classic sayings of dealing with people (couplets)

Family life

Birthdays of children and bitter days of mothers.

filial piety is required, and parents should be respected first.

after thousands of classics, filial piety comes first.

women are afraid of choosing the wrong man, while men are afraid of choosing the wrong line.

One heart of husband and wife is worth ten million dollars.

if you want a good family, discuss everything.

if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.

Don't just choose money when choosing a husband, and don't just choose looks when choosing a woman.

brothers are United in gold, but sister-in-law Qi Xin's family will stay together.

it's hard to comb your hair for a day, and it's hard for a married man to make mistakes all his life.

Life is like a bird in the same forest, and it flies separately when the disaster comes.

it is better to be industrious and thrifty than to be addicted to sex and gambling.

love is not forced, and happiness is not a gift.

if you marry a wife, you don't marry a woman; if you make friends, you don't pay money.

filial piety to parents-in-law has its own blessings, and diligent cultivation of crops has its own valleys.

Friendship with people

Treat each other with sincerity.

horse power is known from a distance, and people will see it for a long time.

people look at a heart and beat two skins.

a thousand friends are few, but one enemy is many.

It is the rooster who announces the dawn and the confidant who helps.

ironmaking needs hard fire, and making friends needs sincerity.

money can be discarded, but friends can't be forgotten.

a friendship between gentlemen is like water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as honey.

it is better to be in a friend's heart than in his eyes.

if you stay in favor for thousands of days, you will live in somewhere tomorrow.

a good horse is not afraid of the distance, and a good friend is not afraid of the difficulties.

a bad wife never leaves the court, and a poor friend should never be forgotten.

making friends is like a long stream of water, so don't be like a willow.

it's better to listen to his words than to see his face, and it's better to observe his deeds than to listen to his words.

Treat people and things

Do good in your heart, but do things carefully.

there is no doubt about employing people, but no doubt about people.

a large amount of happiness is also great, and the heart is wide and the room is wide.

it's not strange to be polite to many people, but not to be loved by many people.

the mouth is an axe, and the tongue is a meat cutter.

a wise man need not say much; a good horse only needs to whip.

it's best to make concessions, and it's a blessing to be lenient with others.

if you get a drop of water, you must repay it as a spring.

when you can let go, you must let go, and forgive others.

the cool breeze blows the body and mind, but the hurtful words are hard to heal.

don't look at your feet, look at whether you walk straight or not.

old people are old, young people are young and young people are young.

clear water can be put into the bamboo heart, and truth can be put into people's hearts.

Be sensible

Speak according to people's wishes and do things according to heaven.

words follow the principle and water flows along the ditch.

people are beautiful and wise, and words are beautiful and reasonable.

prolong life

good will live long, and evil will die early.

don't worry when you are doing things, and worry is easy to get old.

meals are more important than exercise.

don't worry about drinking water, and don't get angry about eating.

breakfast is better, lunch is full, and dinner is less.

be cheerful and in good spirits, and be annoyed and sick.

cherish time

Time is light, and age waits for no man.

the sun and the moon are idle, and youth will never come again.

Time goes by and it is hard to see you again. The water in the East China Sea never returns.

teenagers work hard all their lives, so don't be lazy with time.

Teach children to educate people

Wise men make plans according to the times, while fools act against reason.

nothing is more enjoyable than reading, and nothing is more important than teaching children.

spring ploughing is bad for one year, and teaching children is bad for life.

you can't let the water dry in fish farming, and you can't let your adopted son be.

although things are small, you can't do it without doing it; Although the son is virtuous, he does not teach the unknown.

Inspiring and enterprising

It's a crime that teachers are lazy when they are not strict in training and teaching, and they have learned nothing.

With a big goal in mind, Mount Tai will not bend over.

Micro-stones can pave thousands of miles, and efforts can climb thousands of peaks.

it's hard to get things done if you are ambitious, but it's hard to learn if you are determined.

seeking truth and being pragmatic

words can't be made at random, and pens can't be moved.

it is better to achieve one than to fantasize about ten.

if you want to preach to others, you must first understand the scriptures yourself.

it's easy to look at people, and it's easy to do things without experience.

it is difficult to sew clothes with two pointed needles, and it is difficult to be half-hearted.

Life concept 1

Never judge a hero by his success or failure.

everything has a beginning and an end.

Trees make a big shadow for birds to stay, while people with a small mind gather.

it's not more or less work, it's all about doing well.

people don't talk when they are in trouble, but horses don't whip when they are in danger.

Life concept 2

Take clothes by the collar, and build a net by grasping the outline.

make up the leak, and dig the well before you are thirsty.

take off your shoes early when the road is wet, and make arrangements early when something happens.

people are kind and rich until they are old.

the gate is closed tightly, and the evil wind can't get in.

don't make friends when you meet people, and don't reach out when you see money.

There are not many soldiers, but they are skilled, so they will not be brave but seek.

bitter taste of good medicine is good for illness, while hard advice is good for action.

to say that one's own strength is short, and to know one's own weakness is long.

inculcate

Love yourself first.

selfish, self-defeating.

the sea of misery is boundless, and turning back is the shore.

those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are wise.

it's good to think twice, and forbearance is the highest.

don't listen to big talk, and don't forget your great kindness.

people are beautiful in their hearts, and words are true.

refers to the length, and people have no height.

if people don't believe, everything is empty.

if you want to be respected, you have to respect others first.

a child's heart is like a mirror, which can reflect the clouds for nine days.

anger leads to irrational loss, while doubt leads to loss of trust.

if you don't have troubles, you have to be content.

rust of iron is bad, and envy of life is bad.

good things must be given to each other, and evil things should not be pushed to each other.

the true man is reticent, while the false man argues much.

talk too much and do less cheap things.

contentment leads to peace, and greed leads to trouble.

a messy mouth is easy to get into trouble, and a big tree is easy to attract the wind.

right and wrong happen all the time, and if you don't listen, it will happen naturally.

if you are not afraid of disrespect, you are afraid of being dishonest.

honest people are always there, but fraudsters are often defeated.

the grass becomes wild because it doesn't love itself.

all evils are the first, and filial piety is the first.

don't do anything wrong, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking at the door.

don't talk nonsense when meeting people, and don't rush in when something happens.

don't say people are short, don't say you are long.

if you lose your way and no one helps you, you will return to your heart.

the strong need not be afraid, and the weak should not be bullied.

be generous to others and have a long rein when riding.

if you don't know things with an open mind, you can't do anything without being solid.

a gentleman repays virtue with merit, while a villain bears grudges and forgets gratitude.

don't make fun of others, and be careful to make a fool of yourself.

you can't make a mistake if you are careful, and you won't fall if you are careful.

sit still and think about yourself for a long time, and don't talk about others.

don't look at people's clothes, but look at their hearts.

it is better to enrich your mind than to beautify your face.

don't tear down the bridge when crossing the river, and don't break the ladder when going upstairs.

blame yourself if you blame others, and forgive others if you forgive yourself.

don't be arrogant when you respect yourself, and don't feel inferior when you are modest.

Life is often short, so why not go back and measure yourself.

don't brag in front of others, the strong will have its own strong hand.

you can't get one person with a hundred hearts, but you can get a hundred people with one heart.

the wheat field should be built high and open-minded.

the mind is sincere and thoughtful, and the mind is logical and self-cultivation to get rid of troubles.

small shoes make people suffer, but narrow hearts make people suffer.

cotton-padded clothes can warm people, and kind words can drive people away.

don't praise yourself in front of others, and don't talk about people behind their backs.

don't learn that poplar trees are green for half a year, but learn from pine and cypress trees.

a word of truth is worth a thousand pounds, and a thousand lies are like dirt.

a good word is warm in three winters, and a cold word is cold in June.

birds think twice before flying, while people think twice before acting.

being aggressive and trying to be brave is the bane. Modesty and prudence are safe.

rhetoric is not wisdom, and sincerity is noble in honest and frank.

don't be complacent about being rich, and don't be discouraged about being poor.

too much wine is harmful to yourself, and too much is harmful to people.

don't treat kindness as cowardice, and don't treat modesty as cowardice.

you can't be proud, you can't be full of ambition, you can't be happy, and you can't want it.

be strict with yourself

learn from others' strengths and make up for their shortcomings.

be human and be faithful.

a horse should be quick and a man should be steady.

if you can't be right, you can't be right.

I'd rather admit my mistake than tell a lie.

based on compassion, convenience is the door.

if you have money, you don't waste it, and if you have merit, you don't boast.

the sky is not boastful, and the earth is not boastful.

a full pot is silent, and a half pot jingles.

the mountains and Gao Quan are clear, and the trees must be tall and deep.

what you know is what you know, and what you don't know is what you don't know.

it's better to be ungrateful to me than to me.

it's better to say than to do well, and it's better to finish well at the beginning.

once a good deed is done to the end, never do a bad deed once.

it's raining and the ground slides, so you fall and climb.

the sea doesn't laugh at water droplets, and the mountains don't laugh at pebbles.

shake your head at a horse race, and the hero will fall down with pride.

being open-minded and eager to learn is praised, and being pretentious is annoying.

sages don't show off their own strengths, and gentlemen don't take away others' favors.

being pretentious is annoying, and being modest can add wisdom.

humble people often think too much of themselves, while proud people often say that people are short.

Advise students to seek peace

You don't gain wisdom without doing something.

build a ship in a thousand days and cross the river in one day.

read a thousand times, and you will see what you mean.

if you want to acquire true knowledge, you must work hard.

learning is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat.

there is a way to learn from books and mountains, and there is no limit to learning from the sea.

a thin thread will be broken if it is often sawed, but it will be worn through if the eaves drop water for a long time.

when books are used, they are seldom hated, and it is difficult to know what is wrong.

stupid birds fly first and enter the forest early, while stupid people study hard and get started early.

I don't listen to things outside the window, and I just read sage books.

if you pay attention to everything, you will learn. If you ask a thousand questions, you will understand everything.

No matter how deep your knowledge is, don't be satisfied, and no matter how small your mistakes are, don't ignore them.

if you get up early, you will miss a day, and if you don't study, you will miss a lifetime.

A nine-story platform starts from the foundation soil, and a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

If you want to fly, you have to have wings, and if you want to learn, you have to have perseverance.

moral cultivation

be humble, loyal and filial.

ask for peace and fairness.

it's better to suffer than to break your word.

I'd rather be poor than rich.

improper behavior, three points shorter tongue.

what you gain is not joy, but what you lose is not worry.

to do good for all, don't lose yourself for money.

active water is always clear, and trees with roots are evergreen.

worry about the world first, and enjoy it later.

If you want to learn from Lao Niu Qin, don't practice your mouth like Ying Ge.