If the daughter cries from time to time and goes back to her mother's house and is wronged in her husband's house, can such a son-in-law and mother-in-law still be pleasing to the eye? As a mother, I certainly hope my daughter can marry happily, marry a reliable man and have a good home.
Nowadays, many mothers-in-law require their son-in-law to have a house before they can get married. If they think from the perspective of their mother-in-law, it is very understandable. After all, the cost of living is so high that it is better for a man to have a house and a foundation than for a daughter to work hard with a man!
Besides, according to the national conditions of China, when a daughter gets married, all the children born in the past take the man's surname, and the daughter has been raised for so many years. Why? Therefore, marrying a daughter has to go through layers of checkpoints, and the house is only the first level. The so-called son-in-law who meets the requirements of her mother-in-law is pleasing to the eye, otherwise, don't even think about it.
Since you live in China, you have to respect the national conditions. Don't blame your mother-in-law for being too powerful. If you can't meet the requirements, blame you for your incompetence!
The following is a mother-in-law's minimum warning to her son-in-law before marriage, telling them not to touch these three things all their lives. Mei Niang thinks it's well written! Let's study together and get some insights.
1, domestic violence Although my family is either rich or expensive, my daughter has never suffered anything since she was a child. We have been holding her in our hands for fear of falling, which is the apple of our eye. I hope that after you get married, you can be kind and loving, and you can love and protect her like us.
Although there are very few men hitting women now, I still want to mention that my daughter has never wanted to touch her since she was a child. If you touch my daughter's finger, I will spare you.
Besides, it is a shame for a man to hit a woman. Women are for pain, not for venting. We must remember this. In the life of husband and wife, domestic violence is absolutely zero tolerance.
2. Cheating I believe your feelings for my daughter now, but what I want to say is how to maintain your feelings after marriage. If you can do it well, you may not be able to manage your marriage well. Once there are emotional problems, it will directly affect the stability of marriage.
There are too many temptations outside now. If your relationship is unstable, I really don't feel at ease. You see, there are more and more cases of divorce because men cheat. So after you get married, you should take good care of yourself and don't do anything wrong to your wife, lest you regret it then.
Do you think men who cheat now will come to a good end? This is a high-voltage line, and the alarm will ring, so don't be careless. How much infidelity is the primary problem in marriage, so I hope your relationship can stand the test of time.
It is normal for couples to quarrel in the cold war. My daughter may have been spoiled since childhood. There are some minor problems. If you can make way, you can tell me if she has gone too far. I will talk about her.
However, as a man, you must be generous and don't be like a woman. How can you achieve great things? Don't be as knowledgeable as a woman in some small things, be more tolerant.
If you really quarrel or something, I can understand that there are no couples who don't quarrel. You can quarrel, but you must never fight. This is the bottom line. Besides, after a quarrel, as a man, you should first know how to bow your head, be flexible, and there is nothing shameful about bowing your head in front of your wife.
Remember, never have a cold war after a quarrel. Such cold violence does great harm to the feelings of husband and wife. If you have to fight, I hope you have a big fight and then quarrel at the end of the bed.
Mei Niang said: I think this mother-in-law is really awesome! As soon as I saw the three items she mentioned, I thought she was a great person! You may think it's vulgar to mention money and houses, but when it comes to this, it's the wisdom of people who are good at managing marriage! Every word in it is full of wisdom!
I also hope that this son-in-law will not live up to her mother-in-law's expectations!
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