1. Learn to understand, because only by understanding others can you be understood by others; learn to be patient, because things have become reality and you cannot change them; learn to be tolerant, because who can live without faults and no one is perfect? People; learn to say no, because don't force things you can't do, and do what you can.

2. Believe in yourself, firmly believe in your goals, endure hardships and setbacks that ordinary people cannot bear, keep working hard and struggle, and success will eventually be yours!

3 , The sun will not stop rising tomorrow because of your frustration; the moon will not stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Covering one's own eyes does not mean that the world will be dark; covering other people's eyes does not mean that the light belongs to oneself!

4. If a person is unwilling to do small things, then it will be difficult to do big things. Success, Lao Tzu warns people, "Everything difficult in the world must be done easily, and big things in the world must be done in detail." If you want to succeed and be better than others, you must work more on small things. Success depends on the accumulation of bits and pieces.