how boring life would be without suffering.
we never need to let go of everything, but let go of our attachment to everything.
people always think that if they solve their immediate troubles, they will live a happy life. As everyone knows, troubles are like hair. If you cut off a piece, you will grow more. For example, when people have no money, they are very upset and want to make more money. Later, they find that they are no less upset after they have money. This is life.
many things in the world seem unreasonable, but they all have cause and effect.
if someone laughs at me, it's his problem, not mine.
When I was young, I thought the game was embarrassing, but now I know it is wealth.
often when people are proud, it is the beginning of tragedy.
when I look at it at forty, I find that many things are not difficult as long as I really decide to do it.
If you want to be an expert in something, spend five hours studying every day for ten years, or you will become an expert without becoming a master.
at forty, the key is not how many opportunities you seize, but how many temptations you refuse.
There has never been anything unfair in this world. If you feel unfair, you just don't understand the fairness behind it.
when the mood comes, let him come, and when he leaves, let him go, and don't welcome him or send him away.
Lao Tzu said, "He who is content is rich."
it's easy to be frugal, but difficult to be frugal.
The ancients said, "Virtue carries things." I am convinced. Virtue is not enough, but wealth is too heavy, and it will be crushed to death.
In addition, always look up, you can see the sunshine when you look up, and you can only see your own shadow when you look down.
A man after middle age often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his glasses, he is surrounded by people who depend on him, but there is no one he can rely on.
you said you were worried about your children and your parents. It's okay. They have their own destiny, and it has nothing to do with whether you are divorced or not.
I am willing to accept all the results. If I am really hurt, it is bound to happen.
they want to cheat you, can you resist? Because of trust, it is simple.
Being needed will bring happiness.
it is more blessed to give than to receive.
everyone can only see the world he wants to see.
Guilt is the most useless of all emotions. Fast can bring warmth, anger can bring strength, but guilt can bring nothing but pain.
Looking back on these years, I want to thank life more and more sincerely. Life brings me a lot of troubles, but after every trouble, I will grow obviously.
all the troubles come from the inconsistency between external life and internal expectations. Seeing this persistence, we can try to surpass it and our wisdom will grow.
You will find that you have done nothing, but you have done everything well, and you will understand a sentence in the Tao Te Ching: "Doing nothing will do anything."
you find that "watching" is the meaning itself.
The truth is simple, but the mind likes to make it complicated.
once a man is afraid of losing, he puts on a chain. When you have the courage to lose everything, your heart begins to breed strength.
Life is 7 to 8 years. If you are down and out for one year or two, isn't it an experience?
He said, "What is lost is not wealth and status, but greed and persistence."
He said, "What you get is not fame and fortune, but shackles."
Life is impermanent and changes quickly, and what you see is not long.
everything is marriage and union, and there is no self. Everything happens naturally, there is no difference between good and bad, and everything is the best arrangement.
have the strength of a lion and the heart of a bodhisattva.
it's not that others are fine, but that others' problems are others' business, and their own problems are their own business.
when others get in your way, you get angry.
Everyone has Tathagata wisdom, and it is only because of too many delusions that they become unintelligent.
a cup of turbid water, let it calm down, and it will be clear naturally. An angry person, let him calm down, and wisdom will naturally come out.
moreover, no matter how you choose, you will finish your life.
standard products are all industrial products, and what is different is a work of art. Do you want your son to be a work of art or an industrial product?
it's just that this is not the only way we can go. We might as well look at the world from another angle. At this time, there is at least one more choice.
sometimes one percent of us means everything to others.
everyone has their own answers and life choices.
when rich blessings are enjoyed, virtue falls. Honor, I'll wait. Good health makes illness more difficult. Prosperous and comfortable, prajnaparamita missed.
Life is always contradictory. Only by seeing these contradictions clearly can life become non-contradictory.
I find that my fastest growing stage is my most difficult time. The growth of ability needs difficulties, the growth of wisdom needs suffering.
Last time I saw Liang Dong interviewing Cai Zhizhong, Teacher Cai said that when he painted, the whole world was just him.
When the "mind" settles down, you will find that everything in the world becomes so simple, and wisdom comes from determination.
don't be afraid of challenges and changes.
Everyone has his own angle. When others' behavior is different from his own angle, anger may arise.
when a person returns to the original point, he can accept all angles, that is, he is willing to accept everything that happens and all possibilities.
when you know how to watch a play, your heart grows. The more people experience, the more things they can tolerate, and the greater the possibility of seeing life as a play.
any grain of rice was once a grain of rice and has experienced the whole world.
if the mind is free, an ordinary man is a Buddha; Once it gets in the way, the Buddha becomes an ordinary person.
If a person wants to improve himself, he should have this idea: I accept all the past; I can change things in the future!
you tell yourself, oh, this is an idea.
in this era, it is not easy to have a moment of silence every day.
as the saying goes, "carrying a book is like going through three thousand generations, and you can live a lifetime without a book."
if you learn to read, you can experience it through reading and let it go through experience. Read and experience.
Lao Tzu understood long ago that language can't solve problems. So he said from the beginning: Tao can be Tao, and it is extraordinary.
hope is natural. The wind never ends, and the shower never ends.
naturally, it's not an argument.
if a manager can achieve "born without, do without relying on, grow without killing", this team will be very harmonious.
great things must be simple. Tao is like this, so is man. The simpler and more powerful a man is, the easier he is to be happy.
if one day, you find that the work is too complicated, there must be something wrong, and you need to rearrange it and do subtraction.
A true saint has no ambition. People do what they need. Therefore, saints take the hearts of the people as their heart, and so does governing the country.
People who have a way to govern the world will restrain their selfish prejudices and make the minds of people in the world simple.
You know how to make yourself more successful, richer and more famous, but you choose to make yourself more ordinary, quieter and lower-key. This is the "knowing the male and keeping the female" in life.
as light as dust.
Everything just happens, and the mind will distinguish it and put different labels on it.
In fact, we have nothing to lose from beginning to end, because we have nothing at all.
I admire Ma Yun, not because he has money, but because he has a strong sense of responsibility. What he wants is how to solve social problems and how to take on greater responsibilities.
all happiness comes from wanting others to be happy, and all pain comes from wanting yourself to be happy.
to practice is to subdue his mind. Accept everything and let go of your persistence. The real you are perfect, and you can't increase or decrease.