Being someone's friend means that you automatically enter a circle of friends who often live together. It is difficult for you to become a member of a circle, because it requires you to make friends with most people in this circle.
In order to make you familiar with everyone in the circle, you will soon be invited to lunch (most people in the west have a light lunch). Even people you have only known for five minutes will invite you to their home.
Once you become a member of this circle, you are a true friend. You are expected to participate in group activities and spend a lot of time with friends in the circle. Sometimes, two circles will merge, and one circle will split into two because of different interests.
I know who you will say doesn't love money. But who have you ever heard say, "I can't associate with him because he has no money?" Really? I've heard it many times.
The richer you are in China, the friendlier people will be to you. Moreover, if a man wants to get married, he should have a house, a car and tickets. Asking if you have any RV money is a common question in China, even for foreigners.
I will always remember this famous saying about my expectations of my husband: "I would rather cry on a BMW than laugh on a bicycle."
Universal racial discrimination.
I can't remember how many times I saw a job advertisement that said "only white people". Even when I was soliciting customers in a club, there was a special rule that "every four people were given an extra bonus (excluding China people and blacks)".
Most of them advocate white people first. At the same time, they think that blacks are poorer than whites, so they don't want to make friends with blacks.
A friend of mine in China chatted with a Malagasy girl for a while, and then ran over to her boyfriend and said, "How can I make friends with black people?"
This is enough to explain the problem.
Why are you squatting on the toilet?
Why are you walking backwards?
Most people in China are rational, but there is little scientific proof that they believe in Chinese medicine and acupuncture.
The hair dryer blows all parts of the body, but not the hair.
Why go out in pajamas?
Why should I clean up the original decoration when I bought an apartment?
Why is Hainan's tourism reception industry unwilling to recruit Hainan locals?
The concept of red envelope
Explain to those who don't understand: a red envelope is a red envelope with money inside. Used for special activities, such as getting married, having children, going to school, Spring Festival, etc.
Well, I can understand that it is not a problem to give someone a gift after graduation. But now red envelopes are too rampant. For example, "Did you pass the exam? Come and give you a red envelope "or receive a red envelope from a friend on Valentine's Day ... What does this mean?
The red envelope trend even made WeChat deliberately add the red envelope function.