The famous saying goes: ten times good and one bad.

In other words, "A bucket of rice can make a benefactor, and a stone of rice can make an enemy." Giving a bucket of rice to others at a critical moment is like providing help in the snow, and people will feel grateful. If too much is given over time, people will become greedy, take the giving for granted, and become resentful once assistance is stopped.

Allusion:

Once upon a time, there were two families who were neighbors, and they usually had a good relationship. One of the families is much richer because they are more capable. The two families originally had no grudges, but this year, God was angry and brought disasters, and there was no harvest in the fields. The poor family had no harvest and had to lie down and wait for death.

At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food. Thinking about their neighbors, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family, which saved the family. The poor family was very grateful to the rich man, thinking that he was really a life-saving benefactor! After surviving the most difficult moments, the poor went to the rich's homes to express their gratitude. While talking, he mentioned that the seeds for next year have not yet been planted.

The rich family said generously: Well, there is still a lot of food here, so let’s take another bucket. The poor man gratefully took a bucket of rice and went home. After returning home, my brother asked, what can I do with this rice? In addition to eating, there is simply not enough seeds for next year. This rich man is too much. Since he is so rich, he should give more food and money, and only give so little. It is really bad.

When these words reached the ears of the rich man, he was very angry. He thought that he gave so much food for free, and not only did he not thank him, but he also treated himself as an enemy and hated him. He was really not a human being. So, two families who had a good relationship. From then on, they became enemies and never interacted with each other until death.