1. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

2. Rather than saying that others make you suffer, it is better to say that your own cultivation is not enough.

3. If you don’t trouble yourself, others will never trouble you. Because you can’t let go of your own heart.

4. When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that the pain is not eternal.

5. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself, and changing yourself can you change others.

6. Don’t waste your life in a place you will definitely regret.

7. Every trauma is a kind of maturity.

8. When you know the confusion, you are not pitiful; when you don’t know the confusion, you are the most pitiful.

9. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with low self-esteem cannot be saved.

10. You have to be tolerant of those who have different opinions from you, so that life will be easier. If you keep trying to change him, it will be very painful for you. You have to learn how to tolerate him. You have to learn how to tolerate him.

12. To admit one's own greatness is to admit one's own ignorance.

13. People who are filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.

14. It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be more lenient with your words.

15. When you persuade others, if you do not take into account the self-esteem of others, then no matter how good your words are, they will be useless.

16. Don’t mix arrogance with your wisdom. Do not let your humility lack wisdom.

17. You don’t have to look back to see who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back?

18. Being jealous of others will not add any benefits to yourself. Being jealous of others cannot diminish other people's achievements.

19. Never waste a minute of your time thinking about anyone you don’t like.

20. Love is not charity and cannot be given casually. There is no formula, no principle, and no reason to follow in feelings. But people are still persisting and pursuing until death.

21. Those who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for opportunity is a fool.

22. Being able to say but not do is not true wisdom.

23. Listen more carefully to what others have to say, and don’t rush to express your own opinions.

24. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? With the same mentality, why are you full of troubles?

25. We will always think that something is wonderful if we can’t get it. That’s because you know too little about him and don’t have time to spend time with him. One day, when you understand deeply, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

26. If you are alive for one day, you are blessed and you should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found someone who had no feet.

27. The more attention you have to pay attention to others, the less time you have to reflect on yourself. Do you understand?

28. People who think they have wealth are actually possessed by wealth.

29. Don’t be too sure of your own opinions. This way you will have fewer regrets.

30. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.

31. People who use harm to others to cover up their own shortcomings are shameful.

32. Those who live in the applause of others cannot withstand the test.

33. To understand a person, you only need to see whether his starting point and destination are the same, and you can know whether he is sincere.

34. The truth of life is just hidden in the dull.

35. Instead of rejecting the fact that it has become a fact, you might as well accept it.

36. You have to thank the person who told you about your shortcomings.

37. People who can think of others will never be lonely.

38. If you can discover your own shortcomings as accurately as you can see the shortcomings of others, then your life will be extraordinary.

39. People who always distort the good intentions of others are hopeless.

40. There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised.

When you talk a lot, others will criticize you; when you talk little, others will criticize you; when you are silent, others will still criticize you. There is no one in this world who is not criticized.

41. Don’t lose your temper when your mistakes are revealed. Don’t think that being willful or noisy can hide or overcome your shortcomings.

41. People who don’t know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.

42. Although you hate a person, you can still find his advantages and benefits. There are too few cultivated people like this in the world.

43. Most people only do three things in their lives: deceiving themselves, deceiving others, and being deceived.

44. People who appreciate themselves too much will not appreciate the advantages of others.

45. The heart is the biggest liar. Others can lie to you for a while, but it will lie to you for a lifetime.

46. When you hold on to something in your hand, you can only have this thing. If you are willing to let go, you will have the opportunity to choose something else. If a person's heart clings to his own ideas and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

47. If you are planning to get married, let me tell you a very important philosophical saying. You must be patient and tolerant of each other's shortcomings.

48. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.

49. No one in the world can achieve success by relying on his own strength. Behind success, there must be many people who are helping you intentionally or unconsciously. You should always be grateful to them.

50. Everyone in the world is completing two major accumulations - the accumulation of knowledge and experience; the accumulation of capital and reputation. When you think you have completed these two accumulations, you will succeed in whatever you want to do.