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Han Han has a famous saying: I have read many great principles but still cannot live a good life. This sentence is regarded as a classic by many people. There is also a saying that many books require a certain amount of experience to be understood. In fact, the truth is the same. Only after you have experienced enough tempering in life can you be convinced of many truths and be willing to try to practice them or change them.

I have recently been reading Yi Shu’s series of works, and I have seen all kinds of Yi Shu’s quotations on the Internet. When I was young and frivolous, I rarely read quotations from famous people. I wanted to make my own decisions about my own life.

But now, I am about to run for the fourth time, and I don’t want to compare myself to the bull that was beaten in Wang Xiaobo’s works. I just feel that I have struggled hard, been decadent, successful, and failed, and I have seen through this life. The rules of the game. I have explored the boundaries of my abilities. Therefore, I began to believe in some of Yi Shu's classic sayings.

I have written many articles, and I feel that this one is the closest to a bowl of chicken soup in life.

1. Poverty is a state of mind. If you insist that you are poor all your life, having a lot of money will not save you. -- "Music in the Neighbor Room"

We have a local saying called "poor heart". No matter how rich you are, you not only don't like to help others, but also like to take advantage of others and are eager for quick success. He squeezes his employees hard and treats the people around him harshly and forcefully, but he still doesn't feel safe enough, and he feels like a poor person in his heart.

2. Life is never fair. How much you get, you have to do your best and work hard to live. --"We Are Not Angels"

No matter what you have gone through, no matter how unfortunate you are, no matter how unfair you feel, yes, you can live or die, It's useless. You came to the world with such a card. You can give up, but even if there is nothing, there is still fresh wind and bright sunshine. There are many people who are reluctant to die just for this. Since If you don't want to die, just play the cards in your hand and do your best little by little.

Do you remember the story of Tian Ji’s horse racing? He used three ordinary horses to fight a beautiful comeback.

Jack Ma started from scratch, while Dong Mingzhu started as a debt collection salesman in Gree at the age of 36.

Even if you have nothing, you still have health. Even if you don’t even have health, at least you are still alive and have an unwilling heart. As long as there is a will, there is hope.

3. This is a highly competitive society. Those who are not qualified to leave had better not leave, otherwise the position will be taken by others and there will be no more space. Losing your temper in your spare time is of no use at all. -- "Once Deeply Loved"

Many things need to be more practical. Sleep more when you have time, and make more money when you have nothing to do. There is no use in getting angry about things that you are not capable of fighting against, especially in the workplace, where there are soldiers in a stable camp and there will be people to take over every job. But how can you survive without a job?

4. Have fun in time and enjoy whatever God gives you. Never listen to embarrassing words and never meet ugly people. Or do the hard thing and fall in love with someone you shouldn’t love. -- "Electric Phantom"

Among all living beings, really everyone has his own temperament and character. We can't change anyone. What we can do is stay close to what we like and stay away from what we don't like. Yes, I must not be able to walk away and pretend not to see it. Because there are many people and things that we can neither change nor leave, so we just eat the food we like, love the people we like, listen to the words we like, learn to enjoy everything we can, and make ourselves happy. For other things, you should learn from the ostrich and bury your head in the sand, preferably also plug your ears.

The most unfortunate thing among them is falling in love with the person who should least love. Love is a beautiful thing, but it is common to still let go even though you know clearly that you shouldn't. Love that you don't know where it started grows deeper. Often when you realize it, the love is deeply rooted. It's easier said than done to let go. But people who are rational, transparent and independent can often make the right choices, and such people can also control their own lives.

6. "You may misunderstand that a college diploma is the key to the world, opening the door to smooth sailing. This is not true. The purpose of studying is to learn knowledge and broaden your mind. Everything in life Troubles will follow you forever, but knowledge and cultivation can make a person analyze and deal with these problems more rationally and calmly." - - "Flowers are always good, the moon is always round, and people are long-lasting"

So, although I do. I don’t have a diploma, but I have never given up studying. The knowledge and insights in the book can really give me strength and direction when I encounter difficulties in life, and also allow me to avoid many misguided paths and dangers. I can distinguish opportunities and temptations, and know that they are Momentary emotion or fate. And finally found something that I am willing to work hard for my whole life.

7. True talent is as hard to collect as fire and will always start a prairie fire. - - "Once Deeply Loved"

So, if you are not talented enough, don't complain, don't explain, don't break the pot, cry and beat your chest, just keep working hard. Bar.

8. Living together is not an art. It is like building the Great Wall, an arduous project. ——"The Story of Roses"

In fact, the so-called "suffering" is nothing more than being unable to see away, but people always cannot see away, and they don't know why, God has given people so many contradictions. It always makes people greedy. After getting acquainted, I want to know each other, and after getting to know each other, I want to fall in love. Once I fall in love, I start to suffer. I always want to possess the other person. Either I forcefully distort and change myself for the other person, causing myself pain, or I try to change the other person but fail, making both of them suffer. It is originally A beautiful love may eventually be twisted into a crime or a tragedy, but people are afraid of loneliness and need a lot of security, so they still have to build the Great Wall.

9. I forgot where I saw this sentence, but it is undoubtedly from Yi Shu’s work: Why should I go against the social system?

Yes, when we were young, why did we have to go against the social system? We don’t do what the universal social system requires us to do!

People need to be beautiful. I know the beauty of beauty. At least someone will open the door for you, someone will pull out a chair for you, and someone is willing to take the trouble to compliment you and please you. You will always be happy, no matter what. Whether you accept it or not, although it is a bit shallow and vain, this is human nature.

Psychologist William James once said: "The most profound desire of human nature is to be appreciated by others. This is what distinguishes humans from animals." Whether it is the high-ranking powerful celebrities, or the As humble and ordinary people in the city, everyone hopes to be praised and respected by others.

John Dewey said: The most profound driving force in human nature is the desire to be important and to be praised.

Being praised, needed, recognized, accepted and understood are normal human psychological needs.

In this case, why bother with yourself? Just do things that are innocuous and can make you better.

You must have the ability to learn. Only with useful learning ability can you have a steady stream of abilities that will never be exhausted. Ability is the sense of security in your social life. It is your courage and confidence to dare to be yourself.

Read more. Liu Xiang said: Books are like medicine. Good reading can cure stupidity.

A positive heart. It seems that this is the only thing that is not necessary and cannot be changed. Many people are born with a Buddhist mentality. They live a happy life and are content with having enough food and clothing. Some people are not only ambitious but also ambitious.

Don’t be afraid of hardship. The more afraid people are of suffering, the more they will suffer. On the contrary, those who are not afraid of suffering can escape from the sea of ??suffering faster. This is the rule of life.

In just a few decades of life, the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others.

Although everyone desires to be praised, there is no need to do things you don’t like in order to be praised by others. It’s about pleasing yourself and doing your best while also receiving a wave of praise.

This is the rule of life. If you understand that life is actually a game, don’t be anxious or panic. First, understand the rules clearly, then upgrade and fight monsters step by step, get more, and live a wonderful life.