To tell the truth, as an emotional writer, I admire Tu Lei because he dares to speak and knows what to say to what kind of people.
Most people in this world are not irrational, they just don't want to be smart. There are too many such women around me who obviously live a trivial life, but just want to be ostriches. They always think it's good to get married, have a child and have two children. ......
In the end, I got black and blue all over myself, and I will only regret too much after I have nothing. Why didn't I wake up earlier and waste my life? It's really not worth it.
If you really have emotional confusion now and really want to save yourself, please take a look at three classic quotations from Tu Lei that I shared with you today. I think it will help you.
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To women who have been working hard: I don't advocate women cheating, but women should always keep the capital of cheating. When your man is unfaithful to you, you have to have the capital to exchange for a better man than him, instead of crying twice and hanging up three times ... With you, I can sit all over the world, and my world is still great without you.
What is the most important thing for a woman? I think it's independence. As Tu Lei said, a woman should have the capital to change this man at any time, instead of crying and hanging herself when he betrayed you.
Remember, no matter who you are, an independent partner is more attractive and worth cherishing than a dependent partner.
For a woman, she should have independent courage and be so strong. You're fine. I'm better off without you. With such confidence, all the good people in the world have come to the appointment.
So, if you are in love, wake up and improve yourself. Don't let yourself get hurt in a vicious circle. Make yourself a better self and you will have better happiness.
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Many women feel that they have found a home for the rest of their lives, and there is no need to spend time and money to dress themselves up, nor to cultivate their hobbies and cultivate their sentiments. Actually, this is not right. No matter when, women should learn to love themselves and dress themselves up. Only in this way can men have a sense of crisis, and you won't feel that you have lost the focus of life and yourself. This state in marriage is correct.
Many women around me have lost themselves after marriage. They always feel that their lives are settled and they don't need to improve themselves. It is best to save money for children and families.
But most of these women will not have a happy ending, either because the other party walks too fast and they are tired, or because they pay too much, they can't get the corresponding return, and their mentality is unbalanced. No matter what, you will get hurt and lose the happiness you deserve.
At this time, women should improve themselves at any time, so that they can live well away from everyone and keep their charm of attracting everyone and pleasing themselves.
I envy the women around me. Whether they are married or have children, they all have their own lives. Even if they only use their fragmentation time, they will use it to improve themselves.
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Woman, never let a person be all you have, or you will have nothing if he leaves.
Tu Lei often said in the program that the saddest woman in the world is a woman who has lost herself.
Indeed, for women, whether they are happy or not, as long as they have themselves, there is still the possibility of happiness. But if you pin all your hopes for happiness on others, you will be hurt.
As Tu Lei said, don't let someone be everything to you. If you really love this person, please be rational, because the best love is reserved, restrained and lasting.
Of course, it's no use talking too much The most important thing is that you should think of yourself.