I recently watched "Parental Love" starring Guo Tao and Mei Ting. After watching them stumbling around and finally entering the bridal chamber, I suddenly thought of Li Yunlong, the protagonist of another classic TV series "Bright Sword" ( The love and marriage of Li Youbin) and Tian Yu (Tong Lei). Although comparing Li Yunlong and Jiang Defu is like Qin Qiong fighting Guan Gong, if you take a closer look, you will not only find it interesting, but you will also find some subtleties.
Li Yunlong was admitted to the military hospital because of his injury, and met the nurse Tian Yu. Although Li Yunlong is a rough guy, Tian Yu is still impressed by his heroic spirit and thinks he is majestic and bloody. Li Yunlong naturally fell in love with Xiao Tian, ??who took good care of him. When he left the hospital, in an almost domineering manner - a bit like a domineering president - he gave Tian Yu an ultimatum: Do you agree or disagree? Can you please be happy? If you don’t agree, I will leave immediately and will never pester you in the future. Just speak up! Love defeated the girl's shyness and reserve. Tian Yu put her arms around Li Yunlong's waist and agreed to marry him.
In this regard, Jiang Defu is not as omnipotent as Li Yunlong. He was reluctantly dragged to the dance party by his superiors, who also gave him a suitable partner. As a result, he fell in love with An Jie at first sight. However, Anjie, who was born as a capitalist, did not like him as an illiterate old man.
What happened to Jiang Defu next was something even the teacher Li Yunlong could not compare with. Anjie was hesitant, but her brother and sister-in-law were anxious. An Tai taught his sister a lesson after An Jie coldly talked to Jiang Defu on the phone. First, he said that Jiang Defu was the leader of the group, which showed that his superiors valued him, and then he said a wise saying - no culture does not mean no talent, and then concluded that Jiang Defu will have an unlimited future. The implication should be clear.
However, Li Yunlong, a dignified teacher, was disappointed in front of Tian Yu's family. Tian Yu's father, Tian Moxuan, first said that his daughter had read the Radical Book before joining the People's Liberation Army, and asked Li Yunlong to let Tian Yu come back (this sentence alone showed that Tian Moxuan did not understand the Communist Party at all). Then he asked about Li Yunlong's education level, and bluntly asked why Li Yunlong married his daughter. However, Tian Moxuan was quite courageous. After seeing Li Yunlong take out the gun, he still shouted his disapproval without changing his expression.
Of course, Li Yunlong pulled out the gun not because he wanted to hold him hostage, but because the old father-in-law couldn't argue with him about the future and was so angry that he called him an old master.
In this matter, Jiang Defu is much luckier than Li Yunlong. When he first went to An's house as a guest, An Tai and his wife called Peng Pi Sheng Hui and asked Jiang Defu to regard An's house as his home. Not only that, they also prepared a table full of sumptuous meals. In detail, there were thirteen dishes and one soup.
Even if Li Yunlong and Tian Yu got married later, they would not enjoy this kind of treatment. Not only that, his old father-in-law still spoke rudely, so much so that Li Yunlong slammed the table and said that this was simply counter-revolutionary and that he wanted to behead him. Ignoring the differences between him and his father-in-law, the Tian family prepared five dishes to entertain him and his companion Ding Wei (Wang Quanyou). Everything taken together shows that although Tian Moxuan agreed to the marriage between Tian Yu and Li Yunlong, he still did not approve of Li Yunlong deep down.
The subtlety is that in different eras, even if there is a high or low status, or a gap between rich and poor, the treatment or courtesy received are not the same. All the parties concerned can do is to stick to their hearts and pursue their own happiness.