Frustration forges success
"If you don't give up, you can't be discouraged by failure, and you can't shrink from difficulties, you will eventually succeed." As time goes by, the years As time goes by, Dr. Sun Yat-sen's inspirational sayings are still so powerful and inspiring after a hundred years. The poet Shelley once said: "Winter has come, can spring be far behind?" He also said: "No matter what kind of sky is above my head, I am ready to bear the wind and rain." Shelley's poems and Mr. Sun Yat-sen's remarks are here It fits together perfectly. Indeed, setbacks are the source of success, and success often belongs to those who do not lose heart and despair in the face of adversity and setbacks, but dare to persevere and fight to the end.
Over the long years, we have gone through so many ups and downs, rolling waves, and found so many heroes. Over the past five thousand years, countless heroes have been created by setbacks. "The wind is blowing, the clouds are flying, and the powerful winds are flying in the sea, and I am returning to my hometown." Everyone in the world admires the great ancestor Liu Bang who returned to his hometown in high spirits and well-dressed. However, they do not know that it was the many setbacks and tribulations that made him achieve his great achievements. At a banquet in Hongmen, facing the murderous atmosphere, Liu Bang did not hesitate to abandon his dignity as a prince and humbled himself to please the overlord Xiang Yu, so that he could escape unscathed. In terms of military, facing his army that was retreating steadily on the battlefield, Liu Bang was not anxious Undaunted, he fought with perseverance for a last-ditch battle and finally defeated the Chu army at Gaixia, laying the foundation for the Han Dynasty for the next six hundred years. "Success or failure is gone, but the green mountains are still there, and the sunset is red a few times." Following this bold and majestic poem, I think of Yang Shen, who is known as the most talented man in the Ming Dynasty. He was so ambitious that he was influenced by his father Yang Yanhe. He was ruthlessly excluded from the court due to his involvement in the "Da Yi Li" case and will never be renewed. At that time, he was full of melancholy. Although he cared about the common people, his talents were not recognized, and he suffered great setbacks. But he was not discouraged at all. He turned around and devoted himself to literary creation, and finally became the most popular one. Since ancient times, heroes have suffered a lot of misfortune, and they have faced many dangers and finally emerged from the cocoon.
Not only ancient people, but also modern people have numerous examples of facing setbacks and achieving success. At the 2008 Beijing Olympics, in the highly anticipated 110-meter hurdles, Liu Xiang sadly left the field with a faltering step. Since then, the pain of injuries, the confusion of the Chinese people, and even the attacks from the media have been tormenting this young man in his twenties all the time, but now "Xiangfeiren" has used his tenacious will to overcome the defeat. In the shadow of him, he announced his strong return to the world with his impressive results of three championships in January. The setbacks made him more mature, and the setbacks made him move to a higher level.
Shi Tiesheng's mutilated body gave him tenacity, allowing him to use his body to compose the richest thoughts in the world. The loneliness of the island gave Robinson perseverance, allowing him to finally wait for the arrival of the lifeboat, and in troubled times The war gave Hao Sijia growth and made her the most beautiful woman in troubled times.
There is no road to success that is not full of thorns. Encounter setbacks, laugh at the pain
Life is not easy. The seemingly smooth journey of life is filled with all kinds of thorns, which often make people miserable. Pain is to people what strong wind is to a shabby house, huge waves are to a lonely boat, and tongues of water are to the heart. Through the vicissitudes of life, I don’t know how many narrow-minded people have failed to get up because of frustrations that magnified their pain; in the thousands of years of human life, I don’t know how many weak-willed people have become demoralized because of frustrations that have magnified their pain; Amplify the pain and bury yourself in the abyss of eternal destruction... In the face of setbacks, we should not magnify the pain, but face life head-on and reduce the pain until the day of success.
"When you are old, you are still strong, and you would rather move your heart with a white head; when you are poor, you will become stronger, and you will not fall into the clouds." Wang Bo, one of the four heroes of the early Tang Dynasty, can be said to be: "The fortune is not good, and the life is full of misfortune." However, in the face of setbacks, he can understand people's fate and look at life with a smile.
Just imagine, without Wang Bo's cheerful and broad-minded mind, how could he have sang the eternal song of "a bosom friend in the sea is as close as a neighbor to the end of the world"?
Did Li Bai, the romantic poet who said, “I am able to bend my eyebrows and bend my waist to serve the powerful, make me unhappy”, fall silent after encountering setbacks in his career? Are you depressed? No. "Sleeping in a restaurant in Chang'an City," he laughed at the pain, walked away in the face of setbacks, visited famous mountains, and finally achieved his eternal and elegant romantic feelings!
From this point of view, in the face of setbacks, we should not be overly indulged in the shadow of pain and frustration; in the face of setbacks, we should not immerse ourselves in the mire of sadness and pain all day long. Deep; in the face of setbacks, we should not be sluggish for a long time and lose the direction at hand. It is a wise choice to encounter setbacks and reduce the pain. On the contrary, if you indulge in the pain of frustration, the consequences will be disastrous.
Facing the setback of losing his second brother, Liu Bei could not let go of his brotherly love, which magnified his pain. As a result, he made a wrong decision in the pain and rashly sent troops to attack Wu, resulting in the eternal tragedy of "The White Emperor Tuo Gu". Sad! Sad!
Never forget the past and be the teacher of the future. The ancients have set too many examples for us and left too many regrets. In today's increasingly competitive society, setbacks are everywhere. If the pain is amplified due to temporary setbacks, you will regret it for life. When encountering setbacks, treat it as a breeze and let it blow gently by your ears; when encountering setbacks, treat it as an insignificant wave and don't let it stir up stormy waves in your heart; when encountering setbacks, treat it as pain. A particle of dust in your eyes can be drowned by a blink of an eye or a drop of tear.
When encountering setbacks, the pain should not be magnified. Wipe the sweat on your forehead, wipe the tears in your eyes, and move on! I believe that one day you will see the blue sky, white clouds, green grass, and the sweet smile on the corner of your mouth...