When you encounter difficulties and torture, reading this quotation from Chekhov will be of great help!

In life, how many difficulties and tortures do we have to go through before we can go where we want to go and reach the other shore we want to reach? None of us has an accurate answer. We all just hope that the road ahead will be less difficult and that success will arrive as soon as possible.

Most people are afraid of difficulties and torture. The more people without capital, the more afraid they are, especially those who are still in debt and have mortgages and car loans, which are even less able to withstand it. Wind and rain!

Why do you say that? The reason is very simple. There is no extra funds to support them to face difficulties and torture. If someone in the family becomes ill and needs surgery, the whole family will face collapse and the house may be sold.

Only those who are not in debt and have enough food for one person and the whole family is not hungry are not afraid of difficulties and can even become more courageous in setbacks. People, only those who have been through it know that when you are not ready for anything, don't think about getting married or having children.

Because that will be a stumbling block that hinders your progress, and it will be a burden. You can only get married when you have a house, a car, and enough savings. Then your marriage will not make each other unhappy due to the pressure of reality. Even if you encounter difficulties and torture, both of you can face them together. .

You see why many of us today’s marriages are not strong and fall apart at the slightest bit of wind and rain. To put it bluntly, the foundation is weak and the foundation is not solid. There is not enough capital to support them to continue to survive. Together, they can only torture each other even more.

If you think so and think the above statement is reasonable, you may change your mind after reading Chekhov’s quotations. The text is as follows:

Difficulties and torture are for people, It is a hammer that hits the blank. What should be knocked off are fragile iron filings, and what will be forged into a sharp steel knife. ——Chekhov#Chekhov's Quotations#

Is this really the case, even if there is no capital, so what? Isn’t there a saying that goes well? Husband and wife are of the same mind, but in the final analysis, the husband and wife are not of the same mind.

The more difficult and tormenting the situation, the more we can train each other. Just as Chekhov's famous saying says, what should be knocked out is a fragile iron pin, and what is forged is sharp steel. knife.

If a couple can still stay together after experiencing difficulties and torture, their relationship and love will be stronger. But most couples are very realistic and do not want to suffer hardships, but only want to enjoy blessings together. Therefore, many couples in our reality are like this. They cannot bear the slightest storm and break up.

Isn’t this true in our career? Only those who dare to grow in adversity can surpass others at a faster speed, be superior to their opponents, and win the final victory.

In ordinary and ordinary days, it is difficult to train people to their abilities. A person's ability is often not judged by his ordinary deeds, but by how he faces difficulties and adversities.

Yang Jiang once said: "If you want to train a person who can do great things, you must make him endure hardships and be unsatisfied in order to develop a persevering character. After a person has been trained to different degrees, he will Obtain different levels of cultivation and achieve different levels of benefits. Just like spices, the more they are pounded and finely ground, the stronger the fragrance becomes."

Yang Jiang's famous saying and Chekhov's famous saying, There are similarities and similarities. People, if you want to become strong, you have to learn to face the difficulties and setbacks in life, do not escape, face one difficulty after another, learn to solve it, and then you will slowly change. Gotta get stronger.

If you avoid this difficulty and are very resistant to it, the more you resist, the more this difficulty will continue.

If you avoid it, it is really better to face it bravely. As long as you don’t die, you should keep moving forward. The poorest person is begging for food. If you don’t die, you will always come out. Most of us have experienced difficulties without going to the streets to beg for food. Why should we escape and give up? Woolen cloth?

Suffering is gold that has fallen in price. Only if you realize it, you will not run away from suffering, but will survive in it. Finally, if you pick up this gold that has fallen in price, you will also taste the joy of suffering. .

Success without experiencing difficulties and setbacks is also because it is too easy to obtain and will be too easy to lose. Only success that has experienced many difficulties and setbacks can make people cherish it more, be more cautious, and last long.