Although everyone is working hard, some people have gained little, while others have achieved rapid growth, which is enviable. The difference between the two is whether they will follow the trend.
There is no shortage of hard-working people in this world, and it is most important to know how to grow up quickly with the trend.
The change of thinking, the rapid action and the improvement of ability also happen to be the growth brought by opportunities. As long as you make good use of it, a person's network of contacts can provide them with sufficient resources and strength, and your relatives, friends, acquaintances and even opponents can be used by you.
Xunzi, a famous thinker in the Warring States period, said: "Those who cheat horses are not good enough and cause thousands of miles;" Those fake boat people can't swim, but they can't swim. "
In real life, the qualifications of cattle people are not much better than those of ordinary people. The biggest difference is that they are good at using foreign things.
In ancient times, there were some sayings, such as "borrowing the wind to soar the clouds", "borrowing the corpse to revive the soul", "borrowing the belly" and "borrowing fame to catch profits".
"Borrowing power" and "borrowing chickens to lay eggs" all pay attention to the word "borrowing" and seek development with the help of external forces. Sailing out to sea and flying kites are all "good winds send me to Qingyun". And people's success also needs leverage.
As andrew carnegie famously said, "It's not that I have any extraordinary wisdom and ability. I am just good at uniting people who are more capable than me in some ways to work for me. "
When Hu Xueyan was an apprentice in a bank, he was not only clever but also diligent. His employer sent him to collect accounts and never made any mistakes, so he valued him very much.
One summer, Hu Xueyan saw a young man trying to throw himself into the river and hurried to save him.
I won't know until I'm rescued. Ask why.
This man's name is Wang Youling, and his father was framed as a magistrate in Yunnan and later came to Zhejiang.
He used his life savings to donate a false name of a salt envoy. He needed 300 taels of silver to make up the vacancy, but he was penniless before he wanted to throw himself into the river.
Hu Xueyan know after thought:
He is by no means an idle generation. If you give him a hand, he can help himself after he has achieved something, so with the help of his friends, he spent a year raising 300 taels to fill the vacancy.
After Wang Youling became an official, he introduced Hu Xueyan to an imperial envoy. Knowing that Beijing needed food, Hu Xueyan immediately delivered 100,000 Jin of food to Beijing, which solved the food shortage in Beijing and won the emperor's award.
In this way, Hu Xueyan gradually opened up commercial routes.
Later, when he opened a bank, he gave every wife and aunt of Zhejiang officials 20 taels in the bank for free.
After the opening of the business, the wife of Pan Taigui, the governor of Liangjiang, learned about it and deposited several hundred taels in the bank. Other officials' wives have also saved a lot, and his bank is known to more and more people.
After his death, he got in touch with Zuo and sent 6,543.8+0,000 Jin of relief food. In the end, he became a hot figure in the shopping mall and the only red-topped businessman in history.
It is through constant publicity that Hu Xueyan has expanded its business step by step.
Churchill said: "There are no eternal friends and enemies, only eternal interests." Making good use of external forces is the winner. Self-reliance and self-improvement, without excluding external forces, is an indispensable state of successful thinking.
Successful people in history have taken the success of "learning from the wisdom and strength of others" to the extreme.
Zhuge Liang is good at using force of nature such as Dongfeng Rocket to enlarge his power by 10 times and 100 times.
Liu Bang is good at borrowing people's strength. For example, he used Sean to strategize and win the wisdom thousands of miles away. Borrow Xiaohe to do logistics work, send food and grass, and ensure continuous supply capacity; With Han Xin's million-strong army, we can win the battle and gain the ability to attack. Liu bang won the world because he knew how to borrow the power of others. Xiang Yu had only one Fan Zeng, an old man who didn't know how to borrow money, so he was finally destroyed!
As the saying goes, "Two heads are better than one." Smart people are flexible and don't stick to their own ideas. But be open-minded and eager to learn. Open the door, coach.
"The life of a gentleman is different, and the goodness lies in personal leave." Smart people are good at doing their best, doing their best, making full use of others, and being good at "borrowing" ladders to win the pyramid of success step by step.
In the traditional class model, the head teacher should be a "three diligent" teacher who is diligent in mouth, legs and eyes. It is true that teachers who love their jobs and are dedicated deserve respect, but the efficient management model with twice the result with half the effort is even more commendable. As we all know, human beings have evolved because of "borrowing", and the innovation of modern class management is an urgent task to improve the actual effect. Learning "borrowing" is an art of modern class management. Cleverly borrowing "external force" and integrating resources will bring brand-new work experience to the head teacher.
In the management of class teachers, some experts believe that class teachers should learn to "borrow" skillfully:
1. Borrow from students.
Show weakness to children: the master of the class is him, the master of learning is her, the master of success is him and her, and the teacher is only a supporting role in companionship and service. Do a good job in the present and take a good step. As long as everyone gathers together and Qi Xin works together, we can make the class better and meet ourselves better on the way forward.
Tell children: to show their own light, you don't have to blow out the light of others. Success needs the help of nobles and the encouragement of opponents. The competition between classmates is the best "borrowing power" from each other.
2. Borrow the strength of the teacher.
Fully mobilize the active guiding role of classroom teachers to further form educational synergy;
3. Borrow the strength of parents.
It is by no means a myth to entrust many class affairs to parents, let parents and friends actively participate in the top-level design and implementation of class development, and become specific planners, participants and even executors of class affairs, shoulder to shoulder with teachers and join hands with children to get twice the result with half the effort.
4. borrow money from internet plus
It opens a wonderful window for modern education and teaching: advanced teaching concepts, now learning and now using; Open platform method for your use; The avant-garde schools contend and teach you to think; Leverage science and technology to open up a new world of education.
Create a class blog; Create an official class WeChat account; Create a home school WeChat platform; Create a spiritual home for students, a supermarket for knowledge, a paradise for learning, and open up a second classroom for children to grow up freely. Campus life is rich and colorful, and students are wonderful. Shoot video attendance records and release platform parents' music; Keep the blog, broadcast it at any time, and it will be more fun to remember it for a few years; Good memories are often shared, and happiness conveys love all over the sky!
Only by learning leverage can we reduce the pressure and become an excellent professional class teacher.
A troublesome problem that one person can't solve, with the help of the wisdom, experience and strength of others, can be solved together, and the problem may become much easier to solve or even become a problem.
There is a concept in Tai Ji Chuan's attack and defense techniques called "borrowing power", which means that the attacker is frustrated by his reaction rather than taking the initiative to attack.
A person's strength is likely to be weak; More often, we need to borrow money from others and the outside world to leverage more resources for our own use and make ourselves stronger.
Mao Zedong believes that the correct use of manpower is the most powerful guarantee to tap human potential. In his life, Mao Zedong was the best at using people's power. Because he knows that borrowing the power of others is to use the power of good people. Once the power of good people is used, the power of others will continue to contribute. The mass line advocated by Mao Zedong should be established in this way.
As the saying goes: "A hero has three gangs, and a fence has three piles." The social division of labor is becoming more and more detailed, more and more experts are proficient in narrow fields, and less and less generalists are omnipotent. Therefore, if a person wants to achieve something, he should not rely on his own efforts, but should seek cooperation and widely "borrow". Only in this way can we achieve something.
Today is an era in which cooperation and competition coexist. We should be good at learning from others' strengths, draw strength from others and improve ourselves with an open mind.
On the road of growth, it is very important to work hard by yourself, but sometimes with the help of external forces, you can overcome your limitations. Internal forces and external forces come together to form a joint force, which is more conducive to your own development.