Whoever speaks an inch of grass will be rewarded with three rays of spring.
——Meng Jiao
Everyone has a heart of kindness and filial piety.
——Su Che
Mother is the creator of her child’s future destiny (Europe)
●The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that dominates the world (USA)
●Nothing is more beautiful than Baghdad, and nothing is more trustworthy than mother (Iraq)
●The most beautiful voice people hear comes from mother, from home, from heaven --- - (William Brown)
●Mothers have everything going well at home (Alcott)
●A mother who only gives birth but does not raise children is not a real mother (Yo Shade)
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●People will eventually leave their mother (Horace)
●Without mother, what is a family? (Ai Hawthorne)
●In the mouth and heart of the child, the mother is God (Thackeray)
●The mother is worried when her son travels thousands of miles
●The child in the river is on the bank of the mother
●The mother aches for the child, the road is as long; the child aches for the mother, the thread is as long
●The mother misses the son, the water of the Yangtze River; the son misses the mother, and cries. Field
●A mother longs for her son, as long as a river; a son longs for his mother, as long as a carrying pole
●A mother’s heart is a paradise for her children (Italy)
●Hitting In the child's body, the pain is in the mother's heart
●A loving mother's tears contain a noble and deep love that cannot be analyzed chemically (UK)
●A father who would rather die as an official than die A begging mother
●A mother’s beating will never make a child crippled (Jewish)
●It’s good to be a mother who travels all over the world, and it’s good to eat salt all over the world
●A mother’s whisper is always sweet (UK)
●Parents’ love is the foundation of all virtues (UK)
●Mother’s love is the noblest (Germany)
●Mother's love, spring is always there (France)
●Mother's love is known only by mothers (Waugh Montagu)
●Children are the anchor of mother's life (Standing on Phocles)
●Nothing is sweeter than honey, no kiss is better than mother and daughter
●A girl is the mother's crony belt
●The mother is a daughter-in-law, remember In my heart, a daughter is in love with her mother, and her heart is broken
●Nine out of ten chrysanthemums are yellow, and nine out of ten daughters are like their mother
●Miao is good, rice is good, mother is good, daughter is good
●Like mother, like daughter (UK)
●If you want to win your daughter’s favor, you must start with her mother (UK)
● A diligent mother and a lazy daughter (Japan)
●A noisy mother will raise lazy children (Latin America)
●A mother’s heart is the classroom for her children (Beecher)
●Father is a banker prescribed by nature (Europe)
●Father! For God, we cannot find a more sacred name than this----(Wordsworth)
●A father is worth a hundred teachers (UK)
●Allowing their children to honor their ancestors is the main shortcoming of fathers (Ber Rosseau)
●In the eyes of all young people, what a harsh judge father is! (Ternus)
●Few fathers care deeply about their children, at least most of them care more about money (Chesterfield)
●No Who really knows his father, but we all have some kind of speculation or some kind of trust (Menander)
●When criticizing our fathers for their narrow-mindedness, we must not forget their profoundness- ---(Folks)
●The feelings between father and son are completely different: the father loves the son himself, while the son loves the memory of his father (Europe)
●For fathers, losing a father is not necessarily a misfortune; for a son, not having a son is not necessarily painful (Chesterfield) <
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●A father can manage a hundred sons, but a hundred sons can hardly manage one father----(Europe)
●Each generation always rebels against its own fathers , but made friends with his grandfather----(Mumford)
●The father's reputation sometimes does not help his son, but instead drowns him: they stand too close to each other, and the shadow suffocates him Growing up (Ben Jonson)
●As long as your father is alive, you will always be young
●Father and son have no estrangement from each other
●The young and the phoenix are better than the old The sound of the phoenix
●Crooked bamboo produces straight bamboo shoots
●It is better to raise a son than a father
●Like father, like son
●Grandpas and mothers cherish their children, just like the water of the Yangtze River
●Eggplant flowers bear fruit, and parents’ words are true (Japan)
●All parents in the world
●The hearts of parents are in their children, and the hearts of their children are outside
●There are cruel children, but there are no cruel parents
●Thousands of branches are connected to the roots, and ten fingers are connected to the heart
●All ten fingers hurt
●The palm of the hand is made of flesh and the back of the hand is made of tendons. Both sides hurt equally
●The palm of the hand and the back of the hand are made of flesh
●We feel great joy for the beauty and happiness of our children. This joy makes our hearts so broad that our bodies cannot contain them (Emerson)
●Children are the most precious treasures of our parents (UK)
●Parents have the heart of heaven and earth, no matter how big or small
●To know the kindness of parents, hold children and grandchildren in your arms
●Only when you raise a child do you know how hard your mother has worked, and when you raise a daughter do you know how grateful your mother is Yes
●I didn’t know my mother since I was a child, and I only know how to repay my mother’s kindness when I raise children
●I don’t remember my mother raising me, but I look at my own children now
●Improper At home, I don’t know how valuable firewood and rice are; if I don’t raise children, I don’t know how to repay my mother’s kindness
●When my father is still alive, I don’t know how valuable it is to have a father
●The kindness of parents cannot be drowned by water or fire. Destroyed (Soviet Union)
●Father's kindness is higher than the mountains, mother's kindness is deeper than the sea (Japan)
●A son becomes his son after marrying, but a daughter remains his daughter for life ---- (UK)
●If you want to understand your daughter, just look at the kind of people she associates with (UK)
●It is easier to raise a daughter than to marry a daughter (UK)
●One boy causes more trouble than twelve girls (UK)
●It is difficult to burn a single firewood, and it is difficult to teach an only child
●A pig baby cannot Eat bran, and the two pigs will eat well
●The ones born are close, but the ones raised are not close
●The raw skin is hot inside, and the skin is not cold as iron
●The son needs to be born, and the fields need to be plowed in winter
●Ten uncles are not worth one father, and ten jackets are not worth one coat
●No matter how sweet the sugar cane is, It’s not as good as sugar, and the aunt you kiss is not as good as your mother
●It hurts a dog to raise a dog, it hurts a cat to raise a cat
●A bunch of radishes and a bunch of vegetables, everyone loves what they raise
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●Dogs raised by cats are not close to each other
●The fist of the late mother, the sun in June
●Whose flesh will hurt
●Tiger poison does not eat its seeds
●Dragon gives birth to dragons, bamboos and phoenixes. Rats can dig holes to give birth to their children. Tigers give birth to three children, and there must be one of them.
●Tiger children come out of the door
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●What kind of mold will produce what kind of cake?
●There is no good seed in bad grain
1. Be cautious when entering and leaving for support, and don’t get tired of serving day and night.
It means: Parents should be careful to support them when entering and exiting (doors), and don’t get tired of serving them in the morning and evening.
From "Encouragement to Repay Parental Favors".
2. If you can be filial to your parents, you will be a good son; if you are filial to your mother-in-law, you will be filial and you will be virtuous.
It means: being filial to your parents means you are a good son, being filial to your father-in-law and mother-in-law can lead to a reputation of being both filial and virtuous.
From "Encouragement to Repay Parental Favors".
3. Disciples will be filial when they enter, and they will be younger when they leave.
It means: young disciples should honor their parents when they return home, and respect and love their brothers when they go out.
From "The Analects of Confucius: The First in Learning" (Spring and Autumn Period).
4. Don’t be slow when your parents call you; don’t be lazy when your parents order.
It means: when parents call, you should answer quickly; when parents give orders, you should do it quickly.
From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations".
5. A husband’s filial piety is the law of heaven and the righteousness of earth.
Meaning: Filial piety is a natural and right thing to do.
From "The Classic of Filial Piety".
6. Don’t be slow to answer the call, be sincere and cheerful.
Meaning: When parents call you, you should immediately agree, do not neglect, and be sincere.
7. Be considerate and smile.
From "Encouragement to Repay Parental Favors".
8. Good food should be used by parents first, and good clothes should be worn by parents first.
It means: Give your parents good food first, and give your parents good clothes first.
From "Encouragement to Repay Parental Favors".
9. A poor family knows a filial son, and a country in chaos knows a loyal minister.
Meaning: Only when the family is poor can a true filial son be discovered; only when the country is in danger can a true loyal minister be identified.
From "Collection of Famous Sages".
10. He who is arrogant towards his relatives is also disrespectful to his relatives.
Meaning: People who do not respect other people’s parents will certainly not respect their own parents.
From "Three Kingdoms·Book of Wei".
11. Mencius said: "If you don't have relatives, you can't be a person; if you don't have relatives, you can't be a son.
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Mencius said: "( In Shun's eyes, if a son does not get along well with his parents, he cannot be a good person; if a son cannot obey his parents in everything, he cannot be a son.
"From (Spring and Autumn Period). . "Mencius Li Lou Shang".
12. Mencius said: "When I am old, I am like the old of others; when I am young, I am like the young of others.
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Mencius said: "Respect your own family. If you care about the elders of other families, you should also care for the elders of other families; if you caress your own children, you should care for the children of other families as well.
"From "Mencius: King Hui of Liang" (Spring and Autumn Period).
13. Mencius said: "Kissing relatives is benevolence; respecting elders is righteousness.
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Mencius said: "Loving parents is benevolence. "Respecting one's elders is righteousness."
"From "Mencius: Devoting the Heart" (Spring and Autumn Period).
14. Mencius said: "Everyone loves his relatives and grows up, and the world is peaceful.
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Mencius said: "As long as everyone has his own Love your parents and respect your elders, then the world will naturally be at peace.
"From "Mencius Li Lou Shang" (Spring and Autumn Period).
15. Don’t let your parents suffer from hard work, and don’t let your parents suffer from sorrow.
It means: Don’t let your parents suffer, don’t let your parents share your worries.
From "Encouragement to Repay Parental Favors".
16. If you like what you like, use your strength; if you dislike what you like, be careful to get rid of it.
It means: Children should try their best to prepare things for their parents if they like them; things that their parents hate should be carefully removed for them.
From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations".
17. If a relative has a fault, he will correct it if he remonstrates.
Tian my color, soft my voice.
Meaning: Parents are at fault, advise them to change.
Smile and speak softly.
From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations".
18. If you love me, it’s hard to be filial; if you love me or hate me, filial piety is the only way to be virtuous.
It means: My parents love me, so what is the difficulty in being filial; my parents hate me, but I still show my filial piety, which is virtuous.
From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations".
19. A virtuous wife will bring few troubles, and a son will be filial to his father and have a generous heart.
Meaning: If a wife is virtuous, her husband will have fewer disasters; if the children are filial, the parents will be happy.
From "Zengguang Xianwen" (Ming Dynasty).
20. Among thousands of classics, filial piety and righteousness come first.
Meaning: Thousands of classics say that filial piety and righteousness are the first things people should do.
From "Zengguang Xianwen" (Qing Dynasty)
21. Always be considerate of your parents' wishes and do not teach them to worry about you.
It means: always be considerate and understanding of your parents, and don’t let your parents worry.
From "Encouragement to Repay Parental Favors".
22. The first is to be a filial brother, and the second is to be faithful.
It means: First of all, you must be filial to your parents and respect your brothers. Secondly, you must be cautious and keep your word.
From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations".
23. Injury to the body will cause worries to relatives; injury to virtue will cause shame to relatives.
Meaning: When the body is injured, the parents are worried; when morals are corrupted, the parents are humiliated.
From (Please) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations".
24. Being a son should end with filial piety; being a father should end with kindness.
It means: as a son, you must be filial to your parents; as a father, you must be loving to your son.
From "The Great Learning"
25. Filial piety is the beginning of virtue, brotherhood is the sequence of virtue, faith is the thickest virtue, and loyalty is the righteousness of virtue.
He who has participated in the Four Virtues of Zhongfu.
Meaning: Honoring your parents is the beginning of morality, respecting your brother is the order of morality, trust is the depth of morality, and loyalty is the direction of morality.
Zeng Shen was a person with exactly these four morals.
’ comes from "Family Language·Disciples' Practice".
26. A filial son will be filial to his parents, and he will be filial to others.
It means: If you are filial to your parents, your children will be filial to you; if you respect others, others will also respect you.
From (Song Dynasty) Lin Bu's "Saving Heart Record".
27. Sheep have the kindness of kneeling down to breastfeed, and crows have the kindness of feeding back.
Meaning: The little lamb kneels down to suck milk, and the little crow can feed the old crow in return to repay the parents for their nurturing kindness.
From "Zengguang Xianwen" (Ming Dynasty).
28. How to be filial to your parents? Filial piety goes beyond food and clothing; filial piety does not make your parents angry, it is all about loving and respecting your relatives and being filial.
It means: How to honor your parents. Honoring your parents is not just about giving them food and clothing; honoring your parents does not mean making them angry. Loving and respecting your parents is full filial piety.
From "Repaying Parents' Favors".
29. To know the kindness of relatives, look at your son; if you want your son to be obedient, you must first be filial to your parents.
It means: Only by raising children can you understand the nurturing grace of your parents; if you ask your children to be filial to you, you must first be filial to your own parents.
From "Four Words".
30. Zengzi said: Fortunately, there are three things: the first is filial piety, respecting relatives, the second is not being humiliated, and the second is being able to support.
Zengzi said: "There are three points of filial piety. The first is to respect your parents, the second is not to bring shame to your parents with your words and deeds, and the third is to be able to support your parents.
" From ( Spring and Autumn Period) "Book of Rites".
31. Confucius said: "One should not know the age of one's parents, one should be happy and the other should be fearful.
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Confucius said; " It is impossible not to know the age of parents.
On the one hand, I am happy for their longevity, and on the other hand, I am worried about their aging.
From "The Analects of Confucius·Li Ren No. 4". 》.
32. Confucius said: "When parents are alive, do not travel far away, and you must have a good way."
Confucius said: "When parents are alive, do not travel far away from home. If you want to travel far away, you must have A clear place to go.
"From "The Analects of Confucius·Li Ren 4th" (Spring and Autumn Period).
33. Confucius said: "Today's filial piety means to be able to nourish.
As for dogs and horses, they can all be kept.
It’s disrespectful, so why bother? "
Confucius said: "Today's filial son only means that he can provide for his parents.
Even dogs and horses can be raised.
If you are not filial to your parents.
So what is the difference between supporting your parents and raising dogs and horses? "From the (Spring and Autumn) "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng Second"
Lu Yi Shun Mu
Min Sun, courtesy name Zi Qian, was a native of Lu during the Spring and Autumn Period, a disciple of Confucius, and a disciple of Confucius. Zhong Yi De Xing is known as Yan Yuan.
Confucius once praised him: "How filial, Min Ziqian!" ("The Analects of Confucius? Advanced")
His biological mother died early, and his father married a queen. His wife gave birth to two sons.
His stepmother often abused him. In winter, his two brothers wore winter clothes made of cotton, but they gave him "cotton clothes" made of reed catkins.
One day, when his father went out, Min Sun shivered due to the cold while pulling the cart, and dropped the rope. He was scolded and whipped by his father. /p>
When his father returned home, he wanted to divorce his stepmother.
Min Sun knelt down and begged his father to forgive his stepmother, saying, "I am the only one left to suffer the cold. I divorced my three children." They're all going to be freezing.
"My father was very moved and accepted him.
When the stepmother heard about it, she regretted her mistake and treated him like her own son from then on.
Deer Milk Blessing
Tanzi, a native of the Spring and Autumn Period
His parents were suffering from eye diseases and needed to drink deer milk to cure them.
He wore deer skin and went into the mountains. In the herd of deer, Tan Zi hurriedly picked up the deer skin and came out to squeeze the milk. He informed the hunter of the fact that he had cured his parents. The hunter respected him and gave him deer milk as a gift, and escorted him out of the mountain. A hermit, he farmed at the southern foot of Mengshan Mountain to avoid the chaos of the world.
He was filial to his parents and offered all the delicacies to his parents. He was still not old at the age of 70. He often wore colorful clothes and held a rattle like a child. He played like a child to make his parents happy.
Once when he was delivering water to his parents, he fell down when he entered the house. He was afraid that his parents would be sad, so he simply lay on the floor while the children cried and the parents laughed.
Sold his body to bury his father
According to legend, Dong Yong was a native of Qiancheng (now north of Gaoqing County, Shandong Province) during the Eastern Han Dynasty. He lost his mother when he was young and moved to Anlu (now in Hubei) to avoid war.
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On the way to work, he met a woman under the shade of a locust tree and said she was homeless. They got married.
The woman spent one month weaving three hundred pieces of brocade to pay off Dong Yong's debt. On her way home, she went to Huaiyin and told Dong Yong that she was the daughter of the Emperor of Heaven. He was ordered to help Dong Yong pay off his debts.
Yan Bi left in the air. Therefore, Huaiyin changed his name to Xiaogan.