressure can sometimes be transformed into motivation.
The greater the pressure, the greater the motivation
Too much pressure can not be converted into motivation, but may also damage our physical and mental health.
famous saying
pressure makes motivation. -Proverbs
Without high pressure, oil will not emerge by itself, and pressure will become the driving force. -Hu Xin
There is no pressure in a well and no oil is produced, and people are floating around without pressure. -Wang Jinxi
Classic material
Pressure is directly proportional to motivation (hounds and rabbits)
A hound chased the rabbit out of its nest and kept chasing it for a long time without catching a sheep
Seeing this, he laughed at the hound and said, "Between you two, the smaller one runs much faster."
The hound replied, "You don't know, the purpose of our running is totally different! I only want a meal, but he wants his life! "
Stress makes life stronger (the rise and fall of antelopes)
A zoologist has studied the antelopes living on both sides of the Orange River in the African prairie. He found that the east coast antelopes have stronger reproductive ability than the west coast, and their running speed is different, which is 13 meters faster than the west coast.
With these differences, the zoologist was puzzled, because the living environment and genus of these antelopes are the same, and the source of feed is the same, and all of them are mainly a kind of pasture called Yingluo.
One year, with the help of the Animal Protection Association, he caught 1 antelopes on the east and west banks and sent them to the other side. As a result, after one year, 1 animals transported to the west coast were bred to 14 animals, while 1 animals transported to the east coast were left with 3 animals, all of which were eaten by wolves.
The zoologist finally understood that the antelope on the east coast are strong because there is a wolf pack living near them, and the antelope on the west coast are weak because they lack such a group of natural enemies.
Animals without natural enemies are often the first to die out; Animals with natural enemies will gradually multiply and grow.
Stress can stimulate vitality (jaguar's life)
Jaguar is an endangered animal, with only 17 animals left in the world, one of which lives in the National Zoo in Peru.
In order to protect this tiger, Peruvians set aside 1,5 acres of mountains from nature to build a tiger garden and let it live freely. People who have visited the Tiger Garden say that it is really a paradise for tigers, with mountains and water, lush flowers and trees on the mountains, gurgling streams at the foot of the mountains, and flocks of cattle, sheep and rabbits for tigers to enjoy. Strangely, no one has seen this tiger catch its prey (it only eats the meat sent by the administrator), nor has it swept down the mountain majestically. It often lies in an air-conditioned tiger house, eating and sleeping, and sleeping and eating.
one day, a citizen who came here to visit said, how can it not be lazy? The tiger is the king of the forest. Can you interest a group of small animals that only eat grass? Such a big tiger park, if you don't get a few wolves, at least let some jackals go, right? The leader of Tiger Park caught three leopards and threw them into Tiger Park.
This move really worked. Since the three leopards entered Tiger Park, jaguars no longer eat and sleep all day, but are increasingly full of energy. Natural enemies can arouse the confidence of biological life!
Try to turn pressure into motivation (strong Helen Keller)
When Helen Keller was over one year old, she was blind, deaf and dumb because of illness. For this reason, Helen's temper has become very violent, and she easily loses her temper and throws things. Her family saw that this was not the way to go on, so they invited a very patient tutor, Miss Sullivan, for her. Under her influence and education, Helen gradually changed. She used her only sense of touch, taste and smell to get to know the surrounding environment, tried to enrich herself, and later further studied writing. A few years later, when her first work, My Life, was published, it immediately caused a sensation all over the United States. In her article, If you give me three days of light, she expressed her strong, optimistic and uplifting spirit, and all this should be attributed to her understanding of life.
When blindness is only regarded as a stress, she is miserable and melancholy, so she can't really face life; When she turns pressure into motivation, life chooses her
stories and random thoughts
Stress is the motivation of life (lion and antelope)
Every day, when the sun rises, the animals on the African prairie start running.
The mother lion is educating her children:
"Son, you must run faster and faster. If you can't outrun the slowest antelope, you will starve to death."
In another field, the mother antelope is also educating her children:
"Son, you must run faster, faster. If you can't run faster than the fastest lion, you will definitely be eaten by them."
Life needs pressure (a ship in a storm)
A cargo ship returned after unloading, and suddenly encountered a huge storm in the vast sea.
panicked sailors are in a rash.
The old captain decisively ordered: "Open all warehouses and fill them with water immediately."
The sailors are worried: "Isn't it asking for a dead end to add more risks?"
The captain said calmly, "Have you ever seen a tree with deep and thick roots blown down by a storm? What was blown down was a small tree without a foundation. "
the sailors did it with a grain of salt. Although the storm and waves are still so fierce, as the water in the warehouse becomes more and more full, the freighter gradually becomes stable.
The captain told the relieved sailors, "An empty wooden barrel is easily overturned by the wind. If it is filled with water and loaded, the wind can't blow over. It is the safest time when the ship is loaded, and it is the most dangerous time when the ship is empty. " In fact, each of us is a ship sailing only in the ocean of life, and all kinds of pressures in life are our burdens. Although these pressures sometimes make us tired and fidgety, they are also the driving force to ensure our progress. Without these pressures, we would easily be knocked over by the waves of life
Meet the challenge of pressure in the new century (pressure in the 21st century)
The 21st century is a century of fierce competition. Peaceful development has become the theme of today's era. Fierce competition is like a cruel war, eliminating groups of people with high scores and low abilities, which shows that we must have extraordinary qualities and various abilities. However, competition is inevitable, which makes me feel stressed.
the 21st century is a century of "knowledge explosion". I used to secretly blame my parents why they pushed me to the stage at the turn of the century and accepted the test of knowledge. The position of knowledge is becoming more and more important. Without knowledge, it is impossible to survive and stand on the society. The construction of the motherland needs talents. What I need is high-quality talents. I am afraid of becoming an laggard, and I am deeply stressed. < P > The 21st century is a century of "reducing the burden". My wish is to be an engineer of the human soul, and to train and transport high-quality talents for the construction of the motherland. However, in the new century, as the content of teaching reform, "reducing the burden" requires teachers to have new teaching methods and innovative abilities, and cultivate new talents who understand knowledge and have the ability. All this tells me: in order to make my wish come true, I must turn pressure into motivation, study hard and work hard to meet the challenges of the new millennium.
Pressure and motivation should be properly combined (treat different children with different attitudes)
When parents think that it is the right choice to stimulate their children with the advantages of other children, please don't forget that their children also have advantages. He is not useless. He is not like what you said. When parents exaggerate their children's advantages a little, children will work harder as their parents say. If the child is not confident enough, please try to do this: let him find his confidence. If the child is stubborn, then parents can say, "You can't do it at all." When the child hears it, his stubbornness will occupy his reason and inertia. He will prove to his parents that he can do it, just for the parents' white lie: "You can't do it at all."
these are absolutely correct. If force is power, power is pressure. If you combine the two properly, nothing can't be successful! Parents feel good, so give it a try.
The pressure of love (Lingling's transformation)
Lingling's study will decline, and she will stay up late with her every night. On weekends, she not only stopped her favorite dance class and calligraphy class, but also invited a tutor to help her homework at home. Lingling often feels very tired and confused. Although she works hard, her grades are slowly slipping. Her parents were anxious and heartbroken, and Lingling began to doubt herself. Is it true that the older a girl grows, the less intelligent she becomes? Looking at mom and dad's eager eyes and everything they have done for themselves, Lingling feels that they are about to collapse. < P > Parents' love was originally the driving force for us to move forward, but when love becomes a kind of pressure, it will become a burden for us to move forward.