Love is sometimes simple. At the school gate of a primary school, in the rain and snow that fell one after another, the parents who picked up the children were so cold that they rubbed their hands and stamped their feet. Several grandfathers who came to pick up the children on tricycles were covered with snowflakes on their hair and eyebrows. Finally, the children are out of school, and the long-awaited grandfathers quickly put their grandchildren on the tricycle, take off their cotton coats and wrap them around the children in a hurry, and get on the bus and disappear into the vast snow ... < P > Love is sometimes very simple. At the home of a laid-off worker, because it is his grandson's birthday, there is a plate of braised prawns on the table tonight for the first time in a hundred years. Looking at the golden and oily prawns, Sun Tzu's eyes showed joy. Dad pretended not to see it, and gave Grandpa and Grandma the biggest one each. However, Grandma quickly picked up the prawn in her bowl and put it in the grandson's bowl, saying, "The prawn is not easy to digest, so I'll let Grandson help me destroy it." Grandson quickly picked it up and put it back in grandma's bowl: "Our family only eats prawns once a year. If grandma doesn't eat it, I won't eat it!" " In this way, everyone has a red and bright prawn in their bowl. This unusual meal of ordinary people brings such deep warmth to this family ... < P > Love is sometimes very simple. One morning, my wife got up first as usual and prepared breakfast for her husband and son like a gust of wind. Unlike yesterday's noodle soup and millet porridge the day before yesterday, today is a "foreign meal"-hamburgers and milk. But one day, my wife didn't feel well at night, and she opened her eyes the next day-oops, it's past the time to make breakfast! When she put on her clothes in a hurry and rushed into the kitchen, she was shocked-her husband was walking out with a bowl of noodle soup that she usually liked best, when she suddenly saw that she was busy stopping her feet and muttered, "The alarm didn't go off today, so I want you to sleep more." I got up first. I wonder if this piece of soup is to your taste ... "
2. Precious gift
Doc is a messenger. He always believes that his mission is to convey happiness to people. Therefore, he always has many small notes in his pocket with some encouraging words written on them. When he delivered letters and telegrams to people, he also left them a small note telling them "Today is a beautiful day", "Laugh often" and "Stop worrying".
During World War II, Doc was too old to join the army, but he volunteered to be a volunteer in a field hospital to help the hospital save lives.
One day, he had a whim and wrote a sentence on the wall of the hospital: "No one will die here." His behavior attracted everyone's attention. People in the hospital said that he was crazy, while others thought that this sentence was harmless and didn't need to be erased.
that sentence has been ignored and left on that wall. Later, not only the wounded, but also doctors and nurses, including the dean, gradually remembered this sentence.
In order not to let this sentence fail, the sick and wounded live strongly. Doctors and nurses try their best to give the patients the most meticulous treatment and care for this sentence. This hospital has become a strong hospital, and everyone's face has a look of hope and perseverance.
sometimes, it's not a giant who works miracles, maybe it's just an ordinary word. And an encouraging word is to give each other a free but precious gift. In our life, it is insignificant, but it is often as heavy as fate
3. Stone makes soup
Many years ago, three soldiers returned from the battlefield. Tired and hungry, they came to a village. Due to the continuous war, the villagers' harvest was very bad. They quickly hid what little food they had, and then went to the square to see the three soldiers. They lamented that they were short of clothes and food and could not entertain the soldiers with a full meal.
The soldiers whispered to each other for a while, and one soldier said, "You have nothing to eat for us, but we have something for everyone to share: we have a knack for making soup with stones."
the villagers are very curious. Soon they lit a fire and set up the biggest pot in the village. The soldiers put three smooth stones into the pot. "This can be cooked into delicious soup in a short while." The second soldier said, "However, if you put some salt and celery, it will taste more delicious." On hearing this, a village woman said, "What a coincidence! I just remembered where there was a little left. " The villagers remembered something one by one. In a short time, radish, beef and cheese were added to the cauldron. When everyone sat down to drink soup, someone pushed a bucket of wine.
The villagers gathered in the square, dancing and singing while eating until late at night. The next morning, when the three soldiers woke up, they found all the villagers standing around them, with a backpack of bread and cheese. "You gave us the most precious gift: the trick of making soup with stones," said an elder. "We will always remember it in our hearts."
The third soldier said to the crowd, "Actually, there is no trick. But one thing is certain, as long as everyone comes up with something, it can be a party for everyone to share. "
4. Suffering is a school
Gorky has a famous saying: "Suffering is a school". We should let our children know the real situation of the family and let her share some hardships, which is good for the children who grow up day by day ...
My daughter is 13 years old and is in the first grade of junior high school. This year, my old cow-pulled factory declared bankruptcy, and I became an unemployed person without a shift. The house leaked and it rained all night. My father was lying in the hospital with liver cancer, and the family's livelihood depended on his wife's meager salary.
When my father was not ill, his daughter was always the apple of his eye. When he came back from work, he always kept screaming "Lingling" and "Lingling". The daughter wants to buy a sports circle and immediately pays for the bag; I want to buy dance shoes, and I don't have to accompany her to the store. In short, my father's point of view is that "other children have it, so should our Lingling." At that time, Lingling always boasted to her classmates: "My grandfather is an engineer and loves me the most!" "
but now, the whole family situation has changed. In order to make up for my family expenses, I had to go out to clean people's shoes, and I had to tell my daughter that I was going to work. The ignorant daughter still wants this and that when she comes home from school.
On this day, my daughter saw that other children had goggles, and when she got home, she insisted on buying them. "Only a pair of 1 yuan money, you can't be too stingy!" Oh, my God, 1 yuan's money is a quarter of her mother's salary as a locksmith. I can only earn more than ten yuan a day polishing shoes. I really can't let her be extravagant. Because she didn't meet her daughter's requirements, she didn't even eat dinner, so she was shut up alone in the hut and cried for half a night.
The wife wiped her tears and said, "If her grandfather knows, I don't know how sad it will be. I'd better buy a pair for the child!" I shook my head: "Gorky has a famous saying,' Suffering is a school'. We should let our children know the real situation of the family and let her share some difficulties, which is good for children who grow up day by day." I knocked on my daughter's door and whispered to her, "Lingling, do you know what's wrong with grandpa?" It's liver cancer. The doctor said he wouldn't live for a year at the longest. Dad's factory has gone bankrupt, and he didn't go to work long ago. I help people polish their shoes outside every day, isn't it for this family? It's not that dad is cruel, we are really too difficult at present. "
My daughter stared at me and suddenly threw herself into my arms and burst into tears. It was a long time before she raised a pair of eyes full of remorse and said, "Dad, I'm not sensible. I'm too selfish. Please rest assured that I will definitely correct it in the future. "
In order to enhance my daughter's psychological endurance, the next day, I put a shoe-polishing stall at the gate of their school. When the wind blows, hide in the corner; It's raining, move to the eaves. One day after school, my daughter quietly came to my side and said tearfully, "Dad, I saw you all morning today, and you just helped people polish a pair of leather shoes."
from now on, my daughter never wants money to eat breakfast at the stall. She didn't like porridge at first, but now she calls her mother to cook porridge early in the morning, and says that she likes porridge cooked by her mother best. In the past, she used to pester her grandfather to go to the Children's Palace to take a bumper car every weekend. Now on Sunday, she takes the initiative to clean at home and run to the hospital to deliver soup and water to her grandfather. In the past, I used to buy exercise books for three days or two, but now I write them on the front and back ... < P > Not long ago, my daughter learned that Xiao Wei, a neighbor, failed in the senior high school entrance examination and spent 8, yuan to enter a key high school. She stopped watching TV every night, but bent over the desk in the small room to do her homework. Seeing that she often turns off the lights in the middle of the night, mother asked her to pay attention to rest. She said: "Our family conditions are not as good as Wei's. If our grades are not good, how can we afford to go to key high schools in the future?" I am suffering a little bit now, and I have laid a good foundation for all my lessons, which is equivalent to making money for my parents! "
Seeing that my daughter is becoming more and more mature and sensible day by day, my wife and I look at them with tears in our eyes, and there are unspeakable gratifications in our hearts
5. Three words of lifelong benefit
I have been my brother's "follower" since childhood. My brother won the first place in every exam, and I was as happy as I was. When you meet people, you say, "My brother is amazing. He always comes first in the exam." That kind of joy is beyond anyone's comprehension. Once my father said to me, "It's not like you won the first place in the exam. What are you happy about?"! Remember, don't show off yourself with other people's things! " So I remembered the first sentence about "showing off"-don't show off yourself with other people's things!
I will always get the first place in exams with my cleverness and diligence, and I will be secretly happy. I think everything has become small in my eyes. My classmates asked me questions, and I ignored them. I also curled my lips and said, "I can't even do such a simple question. You are so stupid. Look at me!" Just as I was triumphant, my father spoke again: "You can be confident, but you can't be proud. Remember, don't always show off yourself!" " So I remembered the second sentence about "showing off"-don't always show off yourself.
After entering the university, I won a prize in the chess competition organized by the school and took home a trophy. My nephew saw it and took it to play. He took the trophy and "bragged" with his little friends, saying how great his uncle was, and his friends immediately "worshipped him". My father saw it and said to me, "Don't let him take your things, it will only spoil him. Remember, don't let others show off your things! " So I remembered the third sentence about "showing off"-don't let others show off with your things!
What my father said was just three short sentences: It benefited me for life.