Failed to enter the system and was broken up, does not mean there is no future.

Your future is in your hands. You can take advantage of the examination system. If you break up because of this, don't feel sorry or miss anything. The person you really want to be with all the time will encourage you, cheer you up, and supervise you to become better and not break up because of similar things. Such a person is not worthy and you will definitely meet someone who will consider your feelings more in the future.

The other half has no establishment. As a member of the system, should you break up or change your mind? You should follow your own heart more and consider the following four aspects:

First, consider the other person’s character. Falling in love and getting married are important events in everyone's life. The other person is the person who wants to accompany you hand in hand for the rest of your life. Therefore, character is the first thing that should be considered. No matter what job or position you are in, there will be sweet guys and bad guys, as well as good girls and bad girls. This requires us to open our eyes and carefully distinguish them. We cannot judge a person's character simply because of his job.

The second is to consider the economic income situation. There is a famous saying on the Internet: All relationships that are not for the purpose of marriage are hooligans! Although it is a joke, there is some truth to it. Therefore, the financial income of the other half is an issue that must be considered. The incomes of civil servants and public servants within the system are generally not high, that is, they are at the mid- to low-end level.

The third is to consider the issue of time. Whether you are falling in love or getting married and taking care of a family in the future, time is needed. Especially when you need to take care of children and the elderly, time freedom is particularly important.

The work of civil servants and business editors (including teachers) within the system is by no means as imagined by some people, just spending the day with a cup of tea and a newspaper. Most people within the system, especially People working at the grassroots level are very busy. It is common to work overtime, and even weekends and holidays are not guaranteed to be fully rested.