When people are alive, there are many troubles and troubles. Often when they encounter problems, they will hear a particularly familiar comfort: "Cross the bridge." Yes, everything has happened, and there will inevitably be a time to solve it, but the process is very painful and the parties are trapped in it. All the pain and anxiety are beyond the comprehension of outsiders. Without personal experience, how can you have a thorough understanding and comprehension? This sentence is true, but everyone understands the truth. After all, only a few people can be so calm. Obviously, it is a very difficult thing. Most people can't be so open-minded.

There is also a well-known saying that whenever a husband and wife quarrel and their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony, someone will always persuade them to "forget it, every family has its own problems." Every time I hear this sentence, I feel my ears are going to cocoon. In watching TV series, some people say this; Seeing someone quarreling in the community, others advised; When my husband and I quarreled, my mother-in-law was unhappy, and my friends said the same thing?

The world is vast, the motherland is beautiful, and countless small families make up everyone. More than one billion people live under the same roof, and people get along with each other for a long time, not to mention couples and mother-in-law. What's more, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship in China today, and it can be said that it is also one of the characteristics and problems of China.

I have many colleagues and friends, including the mothers in the community. What everyone talks about most together is the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is almost contradictory. Because of such and such things, there is no generation gap in people's minds in one generation, and there are many problems in getting along. Everyone has nothing to say to her mother-in-law, how wonderful and funny, but this kind of problem can't be solved. Everyone knows that every family can't help it, but no one can be patient and tolerant. A "forget it" is also a disagreement. It really doesn't matter if no one can do it.

Many things in life are simple and the reason is simple, but we just can't do it. The reason why we can't do it is simple: because we don't have the courage, the will and the perseverance to do such a thing well.

For example, the simplest thing: give up smoking. Everyone knows that smoking is harmful to health. This famous saying is clearly engraved on every pack of cigarettes. For example, in Chinese mainland, cigarette packages impressively read: Smoking is harmful to health. In Taiwan Province Province and other areas, sometimes you can see the warning that "smoking causes cancer" printed on cigarettes.

But even with this naked reminder, the number of smokers in China is still an astronomical figure. Don't these smokers realize the harm of smoking? Is it because they don't know how to protect their health? The answer is no.

Everyone knows this simple truth. But cigarettes, as a kind of spiritual consumer goods, provide each of us with something to soothe the spirit. Without it, you will feel something is missing. This feeling is irreplaceable in other ways. Unless, of course, we really quit smoking.

But things in the world are often easier said than done. Many smokers started smoking when they were young, and some quit smoking when they were young. But until the last moment of her life, he was still a smoker. This is not irony. Because he never really quit smoking once, and he never really quit smoking.

In fact, it is very easy to really quit smoking in life. Just two words: isolation. When you really separate from cigarettes, let you see cigarettes and never touch them again. When your decision not to smoke continues, you will naturally quit!

Therefore, although some things seem simple and easy to understand, they will not succeed without serious practice.

My logic is, which reasons are simple and why they are simple but difficult to do.

People are happy when they are alive. This truth is very simple, people live all their lives, why bother! But it's hard for me to do it, because I still have many innate responsibilities and obligations, and I have to do something unhappy.

It can be seen that even if the truth is hypothetical, even the simple truth should be divided into different situations. Life is alive, why stick to reason!

I broke up with the male ticket, and my friend said, don't get back together with my predecessor! This truth is very practical. But not long ago, I read a story about a girl whose boyfriend is a surgeon. During the operation, a wound was exposed to the blood of AIDS. My boyfriend concealed the matter and broke up. The girl didn't make any noise, so I rested. Three months later, my boyfriend finished the test, confirmed that he was not infected, and went to find a girl again. They got back together, got married and had children, and fell in love as before. This case does not conform to this truth.

There are also girls hanging out with boyfriends, and boyfriends commit domestic violence. After the girls broke up, their boyfriends knelt down and got back together. People around me also advised that a good horse should not turn back. The girl hesitated and was abused again after getting back together. It can be seen that the truth also varies from person to person.

The decision based on external and internal factors is the optimal solution. So, don't live by reason. But we must also distinguish whether the simple reason for not doing it is because it is inappropriate, too lazy to do it, or simply impossible. Don't take laziness as an excuse, but take diligence as a habit.

But some things can't be done. For example, I can't do the simple truth "Don't stay up late, it's harmful to health", so what? Life is alive, just be happy!