When he felt sober, he found him out of the house, floating alone in the wheat field in the north of the village. He knew nothing about his accident. He felt that there seemed to be a mysterious force in the distance in the north, which led him to the north involuntarily.
We are in the mountainous area of southwest Shandong, and his home is at the foot of the mountain. Three kilometers to the north is our village, his grandmother's house. Our village is also at the foot of the mountain. He felt that he had to go to the mountains in the north, where someone was waiting for him. He walked a long way, far more than a few kilometers in reality. There was no one on the road, and the sky was gray. It is not clear whether it is day or night.
The farther north he goes, the less he misses the home behind him. He felt very light, as if he could follow the wind. Just when he thought he was going to a new place, and this place was his destination, suddenly he heard my aunt and his mother calling him. Many people are also calling him. The sound is far away, but it is very real. One voice, one continuity.
At this time, it seems that he suddenly feels that he can't go north any more. He wants to go home. With this idea, he tried to get rid of the call of mysterious power in front of him and turned around and ran home. On the way home, he suddenly woke up and found himself lying in bed. His family told him that he had been in a coma for several days. When I woke up, it was already late at night, and my aunt's family was crying for him in the wilderness outside the village.
Many years later, he told me that when he ran back, there were no ghosts chasing him, as those folk stories said. That's not true. He was alone from beginning to end. But the power to summon him is real. This power is not to talk to him, but to communicate with his heart. In other words, when he is thinking over there, he can experience and understand. This feeling is very strong!
My cousin is 50 years old this year. Since that suspended animation, he has never experienced such a great disaster. His children are healthy and live up to expectations. Although not a wealthy family, life is very comfortable. This is my cousin's personal experience. Say it and share it with everyone.
In our village, there is a girl who is very good with me. Her family urged her to get married as soon as possible, because the man's family had no money to build a house, which worried me. So he cried and asked me to borrow money from my family to build a house and marry a wife. We had a good relationship, so we lent him 32,000 yuan and wrote an iou saying that we would pay off the debt within three years. After marriage, the young couple worked hard. Living conditions are getting better and better, but after three and a half years, the money owed to us has not been paid back. I looked for him several times during this period, but obviously I didn't pay back the money. After two months, I went to his house to pay back the money. At that time, we were not calm, and we quarreled. He was alone at home, so he dragged me to the cornfield behind his house. I was pulled by him on my back, and he rode on me fiercely. I grabbed my neck with two big hands. I have no strength to fight with him. At first, I felt breathless when I was caught by force. Later, I had hallucinations and felt very comfortable. I didn't want to go back to this world full of pain, hardship, fraud, greed and the law of the jungle. I really didn't have any fear at that time. I woke up unconsciously, and then someone told me that I was in a coma in a cornfield. People's fear of death stems from ignorance of death.
The death of my classmate's uncle made me believe that there really is such a thing as a dead cat.
Once, we held a dinner party, during which we drank a lot of wine. It is estimated that this classmate also drank too much and opened his mouth. Shortly before his uncle died, he told us something.
It was 19. Shortly after the National Day, his uncle was seriously ill. He was a good man and suddenly fainted. His family sent him to the hospital soon. After various examinations, the doctor told his family about the situation. Nothing is particularly important, mainly because people are old and their hearts and kidneys are degraded. This kind of fainting is probably due to insufficient blood supply to the heart, leading to cerebral ischemia. The doctor suggested that going home to recuperate and staying in hospital for observation would not play a positive role.
The doctor said to take good care of yourself after returning home. As long as the elderly are willing to eat, they can eat whatever they want. There is no need for special taboos, but patients should pay more attention to rest and not do any work. The family asked the doctor how long it would take. The doctor said it was difficult to judge this situation. Some people with poor health may last for several months, while others with good health or good care may live for another year. Everyone's situation is different, so it's good to prepare your family psychologically.
When I got home, my family was afraid to tell the truth to the old man. I'm just saying there is something wrong with my heart. Just go home and recuperate. I also reminded the elderly not to do housework in the future. My family does all the laundry.
After that, the old people basically lie in bed, only get out of bed when it is convenient to eat, and occasionally let their families help them go outside to bask in the sun.
/kloc-After the twelfth lunar month in 0/9, the old people got out of bed less and sometimes ate in bed for more than ten days. On the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month, the old man wanted to get up early in the morning, and his family helped him put on clothes and shoes. The old man immediately went out for a walk. I don't need anyone to hold me. I looked at the spirit and said a lot. I have searched every room in my house. I went to my neighbor's house for a while and talked to him, or my family advised me to go back for breakfast, and then I went home.
At breakfast, the old man was also very happy, eating much more than usual, and asked his family about their relatives' recent situation while eating. After breakfast, the old man told his family that the weather was fine today. Let's take down his sheets and wash them, and take out the quilts and plates to air. At some point, the old man went to clean the sheets himself.
After cleaning up, the family said that the old man should sleep and rest. The old man said no, not tired. I looked around every room in my house and then went to my neighbor's house to chat.
It's time for lunch and the old man has gone home. After eating a lot of lunch, the family asked the old man to take a nap. The old man didn't want to say that he was not tired.
It was not until the evening, when it was almost time for dinner, that the old man said that he was a little tired and wanted to go to sleep for a while. The family quickly spread the sun-dried mattress and quilt. After lying down, the old man said that the newly dried quilt was warm, and then he closed his eyes and went to sleep.
Seeing that the old man was asleep, the family went to cook dinner. When the meal is ready, they will wake up the old man for dinner. I found the old man out of breath and died. By the time all the relatives at home arrived, the old man's body was already stiff. Relatives asked what was going on, and the family who took care of the elderly told it again. Relatives said it was all dead. Relatives asked the old man what he said at last, and his family said that the quilt he had just dried was warm and then he fell asleep.
Later, when the old man was buried, his family buried the quilt and mattress that he had dried that day. This was the last thought of the old man.
Some people will be miserable when they leave, and more are reluctant to leave. Colleagues said that her mother gave up on her when she left, and the final farewell was very special, but a little scary.
Her mother is over 70 years old. One summer, she went to the hospital for examination. It was already in the advanced stage of liver cancer. The doctor said it was only a few months, so it was meaningless to need to be hospitalized. So the family stayed with her, didn't tell her about her illness, and wanted to make her happy. There was not so much pressure. In fact, the old man already knows that his time is running out, and he doesn't ask, don't tell. When you are free, knit sweaters for the four sisters in case they are cold in winter. After three months, his body became weaker and weaker, and he couldn't get up when he lay down. My face is black and blue, so I can't eat anything, just drink some soup or something.
One night, her mother suddenly said that she wanted to eat. Her family quickly made her a bowl of egg noodles and ate a small bowl, which made her feel better. When sleeping, I let my family sleep next to her. She said she wanted to see them, so the whole family slept on the floor of her mother's bedroom. In the middle of the night, my colleague said that I suddenly felt particularly cold. She was sweating and shivering with cold, and her teeth were stuttering and she couldn't speak. She covered her head with a small quilt and dared not open her eyes, and her feet and legs could not move. In this way, after more than half an hour, suddenly the light at home came on. Her sister came to give her a hand and let her move, but she was still shaking and sweating. Sister said get up quickly, and mother left. Later, the elder sister told her that when they slept until midnight, the elder sister saw her mother get up and watch beside everyone. Finally, she came to her side and touched her from head to toe, saying that she was least worried about this little guy. Mother sighed and opened the door and left.
Colleagues said that after her mother died, she was ill for a few days. She is very healthy after her recovery and seldom gets sick and uncomfortable. She said that her mother had taken all her illnesses away. I think it will be painful for relatives to leave fear, but most of them are unwilling to give up their families.
According to the worker's account, in the summer of 20 13, we worked on a construction site. On the way to the toilet, he was hit by a steel pipe falling from the upstairs and fell into a coma. I woke up and said I was in a daze and went home from the construction site. After returning home, he went to his mother first, and then went to his home. As a result, the doors of both houses were locked. I couldn't open it and he went back to the construction site. The doctor loaded him on 120. He said that if he came late again and couldn't find his body, he would really die.
Let's talk about it from my own experience. 10 years old, when I was a child, I was very bitter. Belong to left-behind children. Winter is naughty, and my hands and feet are frostbitten. Later, I was infected with scurvy, also known as allergic purpura. The intestines are rotten. On my deathbed, my mother who worked in Heilongjiang was very sad and wanted to go home very much. Maybe it's telepathy, maybe it's blood connection Maybe this is my destiny. When my mother got home, I was already unconscious. When I got to the hospital, the doctor said it was hopeless. My mother knelt down to the doctor. Later, the doctor said, "A dead horse is a living horse doctor." I remember in the emergency room, and then my mother said that my pupils were dilated. I vaguely remember that people in the emergency room felt tall, like mountains, or just like we looked at clouds. Their voices are also jar voice jar spirit, can't hear clearly. I have no pain at all, and I have no consciousness. Later, I felt myself on the ceiling, overlooking the busyness of my family and doctors. I don't remember it after that. Finally escaped from death.
I wonder if people have a hunch before they die. I was surprised at my mother's reaction less than twenty hours before she died. When my mother was eighty-seven years old, we spent the Spring Festival with her in the hospital. Then there are hospitals, families, families and hospitals. Every time I need to be hospitalized, my mother never refuses. However, the morning before my mother died, I saw that my mother was not in a good state and said to her, let's go to the hospital! To our great surprise, she said that she wouldn't go without any reason. Anyway, I just won't go to the hospital, which has never happened before. We have to do this. If there is an oxygen generator at home, give her low-flow oxygen. In less than 20 hours, she was calm, painless and smiling as if she were asleep. She left in my arms at home. Then I sometimes wonder, why didn't my mother go to the hospital before she died? Does she have a hunch?
I spent more than 40 days in the emergency room. Lost consciousness many times. I feel comfortable floating on the ceiling. I can see my mother crying on my body. The environment is yellow. When I want to float to a bright place. Suddenly I fell into bed from smallpox Sakamoto and woke up from a coma.
The old uncle in the village has a famous saying: "When people come to earth, they seem to travel far." He often tells his family and friends this sentence. No matter whether he is rich or poor, he will never see pain and publicity in his life. During the three years of natural difficulties, it was miserable for others to eat bran and swallow vegetables. But he was able to make rice husk taste and nutrition, and the family passed through the difficult years safely. Later, my son made a fortune doing business outside and often gave him a lot of money. He gave most of his money to others. He has never competed with others for fame and fortune in his life, or even quarreled.
At the age of 84, he told his family that he was leaving. The family didn't take it seriously. At night, the old uncle put on his own shroud. The next day, my family found me dead, and I looked calm, just like sleeping at ordinary times. There is a letter on the desk, telling the family not to be sad. Since birth, illness, death and illness are inevitable, let it be a natural phenomenon!
Many people will feel pain, nostalgia, pain and helplessness before they die. This is understandable, but it can only add more pain to yourself and your loved ones.
My aunt moved from Beijing to Tianjin with the factory when she was young, and got married and had children in Tianjin. In her later years, she had a bad heart and felt too painful to be hospitalized. Maybe she felt that she was dying, and she urged to go home. The day after her family took her home, she said she was leaving. Her family asked her what she was thinking. She said that she missed her grandson who was studying abroad and the bean juice in Beijing, so her relatives in Beijing quickly bought the bean juice and sent it there. After drinking, my aunt smiled with satisfaction and said, At this time, my grandson who was studying in other places also rushed home. After a while, my aunt said to her relatives, I'm leaving. Bye! Then he gave a big smile and closed his eyes. ...