Tolerance is an attitude towards dealing with others. It means bearing humiliation and giving in to others. It is an upward attitude and a kind of demeanor.

A loving couple that everyone admires has been together for 50 years, and their love for each other is still the same. Fifty years have not allowed their love to fade in the slightest.

Someone asked: "How did we get through the 50 years together?"

She answered with one word: "Endure."

Asked him, he One word answer: "Give."

Tolerance is easy to say, but not so easy to do. After all, 50 years does not last overnight. She said, it's not difficult at all. If you think more about him in everything, wouldn't there be less resentment? He said, it's very simple, let her do what she likes, and give her a piece of her own sky.

Every time you tolerate is an achievement. There are countless famous sayings about patience. "Take a step back and the sky will be brighter, and endure a moment of calm." "A general can run a horse on his forehead, and a prime minister can punt a boat in his belly." "If you can endure a moment of anger, you can avoid a hundred days of worry." These are all interpretations of the state of tolerance. All this shows that tolerance is a kind of wisdom, tolerance is a kind of cultivation, tolerance is a kind of grace, and tolerance is a virtue.

The Buddha said: Everything requires the word "tolerance". Only by tolerating what others cannot tolerate can you become a master.

In life, patience is the most important thing. You must be patient at home, you must be patient when you make a living, and you must be patient when you are an official. Forbearance is really a profound way of life. Small forbearance can avoid disputes, while great forbearance can reduce big problems to small ones, make yourself aware of everything, and cultivate your moral character.

The younger brother of Lou Shide, the prime minister of the Tang Dynasty, was going to take office in Daizhou Governor's Mansion. Before leaving, Lou Shide said to his brother: "I don't have much talent. I am now the prime minister, and now you are in Dezhou." Official, if you get too much, it will arouse the jealousy of others. How should I deal with it?" His brother replied: "If someone spits on my face from now on, I won't say anything and just wipe it off myself." Lou Shide said. : "This is exactly what I'm worried about you. That person spat at you out of anger, and you wiped it off. This is a way to resist that person's anger. If you don't wipe the spit, you will do it yourself. It's better to laugh and accept it. ."

Lin Xiangru endured Lian Po's pressing behavior. Because he understands that the country is in a critical moment, and if internal strife breaks out at this time, it will lead to the destruction of the country. He is patriotic and tolerant. Faced with this situation, he resolutely gave up personal gains and losses to protect the interests of the country, and also left a reputation as a "general and prime minister".

Lin Xiangru, a generous literati, cultivated the virtue of "the prime minister's belly can punt a boat" because of his large number, and also taught the world the principle of tolerance in life.

In life, we often see situations where the parties involved do not know how to tolerate, which leads to quarrels, curses, fights, and even bloody conflicts. Sometimes it's just being stepped on in a public place, or saying something inappropriate; sometimes it's just being squeezed on a bus to fight for a seat in the subway, which may lead to a verbal war or fist drill. the trigger.

Here, we listen to the profound conversation between two eminent monks.

Hanshan asked Shide: "How should I deal with people who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, underestimate me, despise me, hate me, or lie to me?"

Shide smiled and said: "Just tolerate him, let him, let him, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, you will see him in a few years."

This is really true. Wonderful! Forbearance is a broad mind, a spirit that tolerates everything; forbearance is a virtue. If you want to achieve a great cause, you must endure hardships that ordinary people cannot endure, and endure hardships that ordinary people cannot tolerate; forbearance is a kind of virtue. Strategy, in order to achieve big things, be patient in small things, and be able to bend and stretch, only then can you have foresight, wisdom and patience. "Forbearance" is a knife in the heart. If you can endure it, you can eliminate disasters and avoid them. If you can endure it, you can be calm. If you can endure it, you can be invincible. If you can endure it, you can turn danger into safety. If you can endure it, you can turn danger into good fortune.

It can be said that every tolerance in life is an achievement. There are countless examples, both at home and abroad, of ancient and modern times where great achievements were achieved because of the ability to "endure".

Kangxi was the third son of the Qing Dynasty ancestor. He ascended the throne at the age of 8, but the power fell into the hands of Obai. Obai was authoritarian and good at governing, and did not take the young Kangxi seriously. Kangxi suppressed his anger, secretly made up his mind, and waited for the opportunity. He usually pretends to be playful and does not care about government affairs. He learns wrestling in order to hide his identity from others, but in fact he is practicing martial arts for his own soldiers. Ao Bai said he was ill and could not go to court, so Kangxi personally came to express his sincerity to express his sincerity. The purpose was to stabilize his opponent, and at the same time observe the true situation and find out the truth.

After several years of preparation, Kangxi felt that the time was ripe to overthrow Obai, so he lured Obai into the palace and captured him and his minions. Kangxi was only 16 years old at this time.

Kangxi's victory was because he knew how to tolerate at a young age, and tolerance sharpened his will and increased his wisdom, making him eventually become an outstanding figure who "strategized and won decisively thousands of miles away" politician.

We live in society and deal with all kinds of people every day. Moderate tolerance is of great benefit to us in maintaining a happy mood. Every tolerance is an achievement and an indispensable quality for a happy life.

——Excerpted from "You in the future will definitely be grateful to your hard-working self now"