There is a woman named Huang Meilian who has suffered from cerebral palsy since she was a child. The symptoms of this disease are amazing, because the limbs lose their sense of balance, their hands and feet often move around, and their mouths often mumble vague words, which looks strange. According to her condition, the doctor judged that she would not live beyond 6 years old. In the eyes of ordinary people, she has lost her language ability and normal life, not to mention her future and happiness. However, she survived strongly. With tenacious will and perseverance, she was admitted to the famous University of California in the United States and obtained a doctorate in art. She expressed her feelings with her brush and good listening. In a lecture, a student boldly asked, "Dr. Huang, you grew up like this. What do you think of yourself? " Have you ever had a grudge? "Everyone present secretly blamed the student for his disrespect, but Huang Meilian was not happy at all. She wrote these lines on the blackboard very calmly:
First, I am so cute;
Second, my legs are very long and beautiful;
Third, mom and dad love me so much;
Fourth, I can draw and write;
5. I have a lovely cat; ……
Finally, she summed it up in one sentence: I only look at what I have, not what I don't have!
American writer Ou; Henry told a story in his novel The Last Leaf: In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree outside the window from his room and fell down one by one in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him and his health went from bad to worse. She said,' When all the leaves are gone, I will die. When an old painter learned about it, he drew a green leaf with a colored pen and hung it on a branch.
The last leaf never fell. Because of the green color in life, the patient miraculously survived.