1. Ancient Chinese proverbs about making friends

杵杷之friend: refers to making friends regardless of high or low.

"Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio·Cheng Xian": "Wen Deng Zhou Sheng, and Cheng Sheng, a young master, made a pen and inkstone, so they ordered a pestle and a mortar to cross." - pestle and pestle cross, mortar and mortar cross, pestle and mortar Intersect, it’s hard to find such an idiot nowadays.

As the saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together”. Friendship between ordinary people: refers to the friendship between ordinary people.

"Historical Records·Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "I thought that a friend of commoners should not be deceived, how about a big country?" - It is easy to make friends with commoners, but it is difficult to make friends with them after they change from commoners to brocade. Because "three sentences are inseparable from one's own profession", there is no longer the same language.

Cut-to-the-neck acquaintance: Refers to a friend who will never change his heart even if he loses his head. "Historical Records·Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "The dead and the happy are the friends who cut their necks."

——How could there be such a fool? ! Don’t you see, how many couples today who are “birds of a feather” in the same forest, “go their separate ways” when disaster strikes, and “those who know the current affairs are heroes”! Inseparable acquaintances: Refers to friends who like each other. "Northern History·Sima Ying's Biography": "So he traveled around and became a celebrity for a while.

Together with Xing Zicai, Wang Jing, etc., he was Mo Ni's friend." - The so-called "Mo Ni" may have a purpose The forged yu that comes with the outfit is just like the real thing.

Life is a drama. As long as everyone is happy with the "friendship", there is no need to be so careless and serious about exposing it. Friendly friends: refers to interactions based on talent and virtue regardless of age.

"The Biography of He Xun in Southern History": "Fan Yun of Nanxiang saw Xun's countermeasures and greatly appreciated him, because he became a close friend." - In a country that advocates young, knowledgeable and professional leadership In modern times, it is also an effective way for "elderly" to "make friends" to leave a way out for themselves and their relatives and friends, not to mention it is also known as "approachable".

Bamboo-horse acquaintance: refers to childhood acquaintance. "Shishuo Xinyu·Fangzheng": "The Emperor said: Would it be good to talk about the old and recall the bamboo horse?" - In what age is this still popular? ! Let the past be gone. Why bother persisting as before? People should "look forward (money, power)"! Gentleman's acquaintance: refers to a friend who seems to be very ordinary and focuses on morality.

"Zhuzi·Shanlin": "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." ——What’s so good about boiled water? It’s better to drink Coke! Chelizhijiaozhi: Refers to friends who are not distinguished by their status.

In order to make friends, we must pay homage to each other and run to our wives, and we must be courteous... I wish you well: "Even if you are riding in a car, I will wear a hat, and I will get off the car and bow to you the day after tomorrow; even though I am walking, you will ride on a horse, and I will be here when we meet you the day after tomorrow." - Haha, this is it. I'm afraid it's for others to see, right? Didn't you see that today's "adults" always invite reporters or "long-tongued people" every time they go to the countryside? Friendship between gold and stone: refers to a friendship that is as deep as gold and stone.

"Han Shu·Han Xin Biography": "Now I think I have friendship with the King of Han in gold and stone, but in the end I am captured by the King of Han." - "Now I think I have friendship with the King of Han in gold and stone, but I end up being captured by him." The king of Han captured him." Looking at today, I think it is true! Jinlanzhijia: Refers to friends who have a close friendship and are like brothers.

"Shishuo Xinyu·Xian Ai": "The monkey meets Ji and Ruan, and they are as close as a golden orchid." - "Blood brothers" still "clearly settle accounts", let alone friends? ! It's just "Qi Ruo Jinlan". 2. Ancient Chinese proverbs about making friends

杵杷之交: Refers to making friends regardless of high or low. "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio: Cheng Xian": "Wen Deng Zhou Sheng, and Cheng Sheng, a young master, wrote and inkstone, so they ordered a pestle and a mortar to intersect." - Pestle and pestle intersect, mortar and mortar intersect, pestle and mortar intersect, it is difficult to do this now. Crazy. As the saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together”.

Commoner friends: refers to the friendship between ordinary people. "Historical Records: Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "I thought that a friend of commoners should not be deceived, how about a big country?" - It is easy to make friends with commoners, but it is difficult to make friends with them after they change from commoners to brocade. Because "three sentences are inseparable from one's own profession", there is no longer the same language.

Cut-to-the-neck acquaintance: refers to a friend who will never change his heart even if he loses his head. "Historical Records·Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "The dead and the happy are the friends who cut their necks." ——How could there be such a fool? ! Don’t you see, how many couples today who are “birds of a feather” in the same forest, “go their separate ways” when disaster strikes, and “those who know the current affairs are heroes”!

Inseparable friends: refers to friends who share the same feelings with each other. "Northern History·Sima Ying's Biography": "So he traveled to Ji and became a celebrity for a while. Together with Xing Zicai, Wang Jing, etc., he was Mo Ni's friend." - The so-called "Mo Ni" may be a forged Yu with a purpose to pass it off as the real one. of. Life is a drama. As long as everyone is happy with the "friendship", why should we be so careless and serious about exposing it?

Year-end acquaintance: refers to a relationship that is based on talent and virtue regardless of age. "The Biography of He Xun in Southern History": "Fan Yun of Nanxiang saw Xun's countermeasures and greatly appreciated him, because he became a close friend." - In the contemporary era where young, knowledgeable and professional leaders are advocated, he is also an "elder" It is an effective means of "making friends" that leaves a way out for themselves and their relatives and friends, not to mention being known as "approachable".

Bamboo-horse acquaintance: refers to childhood acquaintance.

"Shishuo Xinyu·Fangzheng": "The Emperor said: Would it be good to talk about the old and recall the bamboo horse?" - In what age is this still popular? ! Let the past be gone. Why bother persisting as before? People should "look forward (money, power)"!

Gentlemen’s acquaintance: refers to friends who appear to be very ordinary and who focus on morality. "Zhuzi·Shanlin": "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." ——What’s so good about boiled water? It’s better to drink Coke!

Che Li Zhi acquaintance: refers to a friend who is not distinguished by his or her status. Volume 406 of "Taiping Yulan" quotes Zhou Chu's "Fengtu Ji": "The more the customs are simple, the more likely they are to marry each other, that is, take off the handkerchief on the head, untie five feet from the waist to make friends with him, pay homage to his wife, and run away from his wife. , I will make acquaintance with you politely... I wish you well: "Even if you are riding in a car and I am wearing a hat, I will get off the bus and bow to you when we meet you the day after tomorrow; even though I am walking and you are riding a horse, I will be here when we meet you the day after tomorrow." - Haha, I'm afraid this is for others to see. Bar? Didn't you see that today's "adults" always invite reporters or "long-tongued people" every time they go to the countryside?

Friendship between gold and stone: refers to a friendship that is as deep as gold and stone. "Han Shu·Han Xin Biography": "Now I think I have friendship with the King of Han in gold and stone, but in the end I am captured by the King of Han." - "I think I have friendship with the King of Han in gold and stone, but in the end I am captured by the King of Han." Looking ahead Today, I think so!

Jinlanzhijia: Refers to friends who have a close friendship and are like brothers. "Shishuo Xinyu·Xian Ai": "Monkey meets Ji and Ruan, and they are as close as a golden orchid." - "Blood brothers" still "clearly settle accounts", let alone friends? ! It's just "Qi Ruo Jin Lan"! 3. Ancient idioms and stories about making friends in classical Chinese

High mountains and flowing water are a metaphor for finding a close friend or a wonderful piece of music. "Liezi Tangwen": "Bo Ya played the harp and played the harp, aiming at the high mountains. Zhong Ziqi said: 'How good it is, the mountains are as high as Mount Tai.' Aiming on the flowing water, he said: 'How good it is, the oceans are like rivers.'

Source of the allusion

"Liezi·Tangwen": "Bo Ya played the harp and wanted to climb a high mountain. Zhong Ziqi said: 'It's so good, it's as high as Mount Tai.' ’ Aiming at the flowing water, he said: ‘How good it is, it’s as vast as a river. '"

Character profile

Boya, a senior official of the Jin State during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, was originally from Yingdu, Chu State (today's Jingzhou, Hubei Province). After research, Boya originally had the surname Bo, saying that his "surname is Yu Mingrui and given name is Boya" is a fabrication in the novel by Feng Menglong, a novelist in the late Ming Dynasty. Before that, "Historical Records", "Xunzi", "Qin Cao", "Lieh Zi" and other books were all "Bo Ya". Gao You of the Eastern Han Dynasty noted: "Bo's surname, Ya Ming, may be Zuo Ya", and the modern "Ci Yuan" also noted: "Bo's surname Ya Ming" was a very common surname in ancient times, such as Zhou Dynasty. Boyi, who did not eat Zhou millet during the reign of King Wu, and Bole, who was good at horse training during the reign of King Mu of Qin, were born in the Spring and Autumn Period of Chu (now Hanyang, Hubei Province). Qi is a woodcutter wearing a bamboo hat, a raincoat, a load on his back, and an axe. According to historical records, Yu Boya was playing the harp on the bank of the Han River. Zhong Ziqi sighed: "It's as tall as a mountain and as swaying as flowing water." "The two became close friends. After Zhong Ziqi's death, Yu Boya believed that there was no music in the world, so he never played the harp again.

Original text in classical Chinese

Boya was good at playing the harp, and Zhong Ziqi was good at playing the harp. Ziqi was good at listening. Boya played the harp, and his ambition was high in the mountains. Zhong Ziqi said, "How wonderful! It's as high as Mount Tai!" "Aiming at flowing water, Zhong Ziqi said: "How good it is! It's like a river! "What Bo Ya thought about, Zhong Ziqi will definitely get it. When Zi Qi died, Bo Ya said that there would be no more music in the world, so he would break the strings of the harp and never play the drum again for the rest of his life.

Translation

Boya was good at playing the piano, and Zhong Ziqi was good at listening. When Boya was playing the piano, he thought of Gao Shan and said, "You play so well!" Towering mountains seemed to appear in front of my eyes! "Thinking about Liu Shui, Zhong Ziqi said: "Okay! I seemed to see a rushing river! "Whatever Bo Ya was thinking, Zhong Ziqi could accurately express his thoughts. After Zhong Ziqi's death, Bo Ya felt that he would never find a close friend, so he broke his beloved qin and stopped playing it for the rest of his life. 4. The story of making friends in ancient times, in classical Chinese, thank you

The promise of chicken and millet

The scholar Zhang Shao, courtesy name Yuan Bo, was born in Nancheng, Ruzhou during the reign of Emperor Ming of the Han Dynasty. Young Fenzhi studied.

My younger brother Zhang Qintong was working at home to support his sixty-year-old mother. When he went to Luoyang, the eastern capital, he met Xiucai Shifan in a hotel and was in danger of the epidemic.

Shi, whose name is Juqing, is from Shanyang, Chuzhou. He is forty years old. Yuanbo rescued Juqing when he was dying, and the two became close friends in life and death. Shi is the brother and Bo is the younger brother. /p>

The two missed the exam date, and it was the Double Ninth Festival. They said goodbye and made an appointment to meet at Yuan Bo's house today next year. Yuan Bo promised to treat each other with chicken and millet.

Until next year, Juqing was tired of food and clothing at home and was busy. When his neighbor was paying his salary and drinking wine, he remembered the promise of chicken and millet.

His heart was broken because he was thousands of miles away. Hearing the saying that "people cannot travel a thousand miles in a day, their souls can't travel a thousand miles", Yuan Bo stood there all day long and waited until midnight. My dear, this is my soul! Later, Uncle Yuan rushed to Shanyang and saw his brother's coffin in half a month. He also committed suicide and asked to be buried with him in return for his death.

The weight of the righteousness and covenant is life and death!

"Baidu Knows" 5. Translation of classical Chinese stories about ancient people’s friendship, brief and detailed. thanks

Li Cun Shen came out to teach his son

The original text was written by Li Cun Shen In Hanwei, he tried to warn the disciples and said: "Your father went to the countryside with a sword. During the forty years, he became the most general and prime minister. During this period, tens of thousands of people died, not one person survived, and more than a hundred people broke bones and produced arrowheads." The arrowhead that came out was ordered to be hidden, saying: "You Cao was born in Gaoliang. You should know that your father started like this."

Reference translation Li Cunshen was born in a poor family with a low status. He often warned His own children said: "When your father was young, he went to the countryside with a sword. Within forty years, he reached the level of general and prime minister. During this time, he escaped from danger and dangerous situations and survived more than once. The one who pulled out the arrowhead Hundreds of times." So he gave the pulled arrowhead to his son and ordered him to keep it, saying: "You were born into a wealthy family, and you should know that your fathers started their lives like this."

Sun Bin escaped danger

Original article Sun Binchang and Pang Juan both studied the art of war. Pang Juan served in Wei and became the general of King Hui, but he thought he was not as good as Sun Bin, so he summoned Sun Bin. When Bin arrived, Pang Juan was afraid that he would be wiser than himself and that he was sick, so he would cut off his feet and tattoo them, so as not to see him if he wanted to hide them. The envoys of Qi were like Liang, and Sun Bin thought that the prisoners were evil and criticized the envoys of Qi. The envoy of Qi was surprised and secretly carried it to Qi. General Tian Ji of Qi treated him kindly and as a guest.

Reference translation Sun Bin once studied the art of war with Pang Juan. Pang Juan served as an official in the state of Wei and became a general of King Hui of Wei. He thought that his talents were not as good as those of Sun Bin, so he secretly sent someone to call Sun Bin to the state of Wei. When Sun Bin arrived (in the state of Wei), Pang Juan was afraid that he could surpass himself and was jealous of him, so he punished him by breaking his legs and tattooing his face, hoping that he would be buried without being discovered. When the envoy from the State of Qi arrived in the State of Wei, Sun Bin secretly visited (the envoy) as a prisoner and persuaded the envoy from the State of Qi. The envoy from Qi State thought that (he) had outstanding talents, so he secretly took him to Qi State in a car. The general of Qi, Tian Ji, was very friendly to Sun Bin and treated him like a guest.

Painting ghosts is the easiest

The original text was written by a guest who was a painter for the King of Qi. The King of Qi asked: "Which one is the most difficult to draw?" He said: "The dogs and horses are the most difficult." "Which one is the most difficult?" Who is easy to change?" He said: "Ghosts and ghosts are the most easy to change." Human beings, dogs and horses, are known to be the best at dawn and dusk, so they cannot be compared. So difficult. The ghosts and invisible ones are not exhausted in the past, so they are easy to change.

Reference Translation Someone was painting for King Qi. King Qi asked him: "What is the most difficult to paint?" He said: "Dogs and horses are the most difficult to paint." King Qi asked again: "What is the easiest to paint? He said: "It is easiest to draw ghosts." Dogs and horses are familiar to people and appear in front of you sooner or later. They cannot just be drawn similar, so they are difficult to draw; ghosts are invisible and will not appear in front of people. So easy to draw.

Original text Zi Mozi angrily plowed the pillars. Geng Zhuzhu said, "Am I not a slave to others?" Zimozi said, "I am about to go to the Great Expedition to drive Ji and the sheep. Who shall I drive?" Geng Zhuzi said, "I will drive Ji." Zimozi said He said: "Why do you drive Ji away?" Geng Zhuzhu said: "Ji is enough to blame." Zi Mozi said: "I also think that I am enough to blame you."

Reference Translation Mozi was angry at Geng Zhuzhu, Geng Zhu asked: "Don't I have any advantage over others?" Mozi asked: "If I want to go to the Taihang Mountains and use a good horse or an ox to drive me, which one are you going to drive?" Zhuzi replied: "Of course I use good horses." Mozi asked: "Why do I need good horses?" Geng Zhuzhu said: "Because good horses can bear the responsibility." Mozi said: "I also thought you He is responsible."

Excerpted from "Baidu Knows" 6. Ancient classical Chinese essays on persuading people to make more friends

A husband should not make friends carelessly. Friends, so they have each other. ——Xun Kuang

If a scholar has jealous friends, then virtuous ministers will not be close to each other; if the king hinders his ministers, then virtuous ministers will not come to him. ——Xun Kuang

When two people are of the same mind, their sharpness can break through metal; if they speak of the same mind, their fragrance is like orchids. ——"Book of Changes·Xici"

To live in a place with righteous people, one cannot live without righteousness; if one grows up in Qi, one cannot live without Qi's language. ——Jia Yi

A gentleman is ignorant of himself, but trusts in his close friends. ——Sima Qian

If you don’t know the person, treat him as a friend. ——Sima Qian

When digging a well, one must reach the end of the flow, and when making friends, one must reach the end. ——Jia Dao

If you are close to the wise, you will be wise; if you are close to the stupid, you will be wise. ——Pi Rixiu

After a hundred years, the hearts are the same, who is limited to the north and south of the river? ——Yao He

Gratitude must be learned over time. ——Yu Xuanji

Don’t be close to someone who is shallow and frivolous. ——Guan Lin

To seek good friends, you must be kind, and when you get good friends, you will end up doing good to each other. If you are not good at seeking friends, then you will find a way out of bad things. If you want to know and seek friendship, you must first refine gold. ——Meng Jiao

If you make friends with non-virtuous people, you will inevitably develop love and hatred. ——Meng Jiao

Mountains and rivers are not important, but meeting a close friend is important. ——Bao Rong

Life is intertwined at the end and the beginning, and cannot be divided by the beginning or the end. ——Helan Jinming

Choosing friends is like panning for gold, and you will never find any treasure. ——Li Chengyong

Those who are close will be cut off constantly, and those who are distant will not be strong. ——Han Yu

When we know each other from afar, we don’t know how deep the clouds are.

——Wang Changling

The love is deep when we meet each other, and we can know our hearts without saying a word. ——Li Bai

It is of no use to be alone when we know each other in times of crisis. ——Li Bai

Score points for making friends, and watch for admonitions. ——Zhou Xingsi

The ancients were ashamed of the friendship between powerful forces. ——Liu Yiqing

When good people are together, they will hear good advice every day; when evil people are around, they will have evil feelings every day. ——Fan Ye

Don’t forget to travel in poverty, and remember and respect our long-term friendship. ——Bao Zhao

Do not seek benefits, do not violate harm, do not force relations, and do not insist on strictures. Only the Taoist can do it. ——Wang Tong

Evil people stay away from each other, while good people stay close to each other and know each other. ——Wang Fanzhi 7. Classical Chinese essays on making friends

1. We are all brothers within the four seas

2. There are close friends in the sea, and we are neighbors as far apart as the world.

3. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to exchange. Yes, it’s hard to find a true friend

4. If you make friends with people who are not wise people, you will inevitably develop love and hatred. ——Meng Jiao

5. Mountains and rivers are not important, but meeting a close friend is important. ——Bao Rong

6. The love is deep when we meet each other, and we can know our hearts without saying a word. ——Li Bai

7. Knowing each other is of no use in times of crisis, and being alone is of no use. ——Li Bai

8. Score points when making friends, and watch for admonitions. ——Zhou Xingsi

9. The ancients were ashamed of the friendship between powerful forces. ——Liu Yiqing

The original text of the Way of Making Friends:

When I met (péng) Meng Xue shot at Yi, he followed Yi's way, thinking that Yi was the only one in the world to heal himself, so he killed Yi. Mencius said: "Is Yi Yi guilty?" Gong Mingyi said: "It is better to be innocent." He said: "As thin as a cloud ear, how can he be innocent? The people of Zheng sent Zizhuo (zhúo) Ruzi to invade the Wei, and the Wei He ordered Yu Gong to pursue him. Zi Zhuo Ruzi said: "I am too busy to hold the bow today, and I will die!" He asked his servant: "Who is chasing me?" His servant said: "Yu" The master said: "I am born." His servant said: "Yu Gong is good at shooting. What do you mean by Master Yu?" Shoot it at me. Master Yin is a man of honor, and he must take care of his friends. When Master Yu arrived, he said, "Why don't you hold the bow?" He said, "I am working hard today." "The villain learned to shoot from Yin Gong, and he learned from Master Yin. I can't bear to use Master's way to harm Master. Although today's matter is your business, I dare not abolish it." Its gold is sent out by a (shèng) arrow and then reversed ②.

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