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Translation
Don’t be too harsh when blaming others for their faults, but consider whether the other person can bear it.
Teach others not to expect too much when teaching others to do good, but to consider whether the other person can do it.
Original text
Worry and diligence are virtues, but if they are too bitter, they will not be suitable for the mood; indifference is a high wind, and if they are too dry, they will not be able to help others or benefit things.
Translation
Doing things with all your heart is a good virtue, but if you take it too seriously and become mentally exhausted, your spirit will not be adjusted and you will lose the joy of life.
It is a noble sentiment to take fame and wealth very lightly, but if you are too pure and have few desires, you will make little contribution to social life.
Original text
People come and go, and the world is bumpy.
If you can't go where you want to go, you must know how to take a step back; if you can go where you want to go, you must give in three-thirds of the effort.
Translation
Human feelings are fickle and the road of life is bumpy.
So when you encounter a dead end, you must know how to take a step back; when your career is going smoothly, you must have the mind and virtue to be courteous.
Original text
Those who subdue demons first subdue their own minds, and if their hearts are subdued, the demons will retreat; those who control the horizontal will first control the energy, and if the energy is calm, the external forces will not invade.
Translation
To subdue the external evil, you must first subdue the evil in your own heart; after the evil in your own heart has been conquered, it will naturally become stable, and then all external evil will naturally be unbearable. effect.
To control external unfavorable things, you must first control your own floating emotions; after your own emotions are controlled, you will naturally not be impatient, then external unruly things will naturally not invade.
Original text
If the liver is affected, the eyes cannot see; if the kidneys are affected, the ears cannot hear; if the disease is not seen by others, it will definitely occur in what others can see.
Therefore, if a gentleman wants not to offend Zhao Zhao, he must first not offend Ming Ming.
Translation
If the liver is infected with disease, the eyes cannot see; if the kidneys are infected with disease, the ears cannot hear clearly.
Although the disease occurs in invisible internal organs, the symptoms occur in visible places.
So if a gentleman wants to make no mistakes on the surface, he must work hard to be cautious in the invisible details.
Original text
If a family member has had a past, it is not appropriate to get angry or abandon it lightly. It is difficult to talk about this matter, so use other people to hide it and ridicule it. If you don’t realize it today, you will be warned again in the future.
Just like the spring breeze thawing the ice, such as the harmonious atmosphere melting away the ice, this is the model of family.
Translation
If a family member makes a mistake, you should not lose your temper casually, let alone ignore it with an indifferent attitude.
If it is difficult to tell the mistake directly, use other things to hint at it so that it can be corrected; if you cannot make him repent immediately, wait patiently for the opportunity and then give him earnest advice.
Because of the earnest and good temptation, like the spring breeze, it can eliminate the winter cold of the ice and snow, and like the warm current, it can melt the ice that is as frozen as stones.
A harmonious family is a model family.
Original text
Living in adversity, the whole body is covered with needles and stones, and the drill is carried out without realizing it.
In a favorable situation, there are weapons and spears in front of you, and you don’t even know it.
Translation
If a person lives in a difficult and difficult situation, then everything around him will be like acupuncture and medicine, which will unknowingly make you Be diligent in your conduct and cure all your problems.
If a person lives in a carefree and prosperous environment, it is equivalent to having weapons and weapons in front of you, which will harm your body and mind unknowingly, leading to failure.
Original text
Don’t blame others for their minor faults, don’t disclose their privacy, and don’t remember their past evil deeds. The three of them can cultivate virtue, and they can also prevent harm.
Translation
Don’t easily blame others for their minor mistakes, don’t casually reveal the privacy of others’ lives, and don’t dwell on other people’s past mistakes.
These three principles of life can not only cultivate your own moral character, but also avoid unexpected disasters.
Original text
It is not advisable to employ people carefully, because those who think about effectiveness will go; it is not appropriate to make friends excessively, because if they are excessive, those who pay tribute and flattery will come.
Translation
Be generous and not too mean; if you are too mean, even the people who want to work for you will try to leave.
You have to be selective when making friends, and don’t make too many friends. Then people who are good at flattering people will try to get close to them.
Original text
Where the wind is slanting and the rain is severe, you must stand firm; where the flowers and willows are thick, you must keep your eyes high; where the road is dangerous and the path is dangerous, you must turn back early .
Translation
In a turbulent situation, you must control yourself and stand firm, so as not to be swallowed by the huge waves.
When surrounded by gorgeous beauty, you need to have a broad vision and control your emotions, so as not to be fooled by beauty.
When things become dangerous, you must retreat bravely to avoid getting stuck in the mud and unable to extricate yourself.
Original text
When things go against my will, I will think about the people who don’t know me, and my resentment will clear up.
When my heart is a little lazy, I will think about people who are better than me, and my spirit will be high.
Translation
When your career is not going well and you are in adversity, you should think about those who are not as good as you, so that you will not blame others.
When your career is going well but your spirit is slack, you should think about those who are stronger than yourself, so that you will naturally cheer up.
Original text
Don’t take advantage of happiness and make light promises, don’t take advantage of being drunk and become angry, don’t take advantage of speed and make things troublesome, and don’t end up dying because of fatigue.
Translation
Don’t make promises to others without considering it when you are happy; don’t make promises to others when you are drunk; don’t let yourself be lazy when you are tired, and do things without beginning or end.
Original text
The mouth is the door to the heart. If the mouth is not kept secret, the true secrets will be revealed; the mind is the foot of the heart. If the mind is not guarded carefully, the evil path will be taken.
Translation
The mouth is the door to the heart. If the door is not tightly guarded, all the secrets in the family will be leaked.
Will is the legs and feet of the heart. If the will is not strong, it will waver and go astray.
Original text
Those who blame others should be within the scope of their faults, and their feelings will be peaceful; those who blame themselves should be within the scope of their faults, and their virtue will be advanced.
Translation
Be kind to others. When others make mistakes, forgive them as if they have not made any mistakes. Only in this way can they correct their mistakes calmly.
Require yourself to be strict, and try to find out your own mistakes when you are not at fault, so that you can improve your moral character.
Original text
Sexual desire is burning, but when you think about illness, you feel like ashes; fame and wealth are sweet, but when you think about death, you feel like chewing wax.
For example, if people often worry about death and illness, they can also eliminate illusory karma and develop Taoist aspirations.
Translation
When sexual desire is burning like a fire, just think about the painful situation of being sick, and the desire will immediately turn into a pile of cold ashes.
When fame and wealth are as sweet as honey, just think about the scene of dying, and fame and wealth will taste like nothing.
So a person should always think about illness and death, which can also eliminate sinful thoughts and increase virtuous thoughts.
Original text
Human feelings are joyful when hearing the crow of an oriole, disgusted when hearing the croaking of frogs, thinking about cultivating flowers when seeing them, and wanting to get rid of grass when encountering them, but they are used with form and energy.
If we look at it from the perspective of nature, it is not self-proclaiming its heavenly secrets, nor is it self-sufficient in business.
Translation
It is human nature to be happy when you hear an oriole singing sweetly, and hate when you hear a frog croaking; when you see flowers, you want to cultivate them, and when you see weeds, you want to eradicate them.
Judgment is entirely based on one's own likes, angers, likes and dislikes.
In fact, according to the nature of living things, whether the oriole is sweet or the frog is annoying, they are all expressing their emotions; whether the flowers are blooming or the weeds are growing, they are not stretching them. Where is the vitality?
Original text
The hair is falling and the teeth are sparse, and the illusory shape is allowed to wither; the birds sing and the flowers bloom, recognizing the true nature of one's own nature.
Translation
As people age, their hair and teeth gradually become thinner. This is a natural phenomenon, and you can allow it to degenerate naturally without feeling sad.
To realize the eternal nature through the singing of birds and the blooming of flowers is the most open-minded outlook on life.
Original text
Those who want to be in it will see the waves boiling in the cold pool, and the mountains and forests will not be able to see its silence.
Translation
A person full of desire can make the calm inner lake stir up turbulent waves, which cannot be calmed down even if he lives in the deep mountains and old forests.
A person who has no desires in his heart will feel cool even in the scorching summer heat, and will not feel noisy even if he lives in a busy city.
Original text
Gu Guyun: "The bamboo shadow sweeps the steps without moving, and the moon wheel passes through the swamp water without leaving a trace."
My scholar said: "The water flow No matter how anxious the situation is, it will always be calm. Even if the flowers are falling frequently, the mind will be at ease. ”
People always hold this intention to respond to things, and how comfortable their body and mind are.
Translation
An eminent monk in ancient times said: "The bamboo shadow passed over the steps, but the dust on the ground did not fly; the moon wheel crossed the pond, but there was no shadow left on the water. A Confucian scholar said: "No matter how fast the water flows, as long as you are in a calm mood, you will not hear the sound of the water; even if the petals fall one after another, as long as you are in a relaxed mood, you will not be disturbed."
If you can treat others with this attitude, how free you will be physically and mentally.
Original text
Don't be surprised by favor or disgrace, just watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; you have no intention of leaving or leaving, just follow the clouds rolling in the sky.
Translation
Be indifferent to all glory and humiliation, and always enjoy the flowers blooming and falling in the courtyard with a quiet mood.
Indifferent to all the ups and downs, gains and losses, watching the clouds in the sky gather and disperse with the wind.
Original text
Those who lie down for a long time will fly high, and those who start early will fly high. Knowing this, you can avoid the worry of being delayed and can calm down your impatience.
Translation
A bird that has been hiding for a long time will fly very high once it takes off; a flower that blooms early will wither quickly when it falls.
As long as you understand this truth, you can avoid the worry of not being able to find your talent, and you can also dispel the idea of ??eagerness for success.
Original text
Today’s people are dedicated to pursuing the absence of thoughts, but they cannot be without them in the end. It’s just that the thoughts before them are not delayed and the thoughts behind them are not welcomed.
But if you let go of the current situation, it will naturally fade into nothingness.
Translation
People today want to have no distracting thoughts in their minds, but they still cannot do it.
In fact, as long as you put past thoughts out of your mind, don’t worry about future things, grasp the reality and do the current things well, then distracting thoughts will gradually disappear.
Original text
When the grasp is uncertain, it is better to disappear from the hustle and bustle of the world, so that this mind can see no desire and not be chaotic, so as to clarify my quiet body.
Be firm in your management, but also be able to get lost in the dust, so that your mind can see what you want but not be confused, so as to nourish my perfect mind.
Translation
When the will is not yet firm and uncertain, we should stay away from the materialistic environment, so as not to see the temptation of materialistic desires and not to confuse people's hearts. Only in this way can we understand the true nature of purity.
When you are strong-willed and can control yourself, you will have more contact with various environments. Even if you see material temptations, your mind will not be confused, so as to cultivate your mature and simple spirituality.
Original text
The Shi family follows fate, I am a Confucian, and the four characters are the floating bag for crossing the sea.
The road to the world is vast, and if you seek perfection, everything will arise.
Translation
Buddhism advocates that everything should be allowed to take its course, and nothing should be forced; Confucianism advocates that everyone should abide by their duties and should not be greedy in anything.
The four words "according to fate" and "prime position" are the secrets of dealing with people, like floating balloons, which are tools for crossing the sea of ??life.
The journey of life is long and uncertain. If you strive for perfection in everything, it will definitely cause a lot of sorrow and trouble; if you can be content with the status quo in everything, you will have leisurely fun everywhere.
Answer: ——Phantom—— - Assistant Level 3 2-18 20:57
Ancient Quotes
Patriotism
1 ． Treat your home as your home, your hometown as your hometown, your country as your country, and the world as your world. ——"Guanzi·Herdsmen"
2. Never forgetting the country in the face of adversity is loyalty. ——"Zuo Zhuan·Year of Zhaogong"
3. I take a long breath to cover my tears, lamenting the hardships of people's lives. ——Qu Yuan's "Li Sao"
4. To benefit the country, not to seek wealth and honor. ——"Book of Rites·Confucianism"
5. Sacrificing one's life to go to the country's disaster, seeing death as a sudden return home. ——Cao Zhi's "White Horse"
6. Martyrs are as patriotic as home. ——Ge Hong's "Baopuzi·Waipian·Guangji" Martyr: Ambitious. People who make a difference.
7． Worry when the world is worried first, and rejoice when the world is happy later. ——Fan Zhongyan's "Yueyang Tower"
8. I don't dare to worry about my country despite my humble position. ——Lu You's "Sickness arose from the book"
9. Wang Shibei set the Central Plains Day, and he never forgot to tell Naiwen during family sacrifices. ——Lu You's "Shi'er"
10. Since ancient times, no one has died, leaving a loyal heart to illuminate history. ——Wen Tianxiang "Crossing the Lingding Ocean"
11. Serve the country with loyalty. ——"History of Song Dynasty·Biography of Yue Fei"
12. Every man is responsible for the rise and fall of the world. ——Mai Menghua "On China's survival is determined today"
Ming Zhi
13. If you hear the Tao in the morning, you will die in the evening. ——"The Analects·Liren"
14. It is not enough for a scholar to aspire to the Tao, but to be ashamed of those who wear bad clothes and eat bad food. ——"The Analects·Liren"
15. Scholars must be ambitious and have a long way to go. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Qin Bo"
16. Those who are not strong in ambition are not wise enough. ——"Mozi · Self-cultivation"
17. How can a sparrow know the ambition of a swan! - "Historical Records: Chen She Family"
18. Aim high. ——Zhuge Liang's "Book of Admonitions to Foreign Students"
19. Without indifference, there is no clear ambition; without tranquility, there is no far-reaching goal. ——Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments"
20. Where there's a will, there's a way. ——"Book of the Later Han·Biography of Geng Yan"
21. If the ambition is small, it will be easy to achieve. If it is easy to achieve, there will be no way to advance. ——Zhang Zai's "Confucian Classics·Xue Da Yuan Xia"
22. Those who accomplished great things in ancient times not only had extraordinary talents, but also had perseverance. ——Su Shi's "Chao Cuo Lun"
23. If you have ambitions, you will not grow taller in years; if you have no ambitions, you will live a hundred years in vain. ——Shi Chengjin's "Heirlooms·Proverbs and Herdsmen"
Zhi Jie
24. The three armies can seize the commander, but an ordinary man cannot seize the will. ——"The Analects·Zihan"
25. When the weather is cold, you will know that the pines and cypresses will wither. ——"The Analects·Zihan"
26. A man with lofty ideals and benevolence will not harm his benevolence by seeking life, but will sacrifice his life to achieve benevolence. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"
27. Don't lower your ambitions, don't humiliate your body. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Mitrin"
28. Wealth cannot be lascivious, poverty cannot be moved, and power cannot be bent. ——"Mencius, Duke Tengwen"
29. If you are poor, you will be good for yourself; if you are rich, you will be good for the world. ——"Mencius: Give your best"
30. Everyone is destined to die, and it may be heavier than Mount Tai or lighter than a feather. ——Sima Qian's "Report to Ren An"
31. Don't betray for the sake of poverty, don't change your mind for the sake of change. ——Huan Kuan's "Salt and Iron Theory: Vast Territory"
32. It would be better for the jade to be broken into pieces than to be completely destroyed. ——"Book of Northern Qi·Biography of Yuan Jing'an"
33. The strong wind knows the strong grass, and the rough waves know the sincere minister.
——Li Shimin's "Giving to Xiao Yu"
34. It emerges from the silt without being stained, and washes away the clear ripples without being stained. ——Zhou Dunyi's "On Love of Lotus"
35. When the time comes, we can see each other and draw pictures one by one. ——Wen Tianxiang's "Song of Righteousness"
36. Fame and integrity are as important as Mount Tai, but desire for profit is as light as a feather. ——Yu Qian's "Untitled"
37. Don't be afraid of being shattered into pieces, and remain innocent in the world. ——Yu Qian's "Song of Lime"
38. Don't let go of the green mountains, your roots are still in the broken rocks.
After thousands of hardships, I am still strong, no matter how strong the wind is from the southeast or northwest. ——Zheng Xie (xiè) "Inscriptions on Bamboo and Stone"
Self-improvement
39. Heaven is in good health, and a gentleman strives to constantly strive for self-improvement. ——"Book of Changes·Qian·Xiang"
40． He who conquers others is powerful, and he who conquers himself is strong. ——"Laozi" Chapter 33
41. Don't blame God, don't blame others. ——"The Analects·Xianwen"
42. When Heaven is about to entrust this person with a great responsibility, he must first strain his mind, strain his muscles and bones, starve his body and skin, deplete his body, and mess up his actions. ——"Mencius·Gao Zixia"
43. Born in sorrow and died in happiness. ——"Mencius·Gao Zixia"
44. The road is long and far away, I will search up and down. ——Qu Yuan's "Li Sao"
45. If you strengthen yourself through self-cultivation, your name will be worthy of Yao and Yu. ——"Xunzi · Self-cultivation"
46. Those who can defeat powerful enemies must first conquer themselves. ——"Shang Jun Shu·Painting Strategy"
47. An old man has ambitions for thousands of miles; martyrs have great ambitions in their old age. ——Cao Cao's "The Turtle Lives Longevity"
48. Don't forget to see the mulberry trees in the evening, and the sky will still be full of clouds. ——Liu Yuxi's "Instructions on Rewarding Lotte and Yong Lao"
49. There are many difficulties in front of us. Since ancient times, men should strive for self-improvement. ——Li Xianyong's "Giving People Away"
50. Live as a hero, die as a ghost. ——Li Qingzhao's "Wujiang"
51. The next step is to make further progress. ——Zhu Xi's "Reply to Gong Zhongzhi"
Integrity
52. Rhetoric establishes sincerity. ——"Book of Changes, Qian, Classical Chinese" Speech should be based on integrity.
53． If you are not refined or sincere, you cannot move people. ——"Zhuangzi·Father of Fish"
54. A broken promise cannot be established. ——"Zuo Zhuan·The 22nd Year of Duke Xiang"
55. A light promise will lead to a lack of faith. ——"Laozi" Chapter 63 People who make promises to others easily must rarely be trustworthy.
56. I examine myself three times every day: Am I being unfaithful to others? Make friends but don’t believe it? Are you not used to it? ——"The Analects of Confucius·Xueer"
57. When making friends, keep your word. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Xue Er"
58. People who have no faith do not know what is possible. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng" Ke: You can stand in the world.
59． The people cannot stand without trust. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan"
60. Be true to your word and bear fruit in your deeds. ——"The Analects·Zilu" Fruit: Decisive
61. A promise worth a thousand dollars. ——"Historical Records·Biography of Ji Bu Luan Bu"
Knowing shame
62. There is shame in doing one's own thing. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Zilu" Use shame to restrain your behavior.
63. It is not a human being to have no shame or hatred. ——"Mencius Gongsun Chou"
64. People must insult themselves, and then others will insult them. ——"Mencius Li Loushang" A person must first humiliate himself before others can insult him.
65． People can't be shameless. It's shameless to be shameless. ——"Mencius: Give Your Heart to Your Heart": The kind of shame that is shameless is truly shameless!
66. Knowing shame is close to courage. ——"Book of Rites· Doctrine of the Mean"
67. People must love themselves, and then others will love others; people must respect themselves, and then others will respect others. ——Yang Xiong's "Fayan Gentleman"
68. If people have shame, they can do something. ——Zhu Xi's "Zhu Zi Yu Lei" Ju Shi Thirteen
69. Five punishments are worse than one disgrace.
——Lu Kun's "Moaning Language·Government"
70. If all scholars know that there is shame, then the country will never be shameless. ——Gong Zizhen's "Ming Liang Lun II"
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71. If you see good things, move on (learn); if you make mistakes, change them. ——"Book of Changes·Yi·Xiang"
72. Don’t hesitate to change your past. ——"Shang Shu·Zhong Hui (huǐ)'s Edict"
73. If you don't be prepared when dealing with others, if you fail to detect yourself. ——"Shang Shu Yi Xun"
74. Who has no fault? If you can change your past, there is no greater good. ——"Zuo Zhuan, the Second Year of Xuangong"
75. To make mistakes without correcting them is to make mistakes. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong": If you make a mistake and don't correct it, this is really called a mistake.
76. Using copper as a mirror, you can straighten your clothes; using ancient times as a mirror, you can know the ups and downs; using people as a mirror, you can know gains and losses. ——"Old Tang Book Biography of Wei Zheng"
77. Those who speak are not guilty, but those who hear are warned. ——Bai Juyi's "Nine Books of the Yuan Dynasty"
78. It is unwise to make mistakes without knowing them; it is not courageous to know things but not be able to change them. ——Li Gou's "The Ninth Theory of Changes"
79. If you hear it, you will be happy. If you know your mistakes, you will not hide them and you will not be afraid to correct them. ——Lu Jiuyuan "With Fu Quanmei"
80. If there are any, then correct them; if not, then encourage them. ——Zhu Xi's "Annotations to the Four Books·lt; Annotations to the Analects of Confucius gt; Volume 1"
81. It is not more valuable than having no faults, but it is more valuable than being able to correct them. ——Wang Shouren's "Repair"
82. Qin's evil people heard about its mistakes and died, but Han's good plans were heard and prospered. ——Xue Xuan's "Study Record" Volume 10
83. Correcting one's mistakes and promoting one's good qualities is called "cultivation". ——Yan Yuan's "The Words and Deeds of Mr. Yan Xizhai"
84. Loyal advice is unpleasant to the ear and beneficial to action; good medicine is bitter to the mouth and beneficial to illness. ——"Zengguang Xianwen"
Hour and benevolence
85. Only the benevolent can do good to others and do evil to others. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Li Ren" Only the benevolent know how to love and hate others.
86． If people are not benevolent, what about etiquette? If people are not benevolent, what joy will there be? ——"The Analects of Confucius·Eight Yi (yì)"
87. The benevolent live longer. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yong Ye"
88. The benevolent are invincible. ——"Mencius, King Hui of Liang"
89. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan"
90. Being broad will win many people. ——"The Analects·Yang Huo"
91. When I am old, I am in harmony with others; when I am young, I am in harmony with others. ——"Mencius·King Hui of Liang"
92. A gentleman never fails to be kind to others. ——"Mencius Gongsun Chou" The highest virtue of a gentleman is to do good deeds with others.
93． Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius·Li Louxia"
94. Good words to others are warmer than cloth; words that hurt others are deeper than spears and halberds. ——"Xunzi·Honor and Disgrace"
95. Don't hide people's goodness, don't talk about people's evil. ——"Warring States Policy Wei Ce"
96. If you love someone without the right way, you will harm them if you love them. ——Volume 96 of "Zizhi Tongjian" If you love him in the wrong way, it will harm him.
97. To love others as you love yourself is to be fully benevolent. ——Zhang Zai's "Zhengmeng·Zhongzheng"
98. People are my compatriots; things are my friends. ——Zhang Zai's "Zhengmeng·Qiansheng"
Guihe
99. When two people work together, their sharpness can break through metal. ——"Book of Changes·Xici"
100． Being kind and kind to your neighbors is a national treasure. ——"Zuo Zhuan·Yin Gong Sixth Year"
101. For the purpose of etiquette, harmony is the most precious thing. ——"The Analects·Xueer"
102. Gentlemen are harmonious but different; villains are harmonious but not harmonious. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Zilu" A gentleman lives in harmony with others, but has his own opinions; a villain is easy to agree with others, but cannot live in peace with others.
103． A gentleman is harmonious and not frivolous. (Stream: blind obedience) - "Book of Rites· Doctrine of the Mean"
104. If you enjoy the people's happiness, the people will also enjoy their happiness; if you care about the people's worries, the people will also worry about their worries.
——"Mencius·Under King Hui of Liang"
105. The weather is not as good as the right place, and the right place is not as good as the people. ——"Mencius Gongsun Chou"
106. If a thousand people are of one mind, there will be a thousand manpower; if there are ten thousand people of different minds, there will be no use for one person. ——"Huainanzi · Military Training"
107. A single one is easy to break, but a group of them is difficult to destroy. ——Cui Hong "The Spring and Autumn Period of the Thirty Kingdoms·Western Qin Dynasty"
108. Treat others with kindness, be lenient with others, and treat others with forgiveness, which is what a gentleman is. ——Lin Bu's "Saving Heart Record"
109. Isn’t it great to have friends from far away? ——"The Analects·Xueer"
110. The beauty of a gentleman is the beauty of a man, but the evil of a man is not. ——"The Analects·Yan Yuan"
111． The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine. A gentleman is indifferent to intimacy, but a villain is willing to give up. (Pure friendship has no utilitarian color and is as clear and transparent as water.) ——"Zhuangzi·Shanmu"
Dun Kiss
112. I feel sorry for my parents, who worked so hard to give birth to me. ——"The Book of Songs·Xiaoya·Polygonium"
113. Do your best to serve your parents. ——"The Analects·Xueer"
114． A kind father teaches. ——"Zuo Zhuan·The Twenty-Sixth Year of Zhao Gong"
115. Those who love their relatives do not dare to be evil to others; those who respect their relatives do not dare to be rude to others. ——"The Book of Filial Piety·The Son of Heaven"
116. Filial piety lies in substance, not in appearance. ——Huan Kuan's "On Salt and Iron: Filial Support"
117. Whoever speaks of an inch of grass will be rewarded with three rays of spring light. ——Meng Jiao's "Wandering Son's Song"
118. The couple will be harmonious and then the family will be harmonious. ——"Kindergarten Qionglin·Couple"
119. Brothers are harmonious, friends are honest. ——Chen Ziang's "Motto"
120． If the father is unkind, the son will be unfilial. ——Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions: Managing the Family"
121. The home will be destroyed by itself, and then others will destroy it. ——"Mencius·Li Lou Shang"
1. People are knives and servants, and I am fish and meat. (Historical Records) 2. There is no tile above and no place for a cone below. (Book of the Tang Dynasty) 3. Sending goose feathers from thousands of miles away is a sign of light etiquette but heavy friendship. (Lu Shi) 4. Break the waves of the East China Sea, and the evil will never end. Exhausting all the bamboos in Nanshan, the sins of writing are endless. (Old Tang Book)
Reference: jwc.xgu.cn/qita/mymj/gdmy-1.htm