1. The more recognized a person is, the lower his social cost.

——Li Xiaomo "Please Stop Ineffective Social Networking"

2. Mature people are always neither humble nor overbearing when advancing or retreating, and establish their own equal outlook on interpersonal relationships.

——Li Xiaomo "Please Stop Ineffective Social Networking"

3. Don’t do things you don’t like to do to cater to society’s judgment standards

—— -Li Xiaomo "Please Stop Ineffective Social Networking"

4. The way to get to know great people is very simple, that is to become a great person.

——Li Xiaomo "Please Stop Ineffective Social Networking"

5. When maintaining interpersonal relationships, you can choose a way to please yourself without going against your true intentions or lowering your personality. A social style that makes people feel comfortable and acceptable. When disagreements arise, you can choose a way of expression that does not arouse confrontational emotions in the other party, but also clearly expresses your views and wishes.

——Li Xiaomo "Please stop ineffective socializing"

6. When your abilities, status, and resources are not worthy of your social ambitions, all you do is ineffective socializing.

——Li Xiaomo "Please stop invalid social interaction"