1. Ceng Zi said, "I visit myself three times a day. Is it cheating for others? Don't believe in making friends? Can't you learn? "
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& lt Ceng Zi said, "I have to reflect on myself many times every day. Do I try my best to plan things for others? Are you sincere in your dealings with friends? Have you reviewed what the teacher taught you? "
2. Confucius said, "Those who don't know themselves don't suffer, but those who don't know them also."
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Confucius said, "I'm not worried that others don't know me, but I'm worried that I don't know others."
3. Confucius said, "It's far from resentment to blame others lightly for defeating others."
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Confucius said, "Blame yourself more and others less, and resentment will naturally not come."
4. Yan Yuan asked Ren. Confucius said, "Self-denial and courtesy are benevolence. A day of self-denial and self-denial, the world will return to benevolence. For benevolence, for yourself, for people? "
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Yan Yuan asked how to be kind. Confucius said, "Restrain yourself and do everything according to the requirements of etiquette. This is benevolence. Once you do this, people all over the world will recognize you as a kind person. The practice of benevolence is entirely in oneself, but is it still in others? "
5. Confucius said, "A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others."
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A gentleman is strict with himself, while a villain is strict with others.
6. Xia Zi said, "erudite and determined, inquisitive and thoughtful, and benevolence is among them."
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Xia Zi said, "Being well-read and learning from others, being able to stick to one's ambition, ask questions seriously and think more about current problems, is one of them."
7. Confucius said: "See the sage Si Qi Yan, see the sage and introspect."
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When you see a virtuous person, you should think about learning from him. When you see a man without virtue, you should reflect on whether there are any mistakes like him.
8. Confucius said, "Is it right to learn from time to time?" Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? Ignorance and dissatisfaction are not gentlemen? "
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Confucius said, "Isn't it pleasant to review after learning?" Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? People don't know me, but I'm not angry. Isn't that a gentleman? "
9. Confucius said, "In a threesome, there must be a teacher. Choose good and follow it, but change it if it is not good. "
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Many people go together, and one of them must be my teacher. We should choose their advantages to study and pay attention to correcting their shortcomings, if any.
10. Confucius said, "A gentleman talks but doesn't do it."
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Confucius said, "A gentleman is cautious, cautious, diligent and sensitive."
1 1. Zi Gong said, "A gentleman is mistaken as the sun and the moon. Too many, everyone has seen it; What's more, everyone is very admired. "
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Zi Gong said, "A gentleman's fault is like an eclipse: when there is a fault, everyone can see it;" When it was corrected, everyone looked up. "
12. Confucius said: "Quality is better than literature, and literature is better than quality. Gentleness is a gentleman. "
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Confucius said, "Simplicity is more than literary talent, which is quite rude;" Literary talent is not only simple, but also vain. Simple literary style and proper cooperation are the only way to be a gentleman. "
13. Ceng Zi said: "A gentleman makes friends by writing and helps others by friendship."
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Ceng Zi said, "A gentleman gathers friends with articles and knowledge, and helps cultivate himself with friends."
14. Confucius said, "No common goal, no common goal."
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If you disagree, don't consult each other.
15. Confucius said, "The winner has three friends, but the loser has three friends. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends will be broken, friends will be soft, friends will be destroyed, and friends will be damaged. "
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