Think that a gentleman is a secluded room, a bedroom and a towel. When there was no contract in Sangyuan, people on this side of the road were forced.
I'm charming and handsome, and you like me. Why are you punching? The double gold ring on Wan's arm.
Love poems before Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties are full of undisguised sincerity and fierceness, and so is this poem Love Poem by Fan Qin, a poet of the Three Kingdoms. In the poem, a couple witnessed their love with various keepsakes, and each keepsake was given a faithful belief in love. If in ancient times, men still had the freedom to contact with the outside world, then for most women who were confined at home, tokens almost represented that their bodies and minds were wandering in the outside world with their loved ones, so that the tokens carried by their loved ones played a role in making their loved ones see things and think about people.
Some of the keepsakes mentioned in the Poems of Love have been far away from our life today, and some are still passed on between lovers until now. 1, arm wrapped in gold "Why boxing?" The "double gold ring with ten thousand arms" and "double gold ring with ten thousand arms" refer to armbands, also known as arm-wrapped gold, which is a kind of decoration that ancient women in China wrapped around their arms. Gold and silver bars are wound into spiral circles, and the number of circles varies, usually three to eight, but also as many as twelve or thirteen.
The secret of wrapping gold around your arm is that no matter from which angle you look, you can see several rings that are unrelated to each other, just like wearing several bracelets. Although Su Dongpo's poem "Cold Ware" is about a kind of food called prickly heat, in the poem, "Sleeping at night in spring is thicker than wine, and beauty is more precious than gold."
This sentence is even more reminiscent of a woman wearing arms wrapped in gold, which brings out a little intoxicating charm in a deep sleep, and also shows the effect of ancient women's arm support. Zhu, a poetess in the Southern Song Dynasty, wrote in Farewell: Zhu and powder are always unintentionally mixed, and it is difficult to feel cold when the arm is golden.
Don't haggard after a big fight, thinking that love hasn't reached this kind of affection. In the Southern Song Dynasty, when Neo-Confucianism was increasingly imprisoned, Zhu was a woman who dared to break through barriers and enthusiastically pursued personal happiness. This poem expresses her longing for parting from her lover, which makes her thin and haggard day by day, so that her arms are loosened.
It's a pity that she didn't meet the person she missed after all, because the person she loved finally chose to escape, so Zhu had to write "To be sealed, send to the unfortunate south building". He died of depression.
2. Ring "Why are you diligent? The custom of "about a pair of silver" has a long history in China. In the Southern Dynasties, Liu's Different Gardens recorded that people married women in tombs. When she left, she said, "When I see you, I'll give you a pair of rings, tie my belt and walk you out. "When I see the ring, I can expect to see you safely. There is such a record in the explanation of the whole Tang poetry. Poems with Li Zhangwu tells that in the Tang Dynasty, scholar Li Zhangwu fell in love with Wang's son-in-law in Huazhou. When leaving, Wang's son-in-law gave Li Zhangwu a white jade ring and a poem: "Twist the ring and miss it."
May you play forever and endlessly. "Later, when Li Zhangwu went to Iowa, Wang's son-in-law was anxious and the ring was just empty.
Song Liyun's Taiping Guang Ji says that the souls of Li Zhangwu and Wang's son-in-law will be in Wang's house, which should be people's good wishes for the ending of this love. In the late Tang dynasty, rings were gradually given to women by men instead of men, similar to the way Chinese and western rings were given today.
Dai Fan wrote a story about Wei Gao, a scholar, who met and fell in love with Xiao Yu when he was playing in Jiangxia as a child. Wei Gao gave Xiao Yu a jade ring before returning to China and vowed to marry Xiao Yu within five or seven years.
However, seven years later, the hapless Wei Gao never came. Xiao Yu, who is infatuated with love, cried in despair: "Wei Jialang Jun, after seven years, he won't come!" " I starved to death. People sympathized with Xiao Yu's tragedy, so they put the ring given to her by Wei Gao on her middle finger and buried her.
Many years later, Wei Gaoshi prospered and was able to give up who I was, but he learned of Xiao Yu's death. He regretted it, so he practiced extensively and repented of his past ingratitude. Later, someone gave Wei Gao a singer with the same name and appearance as Xiao Yu, and there was a ring of meat on his middle finger. Wei Gaozhi knew Xiao Yu was in the afterlife and returned to his side. The two finally realized the combination of two generations.
Yes or no? For the happiness of lovers in the world, I have to believe it in vain. There is another story, that is, Wei Gao's skill of calling back a teenager's soul met Xiao Yu's soul, which made the modern human body realize the guilt of an ancient spoony woman who broke her word to a thin lover.
After the meeting, Xiao Yu said to Wei Gao when he was leaving: "My husband is fickle and makes people live and die!" Life and death are separated only because of her husband's fickle commitment to feelings! And complaining is actually said with a smile, but it's just so painful to laugh. Thousands of years later, this passage still makes us deeply moved. The fate of ancient women on which human beings depend is destined to be the only way for Yu Di.
Acacia lost in vain, she was still so attached, missing through autumn water. A ring missed her life, and she will wear it in the afterlife without regrets. Because rings are engaged, unsigned women in ancient times did not wear rings.
Ding six niang of Sui Dynasty wrote in Ten Poems: "If you want to be a slim hand, take the ring of Langsuo." It may explain the unspeakable feelings of ancient and even modern women about the ring. This token is the smallest, but the heaviest in a woman's heart.
Full of hope, reach out and let the person you love put it on yourself. Then, maybe you will wear it happily for a lifetime, and maybe one day you will cry for it until your heart breaks. 3. Earrings "Why is it just a district?" Two pearls in the ear "The earliest record of China women dressing themselves up with earrings is found in Shan Hai Jing", "A mountain suitable for young women, with a small waist and white teeth and ears pierced with cymbals". "The History of the Three Kingdoms" Zhuge Ke said: "Piercing the ear and penetrating the pearl will cover the ancient generals. "
You can see the fashion of piercing ears since three generations. Earrings are divided into earrings, ear hooks, earrings, earrings and other styles.
In the early Qing Dynasty, Li Daiweng called the small and concise earrings "cloves" and the complicated and gorgeous earrings "twining ropes" in his Essays. Life ". He said that a woman's "one hairpin and one ear can accompany her all her life", which shows that earrings have a very important position in ancient aesthetic concepts.
In the Tang Dynasty, Zhang Ji's "Ode to a Daughter" "Return the tears of the pearl, never get married and never encounter hatred." .
2. What is the token given by the ancients? Xiangsidou Xiangsidou's name spread far and wide, thanks to the four-character quatrain Xiangsidou written by Wang Wei, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty.
"When those red berries come in spring, they flush on your southern branches. Take them home for my sake as a symbol of our love." This famous saying was written by Wang Wei to his good friend Li Guinian.
Due to the Anshi Rebellion, Li Guinian was exiled to Jiangnan. Wang Wei gave this poem to him, expressing his deep affection for his friends. Later, people used the characteristics of red beans as bright as blood and as hard as diamonds to interpret their unswerving love.
As a result, red beans became the symbol of love and the carrier of acacia. Love of "red beans stained with blue cream, often acacia"; "Red beans in linglong dice, I don't know if I want to"; The heaviness of "red beans are ugly and full of acacia tears"; Red beans are ok, but acacia is flawless.
Red beans, containing the innocence and profundity of love, carry people's distant memories. Comb is a common token of love, and the most romantic thing is wooden comb.
In addition to bringing scalp health care and making hair healthy and beautiful, combs represent acacia and miss each other very much. Comb also has the meaning of opening the knot and letting the troubles pass; To send a comb is to have a private life and want to grow old with her (him). Comb your hair with a comb sent by your lover every day, which represents the close relationship between the two sides. "The body is a skin injury, and parents dare not hurt it. Filial piety begins. "
The ancients attached great importance to hair, which made wooden combs an important personal item. With the legend of Tanabata, the wooden comb has gradually become a token of love that must be given away, and it has been passed down for thousands of years. The ancients in Yu Pei loved jade, as the old saying goes, "A gentleman cannot go without a reason.".
The explanation in "Notes on Ancient Poetry" says: "Decorate tassels with jade to show gratitude." "Ying Luo" is a colorful ribbon tied around the waist when an ancient woman got married to show her belonging.
Make "knot" synonymous with ancient marriage. According to the Book of Songs, when a daughter gets married, the mother tells her daughter to speak in a low voice, but at the same time she can't bear to tie a knot with her.
It is the most commonly used token of the ancients. The history of sachets has a long history. In ancient times, it was also called fragrant sac, fragrant tassel, fragrant sac, fragrant ball, Pei Wei and fragrant sac. The history of ancient people wearing sachets can be traced back to the pre-Qin period.
According to the Book of Rites. Internal rules ":"Children are parents and use them around; ..... to suit my parents and aunt. " In other words, when young people meet their parents and elders, they should wear "tassels", that is, woven sachets, to show their respect.
Because sachets are personal items, lovers often give them to each other as gifts to express their love. In a Dream of Red Mansions, Sister Lin also made a sachet for Brother Bao, and every stitch and thread condensed her feelings.
Once I wrote that Daiyu misunderstood that Baoyu had given the sachet to someone else. In a rage, I cut the other one I was making, but Baoyu wore it. How can she give it away? Youth is gone, and the red rain is gone. I still see Iraqis when I see the fragrant bag, but I'm afraid Baoyu can't bear to see it again. "Let the soil smell the same as before, but for whom? Scattered into mud and crushed into dust, only the fragrance remains. "
There are many names for bracelets in ancient times, and "jump" is one of them. There is a story in Song Ji You's Three Hundred Tang Poems. One day, Tang Wenzong asked his ministers, "There is a saying in an ancient poem,' A light shirt jumps against the background'. Do any of you know what "jump" is? " No one can answer. The literati school told them: "Breaking free is today's wrist."
In ancient literary works, it is very common for women to send bracelets to their lovers. In Empresses in the Palace, Liang Taohongjing described the escaped fairy sepals, green flowers, sheep rights in Zeng Zeng, gold and jade.
In Pu Songling's Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio. Bai Yuyu wrote about the scholar Wu Shengou going to fairyland to have fun with a fairy in purple. When she left, the fairy gave Wu Sheng her gold brooch as a souvenir.
There are still some vows between ancient brothers, which are varied.
1, a specific place, such as Liu in Taoyuan, Taoyuan is a token.
2. Take blood as an alliance, drink each other's blood and take blood as a pledge.
3. Exchange what you wear, such as Yu Pei, playing with stones, fans, seals, etc. These are tokens.
4. Cut off a little hair or clothes as a token
5. kowtow in front of Guandi, who is a witness and token, including other gods.
6. There are occasions for drinking or eating. Dinner is a symbol.
7. Take an oath at night, Yue Bai. This is an oath.
8. Personal favorite things: such as calligraphy and painting, sword, piano, etc.
4. What token of love were there in ancient China (1)? Xiangsidou Xiangsidou spread thousands of miles, thanks to the four-word quatrain "Acacia" written by the great poet Wang Wei in the Tang Dynasty.
"When those red berries come in spring, they flush on your southern branches. Take them home for my sake as a symbol of our love." This famous saying was written by Wang Wei to his good friend Li Guinian.
Due to the Anshi Rebellion, Li Guinian was exiled to Jiangnan. Wang Wei gave this poem to him, expressing his deep affection for his friends. Later, people used the characteristics of red beans as bright as blood and as hard as diamonds to interpret their unswerving love.
As a result, red beans became the symbol of love and the carrier of acacia. Open the ancient poems, there are many descriptions about acacia and red beans.
Love of "red beans stained with blue cream, often acacia"; "Red beans in linglong dice, I don't know if I want to"; The heaviness of "red beans are ugly and full of acacia tears"; Red beans are ok, but acacia is flawless. Red beans, containing the innocence and profundity of love, bear people's distant homesickness.
(2) The comb is a common token of love, and the most romantic one is the wooden comb. In addition to bringing scalp health care and making hair healthy and beautiful, combs represent acacia and miss each other very much. Comb also has the meaning of opening the knot and letting the troubles pass; To send a comb is to have a private life and want to grow old with her (him). Comb your hair with a comb sent by your lover every day, which represents the close relationship between the two sides.
"The body is a skin injury, and parents dare not hurt it. Filial piety begins. " The ancients attached great importance to hair, which made wooden combs an important personal item. With the legend of Tanabata, the wooden comb has gradually become a token of love that must be given away, and it has been passed down for thousands of years.
(3) The ancients in Yu Pei loved jade, and there is an old saying that "a gentleman never leaves his hand without a reason". The explanation in "Notes on Ancient Poetry" says: "Decorate tassels with jade to show gratitude."
"Ying Luo" is a colorful ribbon tied around the waist when an ancient woman got married to show her belonging. Make "knot" synonymous with ancient marriage.
According to the Book of Songs, when a daughter gets married, the mother tells her daughter to speak in a low voice, but at the same time she can't bear to tie a knot with her. (4) The history of purse sachets goes back to ancient times. In ancient times, it was also called sachet, fragrant tassel, sachet, fragrant ball, Pei Wei and purse. The history of ancient people wearing sachets can be traced back to the pre-Qin period.
According to the Book of Rites. Internal rules ":"Children are parents and use them around; ..... to suit my parents and aunt. " In other words, when young people meet their parents and elders, they should wear "tassels", that is, woven sachets, to show their respect.
Because sachets are personal items, lovers often give them to each other as gifts to express their love. (5) There were many names for bracelets in ancient times, and "jump" was one of them. There is a story in the Chronicle of Tang Poems written by Song Dynasty. One day, Tang Wenzong asked his ministers, "There is a saying in the ancient poem that' a light shirt sets off a jump'. Do any of you know what "jump" is? " No one can answer.
The literati school told them: "Breaking free is today's wrist." In ancient literary works, it is very common for women to send bracelets to their lovers.
In Empresses in the Palace, Liang Taohongjing described the escaped fairy sepals, green flowers, sheep rights in Zeng Zeng, gold and jade. In Pu Songling's Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio. Bai Yuyu wrote about the scholar Wu Shengou going to fairyland to have fun with a fairy in purple. When she left, the fairy gave Wu Sheng her gold brooch as a souvenir.
(6) "The Source of Poetry" said that Zhou Wen fell in love with his neighbor Chiang Kai-shek and gave Chiang Kai-shek 100 refined crystal needles as a token. Chiang opened the suitcase, picked up the knot, and knitted the knot back to Zhou Wen. Plain wisps represent purity, while needles are homophonic with chastity.
Weave the ribbon into a string of palindrome-like concentric knots for each other, which also contains endless thoughts and thousands of feelings. In the poems of Liang Wudi and Xiao Yan, there is "double belt around the waist, and dreams are concentric knots".
In the Song Dynasty, Lin Bu wrote the poem "You are full of tears, my concubine is full of tears, my heart is not finished, and the river is flat". (7) Rings In ancient times, unmarried women didn't wear rings, because the ring was a token of engagement or engagement, so this smallest token was the heaviest in women's hearts, and it is the same today.
Reach out and let the opposite person put it on yourself. Then, either wear it happily for a lifetime or cry for it until your heart breaks sooner or later. According to Taiping Guangji, scholar Li Zhangwu fell in love with Wang's son-in-law in Huazhou. When leaving, Wang's son-in-law gave Li Zhangwu a white jade ring and a poem: "Twist the ring and miss each other."
May you play forever and endlessly. Later, Li Zhangwu went to Huazhou again, and Wang's son-in-law was anxious, so they met at Wang's house.
(8) hairpin, a long needle used by the ancients to insert a bun or even a crown in hair, later specifically refers to women's jewelry with a bun inserted. Historical records? "Funny Biography" said: "There is a fall before, and then there is a hairpin".
And "I stroke my white hair. It has grown too thin, and it can no longer hold hairpins. The ethnic minorities in China have the traditional custom of fixing their hair with hairpins. Their hairpins are various, with a long history, rich national characteristics and rich cultural connotations.
(9) Hairpins are flowers or other styling hairpins made of pearls, jade, gold and silver. Two or more long needles are used to connect and fix the bun and put it on the temples when in use. Hairpin is not only an ornament, but also a symbol of love.
In ancient times, there was a custom of saying goodbye between lovers: women divided their hair clips into two parts, half for each other and the other half for themselves until they met again another day. In Xin Qiji's "Late Spring in Zhu Yingtai", the words "Baochai Powder, Taoyedu, Ada Dark Nanpu" express this parting.
In Nalan Xingde's Ci, "Treasure and Chai are separated, why are they wet?" Also full of the pain of being separated from the person she loves.
5. Nine ancient souvenirs. Which one do you like best? 1. As the old saying goes, "There was a woman with a handkerchief who smiled very cleverly". I think you must be familiar with such a scene: a woman is ashamed to frown at her sweetheart, and her hands are at a loss, so she twists a handkerchief in her hand.
2, "one heart and one hair, comb as a gift" to send a comb means private life, want to grow old with you.
3. "How diligent is a pair of silver", but the smallest token, the ring, is the heaviest in a woman's heart. The same is true today. No woman wants her lover to put a ring on her and promise to stay together forever.
4. What can I use to express my sincere friendship? Only my earrings are left.
Sachets are usually carefully embroidered and sewn by women. If a woman is willing to give a sachet to a man, it is obviously an expression of her love.
6. "The wrist shakes the golden cymbals and the jade ring." The classical jade bracelet bears the feelings and vows of eternal love of most women. In modern times, most women are also obsessed with jade bracelets.
7. Confucius said, "The beauty of jade is like the virtue of a gentleman." He believes that jade has the virtues of benevolence, wisdom, righteousness, courtesy, joy, loyalty, faith, heaven, earth, morality and Taoism. In ancient times, jade was endowed with many beautiful symbols, so naturally, the ancients liked to use jade as a token of love.
8. "Get to know each other and grow old together." When a man gives a woman a hairpin, he must love her very much. Sending a hairpin means that he wants to marry her. In ancient times, there was a word called "married couple", so sending hairpins also implies that men are faithful to love, as long as women are determined to be original.
9. When those red berries come in spring, they flush on your southern branches. For my sake, take them home as a symbol of our love. Red beans are also called acacia beans.