Character refers to a person's character and cultivation. Being a man, it doesn't matter what you lack, but you can't lack character. People with good character are kind-hearted, honest, honest, grateful and get along with them. People with poor character are heartless, mercenary, insidious and ungrateful, and they are walking on thin ice with them.
Whether a person's character is good or bad is often unconsciously revealed in daily life. The details of daily life are like a mirror, which can clearly reflect a person's personality. People with good personality can think of others from trivial matters, be kind to others, take pleasure in helping others and always warm others. People with poor character only consider their own interests in everything, at the expense of others, cheating others and taking advantage of them everywhere.
Looking at a person's personality requires long-term careful observation. We should observe a person from trivial matters and observe him several times. The longer we observe him, the closer we will get to the answer you want, and see how he treats himself and his friends around him. You can also guess his character from his friends. Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. This is very reasonable. A man knows his companion in a long journey and an inn. Short-term views are often inaccurate, and some smart people may pretend to be different in heart and be good at judging people by their appearances.
In fact, personality is also cultivated. Everyone's different educational and social experiences may affect their personality. Sometimes it's hard to see a person clearly, because some people are good at camouflage, and you never know what he will look like next second. So, you still have to be careful and analyze it yourself. Look at his attitude and behavior towards his relatives. Whether you are filial to your parents and whether you are friendly and polite to other relatives. Look at his style of doing things and the way he treats others. Is narrow-minded or broad-minded, approachable or haggle over every ounce, honest and trustworthy or cynical.
A person's character depends on when he has a conflict of interest with you. When you are faced with a conflict of interest with him, especially when his interests are damaged, his reaction can best reflect a person's character. If you have a bad personality, no one will associate with you at all. Therefore, at the end of life, it is actually a matter of character. However, in the face of conflicts of interest, people who are unmoved by their initial intentions are often open-minded, virtuous, willing to consider each other and never care about personal gains and losses.
Everyone's personality is latent, and people's hearts are separated by their bellies. This is the standard by which we measure a person. It depends on a person's personality, either interest or goodwill. As a person, being affectionate and intentional is a good character, and being heartless is a bad character. Therefore, it is most important for us to look at a person's character in this world.
Character refers to a person's character and cultivation. Being a man, it doesn't matter what you lack, but you can't lack character. People with good character are kind, honest and trustworthy, honest and grateful, and get along with others, such as drinking sweets and soaking in the spring breeze; People with poor character are ruthless, mercenary, insidious and ungrateful, and they are walking on thin ice.
As the saying goes, "it is difficult to draw a tiger's skin but a bone." After all, a person's personality is not written on his face. Some people with bad personality are good at camouflage and deceive the world with false faces. On the surface, they are hypocritical, but underneath they are mean! If you are not careful, you will be cheated. Then, how can people get along with each other to see a person's character clearly?
In my opinion, it is important to see a person's personality clearly in two aspects, one is time, and the other is details. As long as we observe and feel with our heart at ordinary times, we will certainly be able to see clearly whether a person's personality is good or bad.
First: Time will tell.
An old saying goes well: "Strong winds can make you know grass, loyal ministers can make you know board swings, and fine horses can make you see horsepower from a distance and see people for a long time." . Time is a good thing, it can help us to see people's hearts clearly and witness human nature. Everything is invisible in front of time. Although time is silent, we can tell what is true and what is false through the precipitation of time. Whether a person's personality is good or bad, after a long time, people will naturally see clearly!
Second: details bear witness to character.
A person's character is good or bad, often unconsciously revealed in daily life. "The goods are useless, but the heart hides." Details show character, and small things show upbringing. The details of daily life are like a mirror, which can clearly reflect a person's personality. People with good personality can think of others from small things, be kind to others, be helpful and always warm others; People with poor character only consider their own interests in everything, harming others and benefiting themselves, and are greedy for cheap everywhere in cheat people.
When you are alive, when you get along with others, you must polish your eyes and see each other's personality clearly. You can treat people with good character as friends, turn around and never pester people with poor character! In a word: gentleman, villain! To see a person's character clearly, we should look at it from two aspects:
1. Manners and manners are a person's letter of introduction and a person's shell, which can be divided into beauty, ugliness and elegance. Beauty and elegance refer to people who are sincere and natural, not vain, not boastful and not making drafts. There are some people who can see his character and speech from his small manners, just like a rich and mellow wine, which makes people more memorable and extremely rich in gold!
2. Get along for a long time. It takes a long time to look into a person's heart. Contact for a long time can also reveal a person's authenticity, good and evil. Although spending money and food is good at ordinary times, everything is fine, but it really comes to a critical moment, such as what is common in the Cultural Revolution: to protect yourself, or to achieve ulterior motives, turn against people who repay kindness, or even falsely accuse and frame others and climb up! Also, when evaluating professional titles or upgrading, some people will show their true colors and do harm by hook or by crook. What's more, they will die!