in a man, wisdom and upbringing are the most important, and beauty is nothing to him! If you don't have education and wisdom in your mind, you are still worthless even if you are a handsome man.
No courtesy can make people see the lack of education at a glance. The correct education lies in showing the courtesy on the outside and the noble education of people at the same time.
The essence of cultivation, like human character, ultimately comes down to the question of moral sentiment.
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge.
Politeness pleases polite people, and also pleases those who are treated politely by others.
people are expensive because they are trustworthy and polite; The reason why the country can be strong is that it is only good faith and righteousness.
being polite means treating others the way you like them to treat you.
it's not polite to say anything, but it's self-defeating. My body can't be benevolent, so it's self-abandonment.
a gentleman tolerates what others can't tolerate, tolerates what others can't tolerate, and does what others can't do.
if you are full of losses, you will benefit from humility. Don't stretch out your hand, work all day and strive for self-improvement.
don't be grandiose, it's better to speak incompletely than excessively.
courtesy is the reason to decide suspects, to hesitate, not to be different, and to know right from wrong.
be kind to people and be like brothers; Evil spirit welcomes people and harms soldiers.
generosity, especially modesty, will win people's favor.
anyone with a good upbringing has one commandment: don't lose your temper.
people should not be arrogant, but they should not be arrogant.
if you don't advance and retreat, the decree won't work.
if the clothes are not correct, the guests will not be rude.
let one get a hundred, and fight for ten and lose nine.