People who are not good at talking have been around since ancient times. To put it nicely, these people are shy. In fact, in real life, I think people who are not good at speaking will suffer a lot when entering society. It is difficult to integrate into society if you are not good at speaking.
Whether you are a primary school student, a middle school student, or a college student, you will eventually integrate into social life after graduation, and in the process of integrating into society, you will inevitably have relationships with others. No matter how talented you are, if you don't communicate with others, others will not be able to understand your talents. In fact, I think the reason why many people are not good at speaking is influenced by famous aphorisms such as "gold will shine wherever it is" and "silence is golden". However, in modern society, these are outdated, and anyone who is not good at speaking can It is difficult to integrate into real society. No one can exist alone in society
With the continuous development of science and technology, the division of labor in society is becoming more and more detailed. This determines that in modern society, people do not have to be a generalist like in the past. Becoming a high-quality person in a certain field can adapt to the needs of life and work. It is precisely because of the clear division of labor in society that everyone is an integral part of society. If you want to survive in society, you must adapt to the needs of social division of labor and cooperate with others. Exchanges and dialogues are inevitable during the cooperation process.
In modern society, although everyone is very individual and advocates independence, to be honest, it is almost impossible to live alone in the world like the ancients. When you have no job and no money, you will find that everything is empty talk, so no one can exist alone in modern society. If you want to live, you must learn to communicate, and you cannot go on without being good at words. If you are not good at speaking, you will lose many opportunities
People often say that opportunities are in your own hands, but this is actually true. Anyone who works in an enterprise or other unit knows that there is a competition to be a leading cadre nowadays. If you are not good at speaking during the competition, you will lose your advantage in the competition. In fact, many people are not incapable, but mainly because they are not good at words and do not know how to express themselves. As a result, many opportunities are lost out of thin air, which has to be lamented.
So those who are not good at speaking will definitely suffer when entering society. What you need to do now is to read more to improve your knowledge, exercise more and train your speaking skills, and be brave enough to express yourself, so that you can seize opportunities. , to achieve the glory of life.