A comprehensive collection of reference materials for students’ handwritten newspapers on respecting the elderly and filial piety. Respecting the elderly and filial piety are the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation, which every Chinese child must inherit and carry forward. Respecting the elderly and filial piety are the values ??of the Chinese nation. Progress is also a symbol of culture.
1. Customs in various places during the Double Ninth Festival
People in Shaoxing Prefecture, Zhejiang Province visit each other on the Double Ninth Festival. Unless there is a funeral in the family of a relative or friend, they will cry in front of the soul. Tonglu County prepares pigs and sheep for ancestors on September 9th, which is called the Autumn Festival. At the same time, they also tie rice dumplings on the Double Ninth Festival and give each other gifts, which is called Double Ninth Festival rice dumplings.
Tongling County, Anhui Province holds the Dragon Candle Festival on the Double Ninth Festival to welcome the mountain god. It is said that cutting bamboo horses for fun can drive away the plague.
Wuchang County, Hubei Province makes wine on the Double Ninth Festival. It is said that the wine brewed here is the clearest and will not spoil after being stored for a long time. The Double Ninth Festival in Yingcheng County is a day to fulfill vows. On this day, every family worships the god of Fangshe Tianzu.
Farmers in Changting County, Fujian Province give gifts of edamame from their fields, which is called the edamame festival. Flying kites on the Double Ninth Festival in Haicheng County is a show called "Fengcha".
On the Double Ninth Festival in Lianchuan, Guangdong Province, boys and girls gathered outside the city to sing songs, and people from the state gathered around to watch. On September 9th, Nanxiong Mansion invited Taoist priests from Maoshan to establish the Queen Mother Association. Young women who want to have children will come to participate. On the Double Ninth Festival in Yangjiang City, paper kites are released and rattan bows are tied to them. The sound is very loud in mid-air. The people of Lingao County got up early on the Double Ninth Festival and shouted "Catch the Bobcats" in unison, taking this as a good omen for peace, prosperity and prosperity.
2. Blessings for the Double Ninth Festival
With the cool breeze of this autumn and the fragrance of osmanthus, we ushered in another Double Ninth Festival last Saturday. This is a festival that represents the meeting of the ninety-nine sun and the moon. It is a festival that symbolizes longevity. It is a festival that respects, respects and loves the elderly.
Respect for the elderly is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, passed down from generation to generation for thousands of years. Confucius believed that if children only support their parents but do not respect them, let alone treat them with a pleasant attitude, this does not count as true filial piety to the elderly. Mencius further proposed: "I am old, I am old, and people are old." This means that when supporting and honoring your elders, you should also care and love other elderly people who are not related to you by blood.
My classmates’ grandparents must be older. They have made great contributions to the development of society and devoted all their efforts to their children. We should respect and love them, and we should also care about their health.
The Double Ninth Festival has the same pronunciation as "Jiujiu", which means long and long life. I think this is also the meaning of defining "Double Ninth Festival" as "Elderly People's Day".
The old man’s love for us is broad and selfless; our concern for the old man is small and rare. Many times, we always take it for granted with our palms upward, but we neglect to hold an umbrella for them on rainy days, hand them a cup of hot tea after work, and rub their shoulders before going to bed...
Classmates, from now on, let us work together, starting from every little thing around us, to carry forward the traditional virtues of "respecting the elderly, respecting the elderly, loving the elderly, and helping the elderly", and make Baofu Middle School a "filial piety" A model campus that respects the elderly!
So, let us celebrate the Double Ninth Festival with more elderly people! When riding in the bus, take the initiative to stand up and give up your seat to the elderly; when queuing, take the initiative to let the elderly stand In front of you; when crossing the road, take the initiative to step forward and help the old man next to you... This simple getting up, simple humility, and simple support are respect for life, respect for time, and respect for noble qualities.
Finally, I wish all the elderly in the world: Happy holidays, good health, smiles and happiness forever!
The civilization and tradition of the Chinese nation should be inherited and carried forward. The virtue of filial piety and respect for the elderly is even more important. The essence should continue to be carried forward. This is everyone's duty and the requirement of conscience.
"Filial piety" is the oldest, most basic, most important and most far-reaching traditional moral concept in Chinese civilization.
In the "Book of Filial Piety", "filial piety" is clearly affirmed as "the foundation of virtue" and "the source of teaching", and is regarded by Confucians as "the core of benevolence". Without my grandmother, I would not be here today; without my grandmother, I would not be able to live out my remaining years. Grandfather and grandson are more dependent on each other.
For thousands of years, rituals such as "kowtowing", "kneeling down", "making the morning ceremony", "draping hemp and wearing filial piety" and "waking up the spirit" have always carried the content of the Chinese nation's "filial piety" civilization. In modern times, countries such as Japan, South Korea, and Singapore have strictly retained many traditional filial piety ceremonies and standards. For example, in South Korea, every New Year, every family must rush back to the home of the eldest brother, eldest son, or eldest grandson to worship their ancestors before the first day of the first lunar month, participate in the tea ceremony to worship ancestors, and pay New Year greetings to each other. When paying New Year greetings, the elders sit cross-legged, the younger generations kneel and kowtow in front of the elders, and the elders bow their heads and bow to the adult younger generations in reply.
"Certain content must be reflected in a certain way." Xia Xueluan does not deny the meaning of contemporary teenagers kowtow to their parents during the New Year. He said that it is still necessary to selectively restore some traditional social ceremonies that reflect the moral relationship between elders and younger children in the family. Specific methods are needed to promote filial piety.
In fact, the core of filial piety is to highlight the thinking of "gratitude", and it is really important to understand the value orientation behind kowtow. There are many ways to express love, and the way every old person feels warmth in their heart is also different. Filial piety and brotherhood cannot be neglected; the second is to do without disobeying parents; the third is to observe filial piety for parents; the fourth is to be filial at home and at home. Must be loyal.
Treating filial piety as a duty and responsibility can be consistent with obtaining good things from filial piety. And the former is exactly the source of the latter. For people with the lowest level of morality, when they think of the hardships their parents endured in dragging them into adulthood, the false alarms they endured, and the true love they gave to their loved ones, if they cannot fulfill their filial piety, they will feel deeply guilty and painful; If you can fulfill your filial piety and make your parents well-fed, healthy, energetic, and in a word, have a good life, won't you feel happy and happy because of it?
"Twenty-Four Pictures of Filial Piety" says that Confucius' Disciple Zilu, because his family was poor, often ate chaffy vegetables, "for relatives who lived hundreds of miles away". After the death of the old man, he "traveled south to Chu", "accumulated thousands of grains", and "eat from the tripods", but he sighed with emotion: Now even if he wants to go back to the time when he ate chaffy vegetables and "paid rice for his relatives". Month, can't do it either. Zi Luzhi lamented this not because he had a special habit of eating chaffy vegetables, but because after losing the possibility of filial piety, he had a strong longing for the family happiness of filial piety. The country has no worries, the people have no worries, the full moon is full of green mountains and the scenery is serene. The spring breeze blows across the nine continents. No need to worry about clothes, no need to worry about food, and the most important thing is that China has a white head. The high wind flows through the ages. In the hearts of many people who cannot care about loyalty and filial piety, it is a great regret not to be able to show filial piety or not to be able to show filial piety to them frequently. Therefore, whenever they have the opportunity to be filial to their parents, they always try to make up for it - not only making up for the lack of responsibilities, but also making up for the loss of happiness. It is precisely the crow that has the meaning of feeding back, and the sheep that kneels to breastfeed.
There is a kind of outlook on life that makes others happy. Since a person can get his own happiness from making others happy, then why should he feel happy because his filial piety brings happiness to his relatives? Acknowledging that filial piety is a blessing, in the final analysis, is also a blessing. That is to establish a correct outlook on life.
Under the circumstances at that time, "filial piety" included obedience, respect and understanding to parents and the older generation. Obedience is the first state of "filial piety". Being obedient and not making parents angry can be said to be filial; respect is reflected in the daily emotions and behaviors towards parents and the older generation, such as letting the older generation use chopsticks first when eating. When you go out, you have to say hello to your parents, inform them of your whereabouts and time to return home, etc.; understanding more refers to the understanding of "the hearts of parents in the world are pitiful". Even if your parents made a mistake and you suffered a little grievance, you still need to understand. Don't talk back on the spot, accept it temporarily and explain it later. To take hold of Mount Tai and cross the North Sea is impossible, but it is not impossible; to break branches for the old man is not possible, but not impossible.
Filial piety and respect for the elderly should be the essence of socialist moral construction and a reflection of social progress.
Let us act together to promote the practice of filial piety and respect for the elderly throughout society.
Sharing of famous sayings about respecting the elderly and being filial to relatives
1. If you want your children to be filial, you must first respect the elderly yourself.
2. The sunset is infinitely beautiful, and late love is a common thing in the world.
3. Supporting the elderly will last for a long time, and respecting the elderly will last for a long time.
4. Honor your parents and put love first.
5. Respecting life and the elderly means respecting one’s own future.
6. Whoever says nothing will be rewarded with three rays of spring.
7. The sun is bright and the parents are kind.
8. The greatest love for your parents is to take care of yourself.
9. Based on all virtues, respect for the elderly and filial piety come first.
10. Respect the old and love the young, be happy and smile, be content and happy and stay young forever.
11. Respect the fields and gain grain, respect the elderly and gain blessings.
12. A son does not think his mother is ugly, and a dog does not think his family is poor.
13. Support the old and carry the young to promote virtue, respect the old and love the young and be civilized.
14. Only when you are in charge of a household do you know how valuable firewood and rice are; only when you raise children do you know how kind your parents are.
15. Honor your parents at home and help the elderly when going out.
16. How you treat your parents will be how your children treat you.
17. Everyone is going to age, and everyone must respect the elderly.
18. Young people should not laugh at the white-headed man, everyone has sunset red.
19. Know how to respect others when you are young, and be respected by others when you are old.
20. Only by respecting the elderly can we respect ourselves. Respecting the elderly means respecting ourselves.
21. The kindness of parents is as deep as the ocean. Never forget the kindness of parents in life.
22. Leave your love to your parents and let happiness accompany the elderly.
23. A civilized family respects the elderly first, and a happy family is based on virtue.
24. Respecting the elderly means respecting oneself. The elderly today is their own tomorrow.
25. Today you are a son and daughter-in-law, tomorrow you are a parent; today you are filial, you will be filial tomorrow.
26. When honoring your parents at home, there is no need to burn incense far away; the happy smile of an old man is better than a panacea.
27. Respect your parents-in-law as your biological parents; love your uncle as your brothers and sisters.
28. Ginger is spicy and has more experience. Having an elder in the family is like having a treasure; respecting and loving the elders will always be remembered.
29. Respecting the elderly not only meets their material needs, but more importantly, takes care of the elderly spiritually.
30. Giving happiness to the elderly is giving yourself happiness; giving a sky to the elderly is giving yourself a green space.
Sharing two famous sayings about respecting the elderly and filial piety
1. Be careful, don’t get tired of being served day and night.
It means: Parents should be careful to support them when they go in and out (doors), and don’t get tired of serving them in the morning and evening. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors".
2. If you are filial to your parents, you will be a good son; if you are filial to your mother-in-law, you will be filial and virtuous.
It means: being filial to your parents means you are a good son, being filial to your father-in-law and mother-in-law can lead to a reputation of being both filial and virtuous. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors".
3. Disciples will be filial when they enter, and they will be younger when they leave.
It means: young disciples should honor their parents when they return home, and respect and love their brothers when they go out. From the (Spring and Autumn) "The Analects of Confucius·Learning is the First".
4. Don’t be slow when your parents call you; don’t be lazy when your parents order them.
It means: when parents call, you should answer quickly; when parents give orders, you should do it quickly. From Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations" (Qing Dynasty).
5. A husband’s filial piety is the law of heaven and the righteousness of earth.
Meaning: Filial piety is a natural and right thing to do. From "The Classic of Filial Piety".
6. Don’t be slow to answer the call, be sincere and cheerful.
Meaning: When parents call you, you should immediately agree, do not neglect, be sincere, and smile. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors".
7. Good food should be used by parents first, and good clothes should be worn by parents first.
It means: Give your parents good food first, and give your parents good clothes first. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors".
8. A poor family knows a filial son, and a country in chaos knows a loyal minister.
Meaning: Only when the family is poor can a true filial son be discovered; only when the country is in danger can a true loyal minister be identified. From "Collection of Famous Sages".
9. Those who are arrogant towards their relatives are those who disrespect their relatives.
Meaning: People who do not respect other people’s parents will certainly not respect their own parents. From "Three Kingdoms·Book of Wei".
10. Mencius said: "If you don't have relatives, you can't be a person; if you don't have relatives, you can't be a son."
Mencius said: "(In Shun's eyes) If a son does not get along well with his parents, he cannot be a good person; if a son cannot obey his parents in everything, he cannot be a son." From (Chun Qiu). "Mencius Li Lou Shang".
11. Mencius said: "When we are old, we are as old as others; when we are young, we are as young as others."
Mencius said: "Respect your elders and spread them out." Respect the elders of other people's families; caress your own children, and spread it to care for the children of other families." From "Mencius: King Hui of Liang" (Spring and Autumn Period).
12. Mencius said: "Kissing relatives is benevolence; respecting elders is righteousness."
Mencius said: "Loving parents is benevolence; respecting elders is righteousness." "From the (Spring and Autumn Period) "Mencius: Devoting Your Heart to the Best".
13. Mencius said: "Everyone loves his parents and grows up with them, and the world is peaceful."
Mencius said: "As long as everyone loves his parents and respects them, One's own elders, then the world will naturally be at peace." From "Mencius Li Lou Shang" (Spring and Autumn Period).
14. Don’t let your parents suffer from hard work, and don’t let your parents suffer from sorrow.
It means: Don’t let your parents suffer, don’t let your parents share your worries. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors".
15. If you like what you like, use your strength; if you dislike what you like, be careful to get rid of it.
It means: children should try their best to prepare things for their parents if they like them; things that their parents hate should be carefully removed for them. It is from "Disciple Regulations" by Li Yuxiu (Qing Dynasty).
16. If a relative has a fault, it is better to remonstrate. My color is calm and my voice is soft.
Meaning: Parents are at fault, advise them to change. Smile and speak softly. From Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations" (Qing Dynasty).
17. If you love me, it’s hard to be filial; if you love me and hate me, filial piety is a virtuous thing.
It means: My parents love me, so why should I be filial? If my parents hate me, but I still show my filial piety, I am virtuous. From Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations" (Qing Dynasty).
18. A virtuous wife will bring few troubles, and a son will be filial to his father and have a generous heart.
Meaning: If a wife is virtuous, her husband will have fewer disasters; if the children are filial, the parents will be happy. From Zengguang Xianwen (Ming Dynasty).